Divorce. Infidelity. Stress of all types. There are few experiences worse than feeling like you have put in so much yourself into something and it ends up betraying you. Having been through infidelity myself, I understand that it is devastating. They say time heals and all that but for some people, time doesn't do enough. There are so many people in the same situation as you who have managed to move forward without turning into an angry bitter shell of their former selves. We know you have more questions than answers but that's where we come in. Join us as we journey through healing after infidelity while trying to decide if there is any real value in trying to save your relationship or marriage after all you've been through (and if so, how?).

As a single person in 2022 it's difficult enough to meet people, not to mention now we're in a whole pandemic which makes people less social and less inclined to be in close proximity to others went out socializing! This is why online dating is at an all-time high!! You have single people seeking companionship or you may even just be looking for somebody to hook up with or just take on a date. Either way, this experience has been different for everyone. There is such a difference between meeting a person organically while you're out and being social versus sizing them up online based on their profile and some images. You never really know what you're going to get on the other side of the meet up. So dive into this conversation with Kokoa Nish as they share their experience with online dating and give the guys and ladies some tips about how to succeed in the space or how to decide if it's really not for you. This is definitely going to be a comical episode to remember especially when you guys here story time (lol) so grab your cocktail or Mocktail and let's enter the jungle

The great debate in the black community!?!? Do gender roles really matter and are we losing sight of that in the black family? Some women think if they make the money then they make the rules, while our black men desire a submissive partner that is ready to serve him like a king and who makes more money should never matter. Or does it? So who is right? Does the breadwinner lead the household or does the man keep his top spot regardless of the finances of his partner? Some women say that it does not matter and others refuse to submit to a man that’s not a provider. Join Nish and Kokoa as they dive into this comical gender roles conversation with co-hosts Lee in the jungle with us today representing the modern day black king. Grab your cocktails because this is an episode you do not wanna miss.

"What exactly do ya'll stand for, what are your goals and objectives" is a question posed to the LGBTQIA+ that has given us a " HOTTTT off the Tiktok press" moment!!! A highly followed influencer, Dr. CassanovaBrown posted a "You have the audacity" kinda response to a question posed to the LGBTQIA+ community, a video that followers are saying" read" black men at least that’s what's the latest viral video claims to be true. The laundry list of aliments of the black man was entertaining to say the least, because as many societal abnormalities that run rampant in our streets in association with the black community, can we really stop and say that it's the black man's fault or is this another situation of hypersensitivity between the heterosexual and LGBTQIA+ community. Listen in as Kokoa and Nish share their POV on the "reading" of the black man and how we all need to be less sensitive, more accountable, and more open to just having a conversation. Grab your cocktail and let'srampant enter the Jungle.

"What exactly do ya'll stand for, what are your goals and objectives" is a question posed to the LGBTQIA+ that has given us a " HOTTTT off the Tiktok press" moment!!! A highly followed influencer, Dr. CassanovaBrown posted a "You have the audacity" kinda response to a question posed to the LGBTQIA+ community, a video that followers are saying" read" black men at least that’s what's the latest viral video claims to be true. The laundry list of aliments of the black man was entertaining to say the least, because as many societal abnormalities that run rampid it in our streets in association with the black community, can we really stop and say that it's the black man's fault or is this another situation of hypersensitivity between the heterosexual and LGBTQIA+ community. Listen in as Kokoa and Nish share their POV on the "reading" of the black man and how we all need to be less sensitive, more accountable, and more open to just having a conversation. Grab your cocktail and let's enter the Jungle.

Remember that old saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but your words will never hurt me"…. well we've all grown to understand that that's good and thought but in actuality words have the power to tear down the mightiest of us all. That's why things like our tone temperature and context matter when talking to other people. Communication styles differ from age group they differ across cultures they even differ across geographic areas but there are some common-sense basics that we all share that are worth talking about! Join Kokoa and our special guest host, Deb, as they dive into their perception of communication norms in relationships and in everyday life.

It's 2022 and how sweet it is to have a new start! Who remembers sitting around with your friends and family while they hyped up all the things they were going to change as soon as the clock strikes 12! Yes, the New Year is when the world signs up for a new start of new habits literally overnight by broadcasting their New Years Resolutions to anyone within earshot. As amazing as January 1st feels, as nice as it is to really embrace having a new start..who says you have to wait for a new year to be intentional about changing your habits? Why not start...well..today? Join Nish and Kokoa as they share their thoughts on New Years Resolutions and when is really a good time to make a change in your habits. Because who says you have to wait....no better time for change than the present.

We’ve all been there...... lost in the world of extravagant marriage proposals and weddings all up on our feed!!! Everything from the glitter of her ring to the sparkle in his smile as he longingly waits for this bride at the end of the aisle. From YouTube and Facebook pages to full-on TikTok and Instagram accounts committed to a play-by-play of hundreds of beautiful couples through love and into marriage. We raise our cups in celebration of love!!! Marriage at its core can be a beautiful thing when it's to the right person. Join Kokoa and Nish today as they unpack what it really means to be married and challenge you to think to yourself, " Am I really ready to be a wife? " Am I really ready for this ring? Grab your wine, or a cocktail of choice, put on your headphones, and kick back with us as we asked the ladies ARE YOU REALLY READY FOR A RING?

So how do you really feel about FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS? It's not often that you meet someone that you have a genuine connection with, chemistry, good conversation and just epic feel moments! Can you handle the temptation of wanting to be with this person beyond a friendship or are you a dating champ that doesn’t get attached so easily. Either way it makes for a great conversation so join Tanisha & Kokoa as they get transparent about their experiences and give you their two cents on the matter! Grab a glass of wine because it’s time to talk about FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS it is sure to be an interesting conversation to say the least!

I don’t know about you guys but something kind of adventurous happens after 40 when it comes to sex! Becoming more comfortable with your body, being open to new experiences or maybe sometimes you just get plain bored. Whatever the case, tips tricks, and toys come in to play. No matter if you are in a long-term relationship or you just sewing the wild oats of singleness, sex is always an energy-filled experience where it’s nice to have a little fun!!! Join Kokoa & Nish in this entertaining conversation that is sure to spice up in the bedroom and trigger a few laughs.