Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Our trio takes on the most common questions we receive from listeners, including whether you should do what he wants in bed, what happens to sexual desire after betrayal, and how to get your spouse to do what you need/want.

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From the Bible

"'This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.' Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together." Mark 10:7–9 (NLT)

Resources

• Do I Have To? | The Forgiven Wife
• When She Says No to Sex | Knowing Her Sexually Podcast
• Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
• Q&A with J: Top 5 Questions Readers Ask about Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about being responsive and engaged in both your marriage and in bed. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

You want to get help, but you don't know how to, or if you should, reveal stuff about your husband to others. We discuss how to talk about your husband in a way that honors him as a person but also gets you the help you need.

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From the Bible

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29

Resources

• Episode 269: Talking About Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Episode 21: Help with Boundaries and Why do I stay? - HopeForWives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
• Episode 117: Prayer and Sex
• Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie)
• Episode 238: Getting Started Praying About Your Sex Life (Quickie)

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with three ways you can fan the flame of sexual interest. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate "I want you" to your husband, but it isn't always easy.

• Why do wives sometimes find it difficult to even try to initiate sex?
• Some wives report that they do try to initiate sex but their husbands don't seem to pick up on the signals. What is going on?
• What are some things wives can do to initiate sex and get things rolling?

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From the Bible

Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:11-13

Resources

• You're Not Kissing Enough – Hot, Holy & Humorous
• 40 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Husband – Hot, Holy & Humorous
• 5 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Spouse – Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Flip the Switch from Initiation to Availability – Hot, Holy & Humorous
• How Do You Initiate Sex ? – The Forgiven Wife
• When You Initiate, Do This – The Forgiven Wife
• 10 Ideas You Can Use to Initiate Sex – The Forgiven Wife
• He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That's Not Me. - Bonny's OysterBed7

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how pressure can dampen the flame of desire. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We discuss health challenges, family activities, work, etc. that can disrupt sexual intimacy in your marriage and how to address it.

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From the Bible

"I have the right to do anything," you say—but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything"—but not everything is constructive. 1 Corinthians 10:23

Resources

• Episode 155: Sex for Busy Moms
• Struggling with Sex in Marriage? Here's What To Do First. - Hot, Holy & Humorous (about seeing a healthcare provider)
• It's Hard to Write About Sex When You're Not Having Any - Hot, Holy & Humorous (w/ideas of what to do instead)
• How Do You Manage Sex When Your Schedules Are Different? | The Forgiven Wife
• Episode 212: What About Masturbation?

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns on how gratitude can soften our hearts and lead to improved sexual connection.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Through the years, we've encouraged wives to grow in the area of sexual intimacy. But how can we support our husbands to mature in their understanding and experience? We discuss.

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From the Bible

You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered 1 Peter 3:7 (NASB)

Proverbs 5–6

Song of Songs

Resources

• 3 Things Your Wife Wants You to Know About Her Sex Drive - Knowing Her Sexually
• What Else Does Your Wife Want You to Know About Her Sex Drive? - Knowing Her Sexually
• Why I Sometimes Don't Care about the Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 182: Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie)
• Episode 117: Prayer and Sex
• Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
• I Worked on Sex, and Then He Got Angry | The Forgiven Wife
• The Respect Dare: 40 Days to a Deeper Connection with God and Your Husband by Nina Roesner
• Episode 127: Flirting with Your Husband, with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer
• Home - Knowing Her Sexually
• Knowing Her Sexually | Podcast on Spotify
• Jimmy on Relationships - YouTube
• Java with Juli Podcast - Authentic Intimacy
• Home - Intimate Covenant
• Knowing Her Sexually Episode 71: Sexual Trauma, the Goal of Sex, and the Value of Afterglow, with Matt Schmidt
• Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference by Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma
• Episode 92: What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn
• Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10!
• Understanding Her Sex Drive – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10!
• Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10)
• Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10)
• Spicing Up Your Bedroom - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually ($10)
• Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Coaching - Aldrich Ministries
• Knowing Her Sexually Episode 66: How to Really Connect with Your Wife, with Brad Aldrich, LMFT
• Episode 241: How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about penis size. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!