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If you have ever wondered whether a Christian woman can use a vibrator to help her orgasm, this conversation gives you a biblical framework instead of shame or guesswork! Plus Tiera and Alana even give you a sneak peek into what the toy section looks like in the Finishing Well orgasm course! (Use code FINISHING30 to get 30% off for a limited time!)

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Opening: Faith, Sex, and Orgasms

00:31 — Course Reminder, Verse, and Sponsor Break

01:03 — Is It Okay to Use Sex Toys in Marriage?

03:19 — Questions Couples Should Consider

03:51 — Communication, Consent, and Prayer

04:26 — Needing More Stimulation Is Normal

05:28 — Reassurance for Husbands

06:01 — Can Vibrators Create Dependence?

07:08 — There’s No “More Spiritual” Way to Orgasm

07:38 — Inside the Course: Toy Education and Demonstrations

09:12 — How the Course Supports Couples

09:49 — Course Sale and Enrollment Details

10:50 — Participant Testimonial

12:24 — Closing Thoughts and Prayer

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Multiple orgasms aren’t a gold standard - they’re simply one possible part of a sex life and can be a fun thing to work towards! If you can have one orgasm and you’re curious about exploring more, tune into as the KS team chats multiples and about their new Finishing Well orgasm course! Code FINISHING30 to get it 30% off!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Opening banter

00:08 — Welcome and episode introduction

00:33 — Series and course introduction

01:04 — Psalm 100:5

02:08 — Sponsor break

02:39 — What multiple orgasms are—and aren’t

03:16 — Defining multiple orgasms

04:20 — How seasons of life affect sexual exploration

05:40 — Why multiple orgasms are possible

06:45 — Creating the right conditions

07:24 — Practical ways to explore

09:03 — Communication with your spouse

09:38 — Course overview

11:18 — Prioritizing marital health

11:49 — Offer and bonus course

12:20 — Closing prayer

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Husbands - this is the part nobody tells you: your wife’s orgasm is not a project. Because guess what? Pressure kills arousal!! Men, tune in to hear how you can support your wife in this process.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Welcome & course introduction

01:12 — Why husbands are part of the journey

01:57 — Creating safety, not pressure

03:41 — What pressure feels like in practice

04:11 — Learning your wife’s needs and anatomy

05:52 — Celebrating progress beyond orgasm

07:13 — Showing up with a positive attitude

08:20 — How husbands can introduce the course

08:59 — Going at a comfortable pace & the guarantee

10:18 — Closing prayer

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"Why can’t I orgasm?" For a lot of women, the answer is not a simple fix, and it is definitely not “something is wrong with you.” This episode kicks off a limited mini-series on the female orgasm and gives you a clearer path forward if you’ve ever wondered what your body needs to get there!!

Plus, you'll hear the team talk about their new orgasm course: Finishing Well! Get it for 30% off with the code FINISHING30 for a limited time.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Why orgasm may not be happening

00:05 — Welcome and episode series introduction

01:10 — Verse of the day

01:40 — You are not broken

02:15 — Why the course was created

02:45 — Alana’s story

04:21 — Understanding your anatomy

06:38 — The accelerator-and-brakes framework

08:44 — Identifying what may be holding you back

09:52 — What the course includes

10:55 — Why a personalized approach matters

12:02 — Time commitment and next steps

13:19 — Closing prayer

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Christians have been talking about sex for years, but somehow orgasm still feels like the topic we’re supposed to whisper about. But no longer. Tune in as the KS team announces their biggest project yet: ⁠Finishing Well: The Orgasm Course.⁠ Use the code FINISHING 30 to get it 30% off for a limited time!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Opening and episode intro

01:04 — Sponsor message

01:38 — Introducing the Finishing Well course

04:27 — Why Christians should talk about orgasm

10:01 — Where to find the course and trailer

11:03 — Launch-week offer and bonus course

11:34 — Why the course is priced this way

14:27 — Final offer and closing prayer

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The biggest thing sabotaging your marriage is not a lack of communication, it’s what happens when your spouse’s heart doesn’t feel safe. Josh Straub breaks down why emotional safety matters for deeper intimacy, and shares a simple daily practice couples can try to start moving closer to each other!

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0:00 — Emotional Safety in Marriage

0:35 — Welcome & Guest Introduction

1:42 — Meet Josh Straub

3:58 — What Is Famous at Home?

5:47 — Defining Emotional Safety

9:38 — Sponsor Message

10:40 — Working Through Fear and Defensiveness

14:47 — Building Emotional Awareness

17:21 — The 15-Minute Connection Exercise

21:15 — When a Spouse Is Guarded

25:31 — Why Communication Isn’t Enough

27:44 — The Intimacy “Four to Six” Trap

30:01 — Emotional Safety and Sexual Intimacy

36:25 — Different Paths to Connection

39:43 — Rethinking Purity Culture

43:26 — Rapid-Fire Marriage Advice

44:29 — Connect with Josh

44:59 — Closing Prayer

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In this Q&A episode, the KS Team chats through why a wife may not orgasm from intercourse, how to think about toys in marriage, how to respond when friends think swinging is acceptable, and so much more!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:30 — Verse of the day & sponsor break

01:33 — Listener Q&A begins

02:05 — Orgasm during intercourse

05:11 — Finishing Well course

06:13 — Advice for difficulty orgasming

07:48 — Future episode: unusual listener questions

08:20 — Using toys during sex

14:08 — Sexual language in marriage

15:08 — Why swinging isn’t okay

18:55 — Closing prayer

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Tune into this Q&A episode as the KS Team talks candidly about sex when you are exhausted, building "pounding" stamina, navigating postpartum sex drive changes, and how to have deep conversations if your spouse has a hard time with them.

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:08 — Welcome & Community Invitation

01:02 — Today’s Verse: Matthew 6:34

01:32 — Q&A: Intimacy for Tired Parents

06:21 — Out of Sync Course Break

07:32 — Q&A: Stamina and Lasting Longer

10:29 — Q&A: Talking About Sex and Deep Emotions

12:48 — Q&A: Postpartum Desire and Connection

16:45 — Q&A: Rewaiting for Marriage

18:20 — Q&A: Navigating Grooming Preferences Tactfully

19:54 — Closing Prayer

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Ending off the summer with a few Q&A's the KS team tackles YOUR questions! They chat through painful sex, collaborating when one of you wants change in the bedroom and the other doesn't, and what to do when sex doesn't really feel good. You won't want to miss this series!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

00:00 — Welcome & Fruit of the Spirit

01:37 — Patreon & Sponsor Break

02:20 — Painful Sex After Marriage

05:17 — Making Out When One Partner Isn’t Interested

06:52 — When Sex Doesn’t Feel Good

10:17 — Work and Travel Boundaries

12:00 — Collaborating When Partners Want Different Things

15:13 — Will the Spouses Join the Show?

16:16 — When Both Partners Have Responsive Desire

16:48 — Closing Prayer

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In this special ladies-only Q&A, Tiera and Alana tackle the big, awkward, real-life questions women actually ask about sex, shame, pleasure, and postpartum changes!!

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00:00 — Ladies’ Q&A intro

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