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  • Episode 023: JV Hilliard - publishing, legacy, inspiration

    We're thrilled to be joined by JV Hilliard, a best-selling author known for his epic and dark fantasy novels, including The Warminster Saga. From his early inspirations shaped by family and Dungeons & Dragons to navigating the complexities of the publishing world, JV shares his creative journey, insights on storytelling, and thoughts on leaving a lasting legacy. Whether you’re a fantasy enthusiast, a writer, or simply someone fascinated by the art of moving from government to creative endeavors, this episode has something for you.

    To learn more about JV and his work:

    http://www.jvhilliard.com/
    Twitter: @jvhilliardbooks
    Insta: @JVHilliardbooks
    FB: J. V. Hilliard
    TikTok: @JVHilliardbooks
    Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/jvhilliardcom

    Here are some highlights that you can look forward to from today’s episode:

    1. The Origins of a Storyteller: JV Hilliard reflects on growing up in a close-knit, blue-collar family in Pittsburgh, where his uncle, a quadriplegic Marine and writer, inspired his love for storytelling and fantasy.

    2. The Influence of Dungeons & Dragons: Discover how decades of gameplay and serving as a Dungeon Master shaped JV’s narrative skills and became the foundation for his novels.

    3. From Politics to Fantasy: JV shares his transition from a high-pressure career in defense lobbying to becoming a full-time fantasy author during the COVID-19 pandemic.

    4. Navigating the Publishing World: Learn about JV’s unconventional path to publication, the role of developmental editors, and the challenges of creating a multi-book series.

    5. Building a Legacy Through Creativity: JV opens up about his aspirations for his work to endure beyond his lifetime, emphasizing the immortal nature of storytelling.

    As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.

    If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

    If you would like to support LilyList:

    Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

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    PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=M8W4BRLCYFYVJ

    Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

    45 min
  • Episode 022: 2024 Rewind - gratitude, gratitude, gratitude

    Welcome to the 2024 end of year wrap-up of the LilyList Podcast. Our goal is still to be a handbook for the living, but in this episode, we let NotebookLM take the lead on recapping the journey thus far. We are thankful for each and every guest and listener who shared their story, supported our work, and helped us understand what is important, why stories and legacies are important, and how we can better serve our audience going forward.

    We are excited to announce the LilyList concierge and self-guided experiences will be launching in the first quarter of 2025. You can visit our website at lilylist.com to learn more about them. Our sincere hope is that creating simple but powerful tools will help foster a movement where each of us can capture our own valuable stories and leave behind a legacy that connects with people we will never meet.

    The podcast, of course, will continue on. Our first guest interview in 2025 will be with writer and entrepreneur JV Hilliard. We’re very much looking forward to sharing that conversation with all of you.

    As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.

    If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

    If you would like to support LilyList:

    Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

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    PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=M8W4BRLCYFYVJ

    Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

     

    14 min
  • Episode 021: Thomas Brown - growth, self-awareness, connection

    In this episode, we connect with Thomas Brown—a writer, cyclist, and mental health advocate whose journey of loss, self-awareness, and resilience has shaped an extraordinary perspective on life. Thomas shares how personal trauma, including the loss of his brother to suicide, set him on a transformative path of emotional growth, creative exploration, and impactful action. From walking across the country to riding 7,000 miles for suicide awareness, Thomas reveals the lessons learned, the importance of self-awareness, and his inspiring vision for leaving a meaningful legacy.

    Tune in as we explore his profound insights on emotional wellness, the complexities of codependency, and the healing power of storytelling.

    To learn more about Thomas and his work:

    http://www.risephoenix.org/

    Here are some highlights that you can look forward to from today’s episode:

    1. Embracing Self-Awareness: Thomas discusses how therapy helped him confront his codependency and emotional struggles, ultimately transforming his life.

    2. A 7,000-Mile Journey for Suicide Awareness: The story of how a cross-country bike ride became a platform for healing and connection with others who had experienced loss.

    3. Lessons from Trauma: Why it’s crucial to grow from grief rather than becoming defined by it, as shared through Thomas’s journey.

    4. The Role of Creativity in Healing: Thomas’s perspective on how art, storytelling, and creating meaningful work play a vital role in personal transformation.

    5. Legacy through Awareness: His vision for creating a curriculum to foster self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and compassion from a young age.

    As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.

    If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

    If you would like to support LilyList:

    Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

    Buy Lily a coffee - https://buymeacoffee.com/mediaxz
    PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=M8W4BRLCYFYVJ

    Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

    37 min
  • Episode 020: Nancy Dillingham - transformation, creativity, community

    In this inspiring conversation, we catch up with Nancy Dillingham, whose journey from a successful corporate career to becoming a passionate glass artist and business owner is a testament to her resilience, creativity, and self-discovery. Nancy shares how she found her artistic voice later in life, built a thriving studio—Glass Arts Collective—and the lessons she learned along the way.

