Lily's Sanctuary

Do men take our NO's seriously? Boundaries to watch out for in new acquaintances, cat calling and sexual harrassment

I made a milestone. I can't keep calm...what is that one thing that will keep you propelling, on your toes and happy if you accomplished it? Let's all purpose to live intentionally in 2022, secure that bag BIGLY, and kick ass with a humongous spoon

Ever been bullied, body shamed back in school? Here's my brief story

A girl should be two things: who and what she wants. Agency is vital in our existence. We all have those traits that make us unique, different, outliers and individual...i have gradually learned to embrace my entire being holistically. My weaknesses compliment my strengths. I am not perfect, but my imperfections define my personality and customize me as me. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

Morphs, transitions of how i relate with my darling mother

Growing up, my momma was strict, a disciplinarian and an ardent Christian. I kinda feared her, but I later appreciated her nurturing in my later years. We are now best of friends, and I hope to cultivate a surreal environment with my daughter when the time is ripe

Normalize being your uncool, weird self. Whoever chooses to stick around, keep 'em closer!

This year, I have done loads of Unlearning, Re-learning and Corroborating my life lessons. I have faced my hurdles and hiccups head on. It's been tuff and real but amazingly authentic....I chose to be real and true to my heart's dear desires. I chose to dive into the deep end but knowing God has my back...i have worked on my spiritual, mental and emotional. My financial and physical is a work-in-progress. My family means everything to me. I'm glad i have a supportive and loving family no matter our differences and weaknesses....above all, i thank God for His Grace unparalleled.

Do your best, leave the rest to Him! Peace of mind is my greatest wealth

Sometimes I get engulfed in immense sadness. I just wonna be left alone and often i cry it out then pray...i dread such moments fr