In this Best of SMR conversation, Francie Winslow shares her transformative journey from the constraints of purity culture to embracing a vibrant and fulfilling sexual life within marriage. She discusses the importance of understanding sexuality as a divine gift, the need for education and growth in sexual intimacy, and the detrimental effects of silence and shame surrounding women's sexuality.

We also talk about the historical context that has shaped women's views on their bodies and sexuality, advocating for a shift towards embracing the beauty and joy of sexual expression as part of God's design. The conversation highlights the significance of vulnerability and open communication in fostering healthy sexual relationships.

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In this XTD conversation, Francie and I explore the sacredness of sexuality, the importance of community and education in sexual wholeness, and the need for healing in sexual relationships.

We discuss personal experiences that shaped their understanding of sexuality, the role of husbands in nurturing intimacy, and the necessity of bringing light to often taboo conversations about sex. .

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing communication shutdowns in relationships. They explore various strategies that individuals use to avoid uncomfortable conversations, such as minimizing issues, fix-it modes, stonewalling, and scorekeeping. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to confront personal communication patterns to foster healthier relationships.

As the New Year approaches, they also introduce the concept of setting resolutions through three meaningful words, encouraging listeners to reflect on their growth and interactions in the coming year.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the holiday season and the tradition of setting three words to guide the upcoming year.

We also dive into a listener's email regarding her husband's erectile dysfunction, exploring the complexities of control in relationships, the impact of stress, and the importance of reframing sexual intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for self-improvement and honest communication in navigating relationship dynamics, particularly in the context of sexual health and emotional connection.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual relationships within marriage, particularly focusing on the idea of sex as a reward system.

We explore the potential pitfalls of this approach, including the impact on desire, compliance, and the overall connection between spouses. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining a playful and honest dynamic in sexual relationships, rather than reducing intimacy to a transactional exchange.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit the most popular episode of SMR in 2025.

Pam and I explore the complexities of sexual intimacy within marriage, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections over mere technique. Particularly when it come to oral sex.

We discuss the concept of differentiation, the impact of trauma on sexual experiences, and the dynamics of self-confidence in sexual relationships.

Our conversation encourages listeners to engage deeply with their own feelings and reactions, fostering a willingness to change and grow in their sexual lives.

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Many of us have preconceived notions about oral sex. Put another away, knee-jerk reactions.

So how do these reactions impact our ability to experience more pleasure and connection during oral sex?

What steps do I need to take to face these?

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the challenges couples face during the holiday season, including managing family dynamics, setting boundaries, and maintaining intimacy.

How can we all be better at navigating the pressures of consumerism and family expectations while also understanding the importance of teamwork and preparation in a marriage.

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In the XTD content, our conversation shifts to highlight the need for couples to communicate effectively and support each other through the stress of the holidays.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our conversation explores the dynamics of conflict in relationships, focusing on defensive responses and communication patterns that can escalate tensions.

Pam and I share personal experiences of how defensiveness can hinder effective communication and lead to frustration between spouses.

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In the XTD content, we continue our conversation into why marital communication is so difficult. And it's not because we have trouble communicating!

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the the importance of preparing for marriage, character development, navigating conflict, understanding financial values, and fostering emotional maturity before marriage.

We emphasize the need for open communication and trust, and how parents can guide their children in forming healthy relationships. Our conversation highlights that marriage is an ongoing journey of growth and development, rather than a destination.

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In the XTD content, what surprised Pam and I most about marriage, based on what we thought it would be before we got married.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the need to retune both sexual and marital systems to adapt to changing dynamics. Particularly when menopause happens.

We want to encourage a focus on personal growth and understanding within the relationship, rather than solely on physical outcomes.

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In the XTD content, we explore more the idea of Exploration Nights and Connection Nights for couples looking to deepen their capacities emotionally and sexually.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of teaching children about sex and sexuality in a healthy and age-appropriate manner. There is a need for open communication between parents and children, and sex education should not be a one-time conversation but rather an ongoing dialogue.

We provide practical principles for discussing these topics, including the importance of using accurate terminology, discussing consent and boundaries, and creating a welcoming environment for questions. They also address common parental fears and encourage parents to start these conversations early and often.

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In the XTD content, we share age-tiered sex talk thoughts. In other words, how you adjust the conversation to the different ages as your children grow up.

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