    This episode is packed with wisdom about redefining creativity, embracing second acts, and making a meaningful impact through art and community. Whether you're looking to make a career shift, reignite your creativity, or simply hear a heartfelt story of transformation, this episode has something for you.

    To learn more about Nancy and her work:

    https://www.glassartscollective.com/
    https://www.instagram.com/glassartscollective
    https://www.youtube.com/@glassartscollective
    https://www.facebook.com/glassartscollective

    Here are some highlights that you can look forward to from today’s episode:

    1. From Corporate to Creative: Nancy’s transition from a corporate career in technology to running a glass art studio and rediscovering her creative potential.

    2. Building the Glass Arts Collective: How Nancy launched her studio just before the pandemic and turned challenges into opportunities to grow and serve her community.

    3. The Therapeutic Power of Art: The mental health benefits of working with fused glass and how art can be a calming and restorative escape for individuals.

    4. Nurturing Creativity in Others: Nancy’s work with local artists to showcase their creations and provide opportunities for them to shine through her studio and gift shop.

    5. Lessons in Life and Legacy: Insights from Nancy’s journey about perseverance, community impact, and building a life of purpose that leaves a lasting mark.

    Nancy’s story reminds us that it’s never too late to discover new passions, embrace change, and make a positive difference in the lives of others. Dive in to hear her incredible journey!

    As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.

    If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

    If you would like to support LilyList:

    Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

    Buy Lily a coffee - https://buymeacoffee.com/mediaxz
    PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=M8W4BRLCYFYVJ

    Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

    38 min
  • Episode 019: Suzanne Goodell - courage, reflection, gratitude

    Welcome to this special release of the LilyList Podcast. In this episode, we honor the life and legacy of Suzanne Goodell, who passed away on November 1, 2024. Suzanne was a woman of grace, resilience, and purpose, whose journey through life was marked by a deep commitment to family, community, and personal growth. In this moving conversation, Suzanne reflects on her experiences—from a rich career in healthcare administration, a commitment to raising a wonderful family, and her courageous battle with cancer.

    More than just an interview, this episode is a tribute to Suzanne’s legacy and the values she held dear. It’s a heartfelt reminder of the importance of living with intention, creating lasting connections, and finding joy even in life’s most challenging moments.

    if you would like to honor Suzanne, please donate in her name to:

    The Summit Rotary Foundation Inc.

    P.O. Box 3601
    Greensboro, NC 27402

    – Or –

    Church World Services, attn. Mary Ellen Poe

    330 South Greene Street second floor
    Greensboro, NC 27401 or cwsgreensboro.org

    Highlights from our conversation:

    1. A Legacy of Education and Resilience: Suzanne’s upbringing, the influence of her parents, and how those values shaped her approach to education and life.

    2. A Life of Service and Advocacy: Her impactful career in healthcare administration and advocacy work, including her time with Planned Parenthood and Blueprint for Excellence.

    3. Navigating Family and Career: Balancing her professional ambitions with raising three children and building a life with her husband, Jim.

    4. Facing Cancer with Grace and Purpose: Suzanne’s candid reflections on her health journey, the importance of living intentionally, and her plans to leave a meaningful legacy.

    5. The Celebration of Life: Suzanne’s unique vision for her celebration of life, blending her love of community and cherished traditions, like her collection of “Granny China.”

    As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.

    If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

    If you would like to support LilyList:

    Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

    Buy Lily a coffee - https://buymeacoffee.com/mediaxz
    PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=M8W4BRLCYFYVJ

    Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

    48 min
  • Episode 018: Cathy Nesbitt - independence, discovery, and joy

    In Episode 18 of the LilyList Podcast, we dive deep into personal journeys, impactful life choices, and the legacies we create along the way. Our guest is Cathy Nesbitt, a vibrant entrepreneur and educator whose passion for sustainability, laughter, and mindfulness has shaped a life full of meaningful contributions. From her early love of nature to pioneering worm composting and becoming an advocate for laughter yoga, Cathy’s story is one of resilience, discovery, and joy. In this episode, we’ll explore how she turned challenges into opportunities and developed practices that enrich not only her life but also the lives of others.

    To learn more about Cathy and her work, visit https://www.cathysclub.com/

    Here are five highlights from today’s conversation:

    1. Finding Inspiration in Childhood: How Cathy’s early experiences with family dynamics and camping shaped her love of nature and resilience.
    2. The Worm Business: Cathy’s journey to launching a worm composting business and the surprising challenges of changing perceptions about worms.
    3. Discovering Laughter Yoga: The pivotal moment that led Cathy to laughter yoga and how it transformed her perspective on stress and joy.
    4. Creating a Lasting Legacy: Cathy’s thoughts on legacy, from environmental advocacy to inspiring others to live fully and intentionally.
    5. Practical Tips for Mindfulness: Simple, effective strategies Kathy uses to start and end her day with gratitude and balance.
    6. Get ready for an uplifting conversation packed with inspiration, actionable insights, and a reminder to embrace the joy in life. Let’s dive in!

