 Today, we are answering some of your questions.    How can I get over being sexually shy with my husband? How can I begin to get past the negative messages I learned about sex? How can I show my husband desire throughout the day instead of compartmentalizing sex for bedtime only?  Sponsor  Click Here to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples! From the Bible "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9  Resources  Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 29: Lies Women Believe, Part 1 Episode 30: Lies Women Believe, Part 2 Episode 59: Myths We Learned from Pop Culture The #1 Myth Christian Women Learned about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Aqua Notes Water Proof Note Pad (Amazon affiliate link) 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous Silence the Lies - The Forgiven Wife Four Ways to Absorb God's Truth about Intimacy in Marriage - The Forgiven Wife When You Need Help Getting in the Mood: 3 Ways to Nurture Your Desire Throughout the Day - The Forgiven Wife  Visit our website at forchristianwives.com 

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Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with young wives. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian marital aid and sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 Resources   Episode 32: Advice for Our Newlywed Selves  Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage  The Bad Plan of Bartering for Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous Embrace a Sexual Growth Mindset - Hot, Holy & Humorous  What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night - Hot, Holy & Humorous A Letter to My Newlywed Self: Age 25 - Hot, Holy & Humorous Faithful Counseling (online therapy with a fellow believer through Better Help)  Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Orgasm Webinar - ONLY $10!  Donate to the ministry HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.

Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie)

 When we talk about romantic attraction, we think of personal charm, visual appeal, and that spark of chemistry when a certain person is near. But for today's episode, consider this scientific one from Merriam-Webster, defining attraction as "a force acting mutually between particles of matter, tending to draw them together, and resisting their separation."   We're not just particles, but we want to be drawn toward our husband and to resist separation from him (and vice versa). But attraction doesn't stay the same over the whole of our marriage. Today, we talk about how we can keep attraction going or revive it if it's been lost. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring the episode! Get 25% off the  Transform Your Shower Set for the month of April with our special code FCWTA.  From the Bible My beloved is radiant and ruddy,     distinguished among ten thousand. Song of Songs 5:10 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen. 2 Peter 3:18 Resources    What If You Don't Find Your Husband Attractive - Hot, Holy & Humorous   How to Boost Romantic Chemistry in Your Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous   Why Being a Good Father Turns Your Wife On - Hot, Holy & Humorous  Episode 70: Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)  I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson (kevinathompson.com)  Donate to the Ministry HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker 

Fostering Sexual Attraction

This week's quickie sex tip encourages you to learn about your husband's body.

Learn About His Body (Quickie)

You've probably heard that sex is good for your husband or good for your marriage, but what about you? We share our thoughts on what's so great about sex for WIVES. Listen in! Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy store, for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible  So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun. Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NKJV)   So God created mankind in his own image,     in the image of God he created them;     male and female he created them. God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day. Genesis 1:27, 31   “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32  Resources   Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life | Calm.Healthy.Sexy.  Sex Is for You Too  Episode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg  Controversial Ideas: Does Semen Act As an Antidepressant to the Recipient? (popsci.com)  The Health Benefits of Sex (healthline.com)  The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner  Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner  Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery  Episode 147: God, Sex, and Your Marriage, with Dr. Juli Slattery  Donate to Our Ministry Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! if you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:  Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker 

Listener Questions May 2020

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