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Think your spouse’s habits are a green flag, a red flag, or just a “nothing burger”? Tune in to hear the KS team chat through some scenarios that our Instagram followers once wondered, "Is this normal?" Some of them are going to surprise you...

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00:00 – Open and welcome

00:31 – Show intro and today's verse (Ephesians 4:15)

01:02 – Instagram questions and a sponsor break

01:35 – Setting up the green, yellow and red flag game

03:12 – Sleeping in separate rooms because of snoring

04:16 – Tangent on nose strips

04:50 – Different bedtimes (11 PM vs. 3:30 AM)

07:03 – Husband plays video games after work

09:45 – Too much phone time (the daughter yelling "daddy")

10:46 – Husband cooks and preps meals, wife cleans up

11:16 – Never having an orgasm with penetration

12:00 – Couples who don't watch the same shows

14:30 – Promo for the Out of Sync course on mismatched libido

15:50 – Wife rejects intimacy before a work trip, then helps herself when he's gone

16:36 – Two king-size beds pushed together

18:38 – Trusting your husband about porn or cheating

19:20 – Wife wants to be led but won't give up control

20:12 – Wife leaves her shoes everywhere (and the shoes-in-the-house tangent)

22:19 – Couples who don't talk while eating

24:10 – Getting ready for bed at different times

24:50 – Husband loses his erection during long foreplay

25:36 – Wife doesn't know what turns her on

26:10 – Closing round: a green flag in each host's marriage

27:10 – Wrap-up and sign-off

27:41 – Closing prayer

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Ever wondered if finishing at the same time is the secret to great sex?? Or how to even do it? Tiera, Alana, and Kyle keep it real about timing, communication, and trying practical ways to get in sync- without turning the bedroom into a performance!

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00:00 — Intro, podcast mission, and the new orgasm course

01:25 — Audience poll on whether couples finish together

03:17 — Why do couples want to orgasm at the same time?

04:02 — Assuming everyone finishes together before marriage

05:16 — Learning each spouse’s path to orgasm

06:10 — Talking about arousal, interruptions, and cues

07:05 — Giving the slower-to-orgasm partner a head start

08:06 — Same-time orgasm is optional, not better sex

09:04 — Coordinating timing beyond penetration

10:16 — Preparing for transitions and staying present

11:35 — Communicating before the finish line

13:40 — Planning for when timing doesn’t match

14:06 — Treating it as teamwork and experimentation

15:40 — No single position makes it happen automatically

16:01 — Tips for slowing down and reducing sensation

17:44 — Using a stop signal to delay climax

19:26 — Reducing stimulation by stopping movement

20:10 — Communicating clearly and keeping what works

21:02 — Adjusting pace and reading each other’s cues

22:19 — Listener tips and real-world examples

25:25 — Learning each other’s rhythms with practice

26:30 — Why some couples take turns instead

27:15 — Final takeaway: mutual enjoyment over finishing together

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This episode mentions self harm and infidelity. Please listen with care.

Carl and Laura Lentz kick off our 'Real Marriage' series! It's a raw, honest conversation about infidelity, rebuilding trust, and the hard work of healing! This is a conversation about what it really takes to rebuild a marriage from the inside out.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Episode Hook: Facing Betrayal

00:15 — Kingdom Sexuality Podcast Introduction

01:02 — Sponsor Break

01:15 — Meet Carl and Laura Lentz

03:42 — How They Met

05:15 — Early Marriage and Sexual Expectations

08:10 — Betrayal, Infidelity, and the Breaking Point

12:45 — Choosing Healing Over Immediate Decisions

16:34 — Helping Their Children Through the Crisis

17:34 — Public Scrutiny and Starting Over

23:41 — The “Street Pharmacist” Story

25:24 — Rebuilding in Private

29:11 — Therapy, Trauma, and Doing the Work

31:59 — Rebuilding Emotional and Sexual Intimacy

39:38 — Navigating Different Desires

42:51 — Learning How to Love Each Other Better

46:10 — A Myth About Christian Sexuality

48:18 — Rapid-Fire Questions

49:21 — Where to Find Carl and Laura

49:51 — Closing Prayer

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If you have ever wondered whether a Christian woman can use a vibrator to help her orgasm, this conversation gives you a biblical framework instead of shame or guesswork! Plus Tiera and Alana even give you a sneak peek into what the toy section looks like in the Finishing Well orgasm course! (Use code FINISHING30 to get 30% off for a limited time!)

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Opening: Faith, Sex, and Orgasms

00:31 — Course Reminder, Verse, and Sponsor Break

01:03 — Is It Okay to Use Sex Toys in Marriage?

03:19 — Questions Couples Should Consider

03:51 — Communication, Consent, and Prayer

04:26 — Needing More Stimulation Is Normal

05:28 — Reassurance for Husbands

06:01 — Can Vibrators Create Dependence?