      As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to see us cover in the future.


      If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing wherever you listen.

       

      If you would like to support LilyList:

      Ko-Fi - https://ko-fi.com/lilylist

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      Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

      34 min
    7. Episode 017: Petar Krastev - resilience, transformation, and purpose

      In this episode, we’re joined by Petar Krestev, a resilient and inspiring entrepreneur whose journey from a challenging childhood in Bulgaria to building a fulfilling life and business is nothing short of remarkable. Petar opens up about his struggles with loneliness, financial hardship, and finding his own path against all odds. From being forced to live in a garage to discovering faith and purpose, his story is one of strength, humility, and unwavering commitment to becoming a better person. He’s now dedicated to creating positive change for younger generations in Bulgaria, aiming to leave a legacy far beyond financial success. Join us as Petar shares the raw and real moments that have defined his journey and how he hopes to serve his community as he goes forward.

      To learn more about Petar and his work, visit https://www.pk.coach/

      Episode Highlights:

      • Petar’s early life in Varna, Bulgaria, growing up amid economic challenges and lack of role models.
    8. The difficult relationships that tested Petar’s character and led to transformative life lessons.
    9. His experiences of extreme hardship and loneliness while working in the UK, from working in corrupt car washes to living in a garage.
    10. How discovering faith and finding purpose through fitness and health helped him reshape his life.
    11. Building resilience and inner strength through adversity and learning to ask questions over assuming answers.
    12. Petar’s perspective on faith and personal responsibility as pillars of a meaningful life and legacy.
    13. As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform.You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to hear or see in the future.


      If you’d like to support the work of LilyList, you can donate using the links in the description and if you find these conversations meaningful, we thank you for liking, following, sharing, or subscribing - depending on where you listen.

      If you would like to support LilyList:

      Buy Lily a coffee - https://buymeacoffee.com/mediaxz
      PayPal - https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=qXjS_zvd2gnNrik08LL5UZQzPlAgNnoOH4UyJPP-ylFb4EYZkrXFa6sbau9rU83l7utXzwxHgcJxYpHg

      Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

       

      45 min
    14. Episode 016: Ginger Gleason - love, service, and legacy

      In today's episode, we have the pleasure of speaking with Ginger Gleason, a dedicated nurse and mother who has spent nearly two decades in the healthcare industry. Ginger's journey from her experience growing up in Greensboro, North Carolina to becoming a nurse is filled with personal and professional transformations. After experiencing the pivotal moment of her daughter's complicated birth, Ginger found her calling in nursing and has since become a passionate advocate for holistic care, always focusing on helping others.

      Ginger shares her wisdom on balancing family life with a demanding career, what it means to be a healthcare professional during times of crisis like COVID-19, and the importance of considering our legacy both in life and beyond. She offers invaluable insights on how to make healthcare decisions that ease the burden on loved ones and how creating a legacy through actions, no matter how small, can have a profound impact. We are grateful to Ginger for sharing her inspiring story and reflections on love, service, and leaving a lasting legacy.

      Episode Highlights:

      • Ginger’s Early Life: Growing up in Greensboro, NC, in a tight-knit but diverse family, with a blend of country and city influences.
    15. A Life-Changing Moment: How the complications surrounding the birth of her daughter inspired her to pursue a career in nursing.
    16. Holistic Approach to Care: Ginger emphasizes how nursing goes beyond physical care to address mental and spiritual well-being.
    17. Challenges in Healthcare: Coping with the emotional toll of the COVID-19 pandemic and how it reshaped her view of healthcare and human resilience.
    18. Balancing Work and Family: Her candid reflections on how she maintained a balance between work and family, particularly as a mother and wife.
    19. Planning for the Future: Advice on healthcare power of attorney, medical proxies, and why it’s important to plan for the future, even when you’re young.
    20. Legacy and Service: Ginger shares her thoughts on how she wants to be remembered and how she uses her passion for nursing to create a legacy of selflessness and care.
    21. As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to hear or see on the platform. To support the work of LilyList, please donate using the links below and if you find these conversations meaningful, please follow, share, like and subscribe. Thanks for listening.

