You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives them the validation that they are loved. For women, they need to feel loved before they are going to have the desire for sexual intimacy.

For a woman to feel loved, they need to feel valued, listened to, respected, safe and emotionally connected. For men to feel loved, they need to be sexually connected.

It is vital for couples to understand what each other needs to feel loved, and the importance of sexual intimacy in the relationship. In this episode we talk about why women need to feel loved to make love, and how to do that, and why men need to make love to feel loved.

🔁 Healthy Cycle:

Emotional intimacy → physical intimacy → deeper emotional bond → stronger desire → repeat.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

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This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney, author, and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships. Yes, you read that right! A divorce attorney who’s passionately working to help couples stay together and thrive.

Tamara shares transformative strategies for resolving conflict in marriage. These steps are clear, easy to apply, and designed to bring lasting peace and deeper connection to your relationship. Whether you’re facing frequent tension or just looking to strengthen an already solid foundation, this episode is full of tools that can change the trajectory of your marriage fast.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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This episode was recorded in 2022 and reposted. 

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Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether?

In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into how to turn your average date night into a great night! They’ll share real answers from couples in their latest poll, fresh ideas for planning unforgettable nights, and the dos and don’ts that can make or break your time together.

If your date nights have become routine (or nonexistent), this episode is your game plan for bringing back the fun, passion, and connection.

Don’t miss it, because your next date night might just be your best yet!

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. However, transitioning from “parent mode” to “lover mode” is crucial for maintaining a strong emotional and physical connection with your spouse. But it is extremely hard for some women (and men) to do. In fact, in our recent poll we took, 60% of women stated it was hard for them to switch from mom (parent) mode to lover mode.

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share answers from our audience about how they shift from parent mode to lover mode, and of course we will share our insight as well.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

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In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and the best part? You probably already own everything you need!

This is one of our favorite things to do, because after all, the Ultimate Intimacy App bedroom game was developed because of one of the games we were playing to spice things up!

Think you need to buy fancy products or plan a big night out to connect intimately with your spouse? Think again. We’re sharing our favorite creative and playful ways to turn common household and classic games into something that sparks laughter, connection, and major chemistry.

From intimate twists on card games, dice games, and even things like truth or dare, and Jenga, we’ll show you how to reimagine game night as something that brings both fun and fire into your relationship. 🔥

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

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In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive into chivalry and what it actually looks like in modern-day marriage. 

Chivalry not as outdated gestures or grand displays, but as small daily, intentional acts of love and respect, like opening the door, protecting your spouse’s heart, putting their needs first, and showing up with kindness and thoughtfulness, even when life gets crazy. 

This episode will leave you inspired to bring more old-school romance into your everyday life, which your wife will love.

Spoiler alert: chivalry isn’t just for husbands. Wives can be chivalrous too! And when both spouses step up, the result is a marriage full of warmth, safety, admiration… and yes, intimacy.

If you're ready to bring the “wow” back into your relationship and lead with love in the little things, this episode is for you.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

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In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we’re not just talking about tax breaks and shared chores! In fact we don’t even mention either of those! We discuss emotional security and companionship to better health and deeper intimacy, marriage brings a unique kind of fulfillment that singles just don’t experience the same way.

But this episode isn’t just our opinion, we asked you, our incredible audience, to tell us what YOU think the biggest perks of marriage are, and today we’re sharing your honest, heartfelt, and even hilarious answers!

Whether you've been married for two years or twenty, this episode will remind you why you said "I do"—and might even inspire you to appreciate your spouse a little more today.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into one of the most requested topics from our community: Foreplay! 

We asked thousands of wives to share their favorite foreplay things they want to see from their husbands, and what puts them in the mood, and wow… they delivered! From emotional connection to those can’t-miss physical touches, this top 10 list is packed with real, tried-and-true tips that will take your intimacy game to the next level. 

Whether you're looking to rekindle the spark or just want to be a more thoughtful and confident spouse, this episode is for you. Husbands, take notes. Wive's, send this to your man. 

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

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Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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When Amy and I got married, we were head-over-heels in love with each other… but also totally clueless and unprepared for what marriage would actually throw at us. No one gave us a roadmap, and we we made a ton of mistakes early on!  

Over the years, we’ve grown, stretched, stumbled… and learned that marriage isn’t just one long phase, it’s a journey with different stages in life that shift, surprise, and sometimes shake you. But understanding those stages can help you better navigate and stay connected. 

Honestly, we didn’t even know marriage had stages until we hit year 18 and thought, “Wait… is this normal?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself that same question, especially if you’ve been married 10, 15, 20 years or more, then this episode is for you.

We’re breaking down the stages of marriage, what to expect in each one, and how to keep your intimacy and connection alive through all of them.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you should ask yourself to make sure you're getting the kind of support that will actually help your marriage—not hurt it.

In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy share some of the most important lessons they’ve learned in their own journey, including why not all advice is good advice—even when it’s coming from a “professional.”

They discuss:

• Why lived experience matters just as much (if not more) than credentials
• How to discern if someone truly has your marriage’s best interests at heart
• What red flags to watch for in therapists, counselors, and even social media “marriage experts”
• How some therapists have unknowingly (or even knowingly) kept couples stuck or sick for years
• The power of shared values and how that influences the direction of the advice you receive

This episode isn’t about bashing therapists—it’s about helping couples make informed, wise decisions when it comes to who they trust with "their" most important thing in their life, which is their relationship! 

Tune in for a conversation that will challenge you to think deeper and choose more intentionally when it comes to who you allow to speak into your marriage.

If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.

WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

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