07:08 — There’s No “More Spiritual” Way to Orgasm

07:38 — Inside the Course: Toy Education and Demonstrations

09:12 — How the Course Supports Couples

09:49 — Course Sale and Enrollment Details

10:50 — Participant Testimonial

12:24 — Closing Thoughts and Prayer

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Multiple orgasms aren’t a gold standard - they’re simply one possible part of a sex life and can be a fun thing to work towards! If you can have one orgasm and you’re curious about exploring more, tune into as the KS team chats multiples and about their new Finishing Well orgasm course! Code FINISHING30 to get it 30% off!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Opening banter

00:08 — Welcome and episode introduction

00:33 — Series and course introduction

01:04 — Psalm 100:5

02:08 — Sponsor break

02:39 — What multiple orgasms are—and aren’t

03:16 — Defining multiple orgasms

04:20 — How seasons of life affect sexual exploration

05:40 — Why multiple orgasms are possible

06:45 — Creating the right conditions

07:24 — Practical ways to explore

09:03 — Communication with your spouse

09:38 — Course overview

11:18 — Prioritizing marital health

11:49 — Offer and bonus course

12:20 — Closing prayer

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Husbands - this is the part nobody tells you: your wife’s orgasm is not a project. Because guess what? Pressure kills arousal!! Men, tune in to hear how you can support your wife in this process.

Use the code FINISHING30 to get our new Finishing Well Orgasm Course for 30% off!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Welcome & course introduction

01:12 — Why husbands are part of the journey

01:57 — Creating safety, not pressure

03:41 — What pressure feels like in practice

04:11 — Learning your wife’s needs and anatomy

05:52 — Celebrating progress beyond orgasm

07:13 — Showing up with a positive attitude

08:20 — How husbands can introduce the course

08:59 — Going at a comfortable pace & the guarantee

10:18 — Closing prayer

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"Why can’t I orgasm?" For a lot of women, the answer is not a simple fix, and it is definitely not “something is wrong with you.” This episode kicks off a limited mini-series on the female orgasm and gives you a clearer path forward if you’ve ever wondered what your body needs to get there!!

Plus, you'll hear the team talk about their new orgasm course: Finishing Well! Get it for 30% off with the code FINISHING30 for a limited time.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Why orgasm may not be happening

00:05 — Welcome and episode series introduction

01:10 — Verse of the day

01:40 — You are not broken

02:15 — Why the course was created

02:45 — Alana’s story

04:21 — Understanding your anatomy

06:38 — The accelerator-and-brakes framework

08:44 — Identifying what may be holding you back

09:52 — What the course includes

10:55 — Why a personalized approach matters

12:02 — Time commitment and next steps

13:19 — Closing prayer

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Christians have been talking about sex for years, but somehow orgasm still feels like the topic we’re supposed to whisper about. But no longer. Tune in as the KS team announces their biggest project yet: ⁠Finishing Well: The Orgasm Course.⁠ Use the code FINISHING 30 to get it 30% off for a limited time!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Opening and episode intro

01:04 — Sponsor message

01:38 — Introducing the Finishing Well course

04:27 — Why Christians should talk about orgasm

10:01 — Where to find the course and trailer

11:03 — Launch-week offer and bonus course

11:34 — Why the course is priced this way

14:27 — Final offer and closing prayer

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SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today: plant your first seed and see what God can grow.

The biggest thing sabotaging your marriage is not a lack of communication, it’s what happens when your spouse’s heart doesn’t feel safe. Josh Straub breaks down why emotional safety matters for deeper intimacy, and shares a simple daily practice couples can try to start moving closer to each other!

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0:00 — Emotional Safety in Marriage

0:35 — Welcome & Guest Introduction

1:42 — Meet Josh Straub

3:58 — What Is Famous at Home?

5:47 — Defining Emotional Safety

9:38 — Sponsor Message

10:40 — Working Through Fear and Defensiveness

14:47 — Building Emotional Awareness

17:21 — The 15-Minute Connection Exercise

21:15 — When a Spouse Is Guarded

25:31 — Why Communication Isn’t Enough

27:44 — The Intimacy “Four to Six” Trap

30:01 — Emotional Safety and Sexual Intimacy

36:25 — Different Paths to Connection

39:43 — Rethinking Purity Culture

43:26 — Rapid-Fire Marriage Advice

44:29 — Connect with Josh

44:59 — Closing Prayer

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In this Q&A episode, the KS Team chats through why a wife may not orgasm from intercourse, how to think about toys in marriage, how to respond when friends think swinging is acceptable, and so much more!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:30 — Verse of the day & sponsor break

01:33 — Listener Q&A begins

02:05 — Orgasm during intercourse

05:11 — Finishing Well course

06:13 — Advice for difficulty orgasming

07:48 — Future episode: unusual listener questions

08:20 — Using toys during sex

14:08 — Sexual language in marriage

15:08 — Why swinging isn’t okay

18:55 — Closing prayer

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