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Let's talk about how people have a propensity towards trying to tear down women who rap based on stan wars rather than accepting that there are different lanes for each woman to occupy and we don't have to listen to anyone we dislike, Shacarri Richardson's domestic violence against her partner and why we need to have honest conversations about this that still provide understanding that it proceeds to lethal still more often with male abusers.

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This week I reflect on a conversation I had on Twitter and my TikTok where men were saying women use them for free food by going on the dinner dates they asked us to go on with them. Reality is men do not see value is spending time with women unless it develops into the possibility of body sharing and that's because they are projecting because they don't feel like they have anything much to offer themselves besides money, nor have they tried to cultivate more than that so they have made relationships as a whole transactional while becoming angry at women for recognizing it and demanding value for their time efforts and energy. The latter part is an encouragement for you, as a woman to cultivate the kind of life you deserve free from the expectations that you have to perform womanhood as a service. This is your one life. What do you want from it? How are you working towards it? And for yourself.

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This episode does have some distortion due to being record on my iPhone. And experiment I will not be repeating. Nevertheless we talk in this episode about how rape culture is perpetuated by the expectation that accepting certain things from men means you have to perform sex (you don't. EVER), the misogyny of blaming women for how men show up in relationships from a Twitter discussion and Right Wing Talking Points on Racism And How That impacts our loss of rights, perspective and humanity.

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When you have survived domestic violence or any kind of abuse many people do not want to hear your story because it makes them face what they have done to others or been complicit in themselves. They would prefer your silence. This is me acknowledging that they didn't hear you because they didn't want to do anything to help you or hold the other person who harmed you accountable. But we are still here. And we will not be quiet. I also spend time sharing with you guys this episode why having children without a marriage is detrimental to your wellbeing as a woman and encourage YOU to put YOURSELF first. You matter as who you already are before what you give to a man and society.

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This episode we discuss the Diddy Trial verdict and what is demanded of women to get justice for being harmed versus of men for harming women. We also talk about once again making good deals for yourself if you choose to get married. First half has echo because the mic setting was changed by mistake. Second half it is removed 

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Today we talk about how it is alway's women's fault and how we as women have to stop buying into internalized misogyny when it comes to these lines of thinking. We also discuss Tyler Perry's Sexual Harassment allegations and how we can continue to show resistance in patriarchy as we face grim reminders of how society values us less as human beings 

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This episode is focused in on the continued epidemic of filicide facilitated by the Family Court system focusing on the loss of Montrell Williams who was a 2 year old boy murdered by his father during a court sanctioned visitation. We also talk about the lady who gave her husband child support payment money and left her for her cousin and how to avoid this situation all together as well as how to raise our sons and create an environment where they do not feel that chores are something that they must do as children but are part of their life. Join me as we discuss how patriarchy steals from us and ways we can give a little back to ourselves.

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This episode examines how the family court system assisted in the unaliving of 3 innocent girls by giving their homeless father unsupervised visits and how the court system prioritizes men's parental rights over the safety of girls and women. We also talk about how widowhood is another attempt to oppress and control women through how men react to a false rumor of Vanessa Bryant's pregnancy and how we need to be resilient in focusing on our survival over the need for risky romantic relationships with people who are not prioritizing our human rights and safety.

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Today's episode focuses in on TV character Miranda Hobbes as a TV feminist on Sex and The City and how the punished her with the Steve character while also talking about Maxine Shaw on Living Single and how she got to get love and a family on her own terms without compromising her journey. We also discuss what Marc Lamont Hill said on Joe Budden's podcast about restorative justice and how that is inappropriate for dealing with abuse victims.

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This episode addresses Clareesa Shield's arguing with Remy Ma about Papoose and How Women Need To Stop Dating Separated Men. Stop Being So Desperate For Companionship You Are Putting Yourself in Foolish Situations. We Also Talk About How RedPill Content Is Impacting The Black Community And How White Women See Themselves In Serena So Much They Are Losing The Plot With The Handmaids Tell. Please Leave A Review And Subscribe!

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