In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our conversation explores the dynamics of conflict in relationships, focusing on defensive responses and communication patterns that can escalate tensions.

Pam and I share personal experiences of how defensiveness can hinder effective communication and lead to frustration between spouses.

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On the Xtended Version …

In the XTD content, we continue our conversation into why marital communication is so difficult. And it's not because we have trouble communicating!

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the the importance of preparing for marriage, character development, navigating conflict, understanding financial values, and fostering emotional maturity before marriage.

We emphasize the need for open communication and trust, and how parents can guide their children in forming healthy relationships. Our conversation highlights that marriage is an ongoing journey of growth and development, rather than a destination.

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In the XTD content, what surprised Pam and I most about marriage, based on what we thought it would be before we got married.

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The post Before You Say I Do (For Real) #754 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the need to retune both sexual and marital systems to adapt to changing dynamics. Particularly when menopause happens.

We want to encourage a focus on personal growth and understanding within the relationship, rather than solely on physical outcomes.

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In the XTD content, we explore more the idea of Exploration Nights and Connection Nights for couples looking to deepen their capacities emotionally and sexually.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of teaching children about sex and sexuality in a healthy and age-appropriate manner. There is a need for open communication between parents and children, and sex education should not be a one-time conversation but rather an ongoing dialogue.

We provide practical principles for discussing these topics, including the importance of using accurate terminology, discussing consent and boundaries, and creating a welcoming environment for questions. They also address common parental fears and encourage parents to start these conversations early and often.

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In the XTD content, we share age-tiered sex talk thoughts. In other words, how you adjust the conversation to the different ages as your children grow up.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, let's have a conversation about solo sex (i.e. masturbation).

And this episode it's Dr Corey solo, as he covers an email from a listener asking how to maintain sexual connection and intimacy when spouses are apart. I explore how individuals maintain their sexual feelings and desires in the absence of their spouse, including the role of personal reflection and communication in sustaining emotional closeness.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I dive into the complexities of communication in marriage, particularly around sexual dynamics and desires. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding different needs and preferences in intimacy, the role of foreplay, and the challenges of vulnerability and control in sexual relationships.

We encourage you to learn to ask better questions to foster deeper understanding and connection with their partners.

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On the Xtended Version …

In the XTD content, what specifically can the husband do to address his desire to want to slow things down for more foreplay.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss a listener's email regarding premature ejaculation and the psychological factors that may contribute to it.

We explore the dynamics of sexual desire, the importance of communication between partners, and strategies for retraining the nervous system to enhance intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for collaboration and understanding in sexual relationships, offering practical advice for couples to navigate challenges together.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore a complex email from a listener struggling with intimacy and respect in her relationship.

We explore themes of sexual connection, the importance of boundaries, and the distinction between compatibility and respect. Our conversation emphasizes the need for personal empowerment, the significance of reclaiming one's voice and desires, and the necessity of facing fears in order to foster healthier relationship dynamics.

Ultimately, we want listeners to prioritize self-respect and well-being in your relationships.

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On the Xtended Version …

In the XTD content, questions to ask yourself to address your voice in your sex life and marriage.

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The post Whose Pleasure Is It, Really? #748 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this conversation, Gary Thomas joins me as we explore the intricacies of married intimacy, focusing on the importance of emotional connection and the five senses in enhancing sexual experiences.

We discuss how cultural perspectives shape our understanding of intimacy, the significance of touch, sound, taste, sight, and smell, and how these elements can be integrated to create a richer, more fulfilling experience.

Gary emphasizes the need for couples to adapt to changes in their sexual dynamics over time and to embrace new possibilities for connection. Learn more about Gary here - https://garythomas.com/

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The post The Five Senses In Sex | Gary Thomas #747 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complexities of love in action within marriage, addressing the common phrase 'I know he loves me, but...' and its implications. We discuss the difference between love as an emotion and love as demonstrated through actions, emphasizing the importance of tangible expressions of love.

The conversation dives into the dynamics of self-deception, the fantasy versus reality in relationships, and the necessity of confronting unhappiness and uncertainty. We hope to encourage you to reflect on your own behaviors and the impact of self-respect in your relationships, ultimately guiding you towards a deeper understanding of love and action.

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On the Xtended Version …

In the XTD content, questions and actions to take yourself to address your role and the system of your marriage.

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