      If you would like to support LilyList:

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      Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

       

      32 min
    22. Episode 015: Chris Pappalardo - resilience, growth, and reinvention

      We sat down with Chris Pappalardo and explore the powerful journey of a man who has reinvented himself time and time again. From his early days growing up in a challenging family environment, to his pursuit of music, and later, his successful career in real estate, Chris shares how his life experiences—both personal and professional—have shaped his outlook on life and legacy. We discuss his marriages, the lessons he learned from love and loss, and how those relationships influenced his career choices and personal growth. Whether reflecting on the highs and lows of his music career or rebuilding after bankruptcy, Chris opens up honestly about resilience, the importance of family, and his ongoing mission to leave a meaningful legacy for his son and others.

      This episode is full of heartfelt insights on balancing ambition, relationships, and the lessons life teaches along our way.

      To learn more about Chris and his work:

      Chris Pappalardo Team on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChrisPappalardoTeam

      CPT Wealth Building (submit a request to join): https://www.facebook.com/groups/476658501269796

      Chris Pappalardo Youtube Channel - Real Estate Investing: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuhb25Sh0iPo6RXo65-0yJecnQ3GGLKor

      Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-pappalardo-a001104/

      About Chris: https://chris.pappalardoteam.com/agent-profile/chris-pappalardo-13857184

      Episode highlights:

      • Family and Childhood Influences: Chris discusses growing up in Richmond, Virginia, the impact of his parents’ challenging relationship, and how it shaped his early understanding of family and responsibility.
    23. Navigating ADD: Chris shares his experiences with undiagnosed ADD in his younger years and how discovering it later in life changed his ability to focus and excel in his career and personal life.
    24. First Marriage and Growth: He reflects on his first marriage, how his personal development led to growing apart, and the challenges of navigating a spouse’s struggle with alcoholism.
    25. Music Career: Chris recounts his passion for music, from playing with local bands to touring with major artists. He explains how he eventually realized that even professional success in music didn’t bring the personal fulfillment he sought.
    26. Transition to Real Estate: After his first marriage ended and facing financial hardships, Chris shares how he rebuilt his life by transitioning into real estate and how those lessons in resilience paid off.
    27. Second Marriage and Fatherhood: He talks about finding new love with his second wife, Amy, and how their partnership brought balance into his life as they raised their son together and co-parented through life’s ups and downs.
    28. Legacy and Reflection: Chris discusses his approach to legacy, both in his professional career and as a father, and how he now defines success in terms of impact rather than financial gain.
    29. As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to hear or see on the platform. To support the work of LilyList, please donate using the links below and if you find these conversations meaningful, please follow, share, like and subscribe. Thanks for listening.

      If you would like to support LilyList please share, subscribe, and / or like on whatever platform you are listening. Or, you can use the links below to make a donation:

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      Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

      58 min
    30. Episode 014: Dr. Kim Harms - personal adversity, resilience, love & legacy

      In this deeply moving interview, Dr. Kim Harms shares her journey of overcoming personal adversity and dedicating her life to helping others through grief and healing. Born with only seven fingers and facing a turbulent childhood, Dr. Kim recounts how she navigated the challenges of her mother’s suicide, her own physical limitations, and the devastating loss of her son to suicide at 19. Despite these hardships, Dr. Kim’s resilience shines through as she speaks about her career in dentistry, her transition to grief counseling, and her mission to help others build meaningful legacies. She discusses the importance of love, resilience, and legacy, offering listeners insight into coping with grief and living fully, even in the face of unimaginable loss.

      This episode is a profound reflection on love, loss, and resilience, offering listeners both comfort and practical tools for navigating their own grief and leaving a lasting legacy.

      To learn more about Dr. Kim and her work:

      Website:  drkimberlyharms.com

      Book: Are You Ready? How to Build a Legacy to Die For

      Episode highlights:

      • Dr. Kim’s early life, being born with seven fingers and overcoming physical challenges.
    31. The emotional trauma of her mother's suicide and the impact on her life.
    32. Her motivation for pursuing dentistry, inspired by a mix of personal ambition and love.
    33. The tragic loss of her son to suicide and the devastating aftermath on her family.
    34. Dr. Kim’s fight to climb out of the "grief pit" to support her remaining family and live a full life.
    35. Her career shift from dentistry to grief counseling after nerve damage ended her dental practice.
    36. The power of attachment theory and how early love can provide resilience for a lifetime.
    37. Practical advice on building legacies and preparing for end-of-life matters, including leaving a meaningful legacy for children and grandchildren.
    38. Her latest book, "Are You Ready? How to Build a Legacy to Die For", which combines practical advice and emotional insight into legacy building and grief recovery.
    39. Personal reflections on the importance of laughter, self-acceptance, and maintaining healthy relationships throughout life.
    40. As always, visit lilylist.com for more information on the podcast and platform. You can also contact us from the website, if you have questions or ideas for people or topics you’d like to hear or see on the platform.

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      Outro music: Denouement by Sift - https://siftmusic.com

      34 min

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