Share Sexy Marriage Radio
Share to email
Share to Facebook
Share to X
By Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.6
11621,162 ratings
The podcast currently has 952 episodes available.
Dr. Emily Jamea joins me as we discuss her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' focusing on the concept of flow state in sexual experiences.
She outlines five key aspects that contribute to achieving flow: sensuality, curiosity, adaptability, vulnerability, and attunement.
We explore each aspect in depth, emphasizing the importance of reconnecting with innate qualities to enhance intimacy and emotional connection in relationships.
Plus our discussion highlights practical strategies for couples to cultivate these qualities and improve their sexual experiences.
Learn more about Dr Emily here - https://emilyjamea.com/
Takeaways
Flow state is a state of total absorption and focus during sexual experiences.
On the Xtended Version ...
Dr Emily and I go through the research she conducted to write this book. What surprised her? What's the biggest takeaway? And more.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift, head over to https://uncommonoods.com/passion
Paired App for Couples: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
The post Anatomy Of Desire | Dr Emily Jamea #701 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this milestone 700th episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we reflect on the journey of the podcast, celebrating its impact on relationships and personal growth.
Join us as we share listener voicemails and highlight key takeaways from our years of experience on the show.
Plus, we explore the act of the hug from behind. Is it ever non-sexual?
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get 20% Off your entire order with our exclusive link - https://honeylove.com/SMR
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
The post Celebrating 700 Episodes With Hugs From Behind #700 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this conversation, I'm joined by a colleague and friend Dr. Dave Jenkins as we dive deep into the concept of regression, particularly in the context of emotional states and relationships.
We discuss how regression manifests as a brain state, the contagious nature of it in interpersonal dynamics, and the metaphor of the Mariana Trench to illustrate the depths of emotional regression.
Our conversation also goes through strategies for recognizing and managing regression, the impact of intimacy on emotional states, and the importance of self-soothing and increasing one's buoyancy to navigate life's challenges effectively.
Connect more with Dr Dave here - https://www.linkedin.com/in/davemjenkins/
Takeaways
Regression is a brain state, not just an emotion.
On the Xtended Version ...
Pam and I go through a story that depicts more about the tensions of differentiation in relationships.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post Navigating The Depths | Dr Dave Jenkins #699 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode I'm joined by Casey and Meygan Caston of Marriage 365 - we discuss the challenges couples face in maintaining healthy marriages.
We dive into the importance of intentionality, self-reflection, and personal responsibility in relationships. And highlight the unrealistic expectations set by societal norms and media portrayals of marriage, and the need for couples to focus on their own growth to foster a better partnership.
Our conversation also touches on the significance of emotional connections and the fleeting nature of material success in achieving true happiness.
There is an importance of empowerment in marriage, emphasizing that individuals should focus on self-improvement rather than solely relying on their partners. We believe that most marriage problems are fixable with the right tools and mindset, and hope to encourage couples to engage in meaningful communication and self-discovery.
Learn more about Casey and Meygan at their site - https://marriage365.com
Takeaways
People desire healthy marriages but often lack a plan.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift, head over to https://uncommonoods.com/passion
Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get 20% Off your entire order with our exclusive link - https://honeylove.com/SMR
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
The post Problems Are Fixable | Casey and Meygan Caston #698 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode, we get a little personal and discuss the challenges and dynamics of maintaining a strong marriage amidst life's transitions and pressures.
Things like moving homes, managing family responsibilities, and the emotional weight that comes with it.
We emphasize the importance of connection, communication, and understanding each other's needs to navigate these challenges effectively.
Plus offer practical strategies for you to stay engaged and connected, highlighting the significance of intentionality in your relationship.
Takeaways
Life transitions can disrupt routines and relationships.
We share a visual framework that can be used to look how well you are functioning (or not). This can help not only you but your marriage and your family!
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Paired App for Couples: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post Making Time For Each Other #697 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this call-in show, I address the challenges faced by Julie - who has been married for over 30 years but have lost intimacy in the relationship.
We discuss the complexities of rekindling their sexual life, the dynamics of desire, and the impact of erection issues on their intimacy.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding each other's needs, and embracing the awkwardness that comes with trying to reconnect.
Ultimately, intimacy is not solely defined by sexual performance but also by emotional connection and mutual support.
Takeaways
Intimacy can fade over time due to various life circumstances.
On the Xtended Version ...
We continue the Power Moves conversation by focusing even more on our own part in the dynamics of marital communication and moves.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Green Chef: Eat healthier and get 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass https://greenchef.com/passionclass
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post How Do I Initiate In A Sexless Marriage? #696 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey and Pam discuss the dynamics of power in marriage, exploring how couples navigate desires and tensions.
Our conversation highlights the complexity of perception in relationships, particularly in high meaning situations, and the impact of family dynamics. We stress the importance of making effective moves in conversations and understanding each partner's actions.
The conversation concludes with insights on the nature of alliances in marriage and how to respond to patterns in marriage.
Takeaways
Understanding power dynamics is crucial in marriage.
On the Xtended Version ...
We pivot from seeing our spouse's moves better to understanding our own. Too often we make premature moves - or don't go far enough.
Today we dive into common errors to watch out for and additional suggestions for improvement.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post Power Moves #695 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today we dive into two listener emails and explore the complexities of intimacy and communication in marriage.
We discuss the balance between the pressures of wants in preferences when it comes to sex and then on sexual performance, and the importance of understanding each partner's background and expectations.
Our conversation emphasizes the need for self-validation and the idea that learning and growing together can enhance intimacy.
Takeaways
Marriage is sacred and should be treated with commitment.
On the Xtended Version ...
Is sex really a need? Or is it more like a want?
What's your thought? Listen to the XTD to hear our.
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Green Chef: Eat healthier and get 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass https://greenchef.com/passionclass
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post Is Sex a Need or Want? #694 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today we revisit one of the best of a recent episode of SMR. In it, I'm joined by Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr Michael Sytsma as we talked through their new book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage.
Based on their latest research with couples, what surprised them most?
What do married couples need to know about how things actually play out in marriage?
And what should married couples do about our differences and similarities?
Learn more about them and their work here - https://secretsofsexandmarriage.com/
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
LEAN: Get 15% OFF by going to https://takelean.com Use our code PASSION to get 15% off.
The post Best of SMR: Secrets of Sex and Marriage #693 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
Today we dive into two listener emails on the topic of oral sex within a marriage and the dynamics of power that can be associated with it.
Everyone has different preferences and aspects of sex that they enjoy more than others - so we look at the issue through the lens of power and how it can be a way for people to feel sexy and in control.
Our conversation also addresses a listener's frustration with their spouse's reluctance to engage in oral sex and the power dynamics at play in their relationship.
Takeaways
People have different preferences and aspects of sex that they enjoy more than others.
On the Xtended Version ...
A listener emails in about a fear he has that his girlfriends physical appearance may lead to potential performance issues if they get married. Even though she is perfect in every way!
Enjoy the show!
Sponsors ...
Paired App for Couples: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR
Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy
The post Power and Oral Sex #692 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
The podcast currently has 952 episodes available.
1,720 Listeners
1,958 Listeners
1,581 Listeners
871 Listeners
4,191 Listeners
409 Listeners
2,854 Listeners
185 Listeners
626 Listeners
141 Listeners
201 Listeners
1,357 Listeners
128 Listeners
133 Listeners
43 Listeners