Why is it that everyone becomes "a saint" after they take their final breath? For many years people might hold a grudge and stop all communications with another person. When tragedy hits, all of a sudden whatever the grudge was about, it does not exist anymore. After someone is gone, it is too late to reconcile. So, I ask, what is so important about that argument, misunderstanding, disappointment, judgement, feeling, or whatever has kept you from a loving relationship with another person? Perhaps, it is not the other person… Perhaps it is us. We may need to learn how to accept others for who they are without excommunicating them. I will share tips on how to forgive and love UNconditionally.