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In part two of our chat with Kim and Darlene, they dive into the transformative power of faith and connection in marriage. They explore the intriguing "two brains" theory, the role of fathers in shaping their children's views on love, and how aging can positively influence attraction. Don't miss it!

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Introduction and Importance of Parental Guidance - 0:00

Interview with Kim and Darlene Unrau - 0:28

The Concept of Two Brains - 1:22

Attachment and Monogamy - 2:31

Shame and Marriage - 9:36

The Six Second Kiss - 14:00

Public Display of Affection - 18:26

Father's Influence and Heart Necklace - 22:15

Book Recommendations and Resources - 25:58

Closing and Prayer - 27:47

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We’re joined by Kim and Darlene Unrau to talk about emotional connection, healing, and what really helps marriages feel close again. We chat Father’s Day, emotional orphancy, how Jesus meets our unmet needs, and they share simple, practical tools to help couples build deeper emotional intimacy.

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Expectations - 0:00

Welcome to Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 0:19

Verse of the Day - 0:54

Introduction of Guests: Kim and Darlene - 1:26

Discussion on Father's Day and Encouragement - 3:25

Emotional Orphancy and Fatherhood - 4:28

Intimacy and Connection in Marriage - 6:14

The Role of Jesus in Relationships - 8:15

Practical Steps for Emotional Connection - 10:31

The Connection Code Exercise - 20:33

Emotional Intimacy and Vulnerability - 28:16

Conclusion and Prayer - 30:34

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Quickies get a bad rap, but they might be exactly what your marriage needs in busy seasons. In this episode, we talk about when quickie sex works, when it doesn’t, and how to make it connecting instead of rushed. If you’ve got kids, jobs, and about five spare minutes, this one’s for you.

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Patreon Support - 0:00

Episode Topic: Quickies - 1:45

Sponsor Message - 2:12

Tease Listener Bloopers - 2:24

Bible Verse Discussion - 2:55

Defining Quickies - 4:11

Pros and Cons of Quickies - 5:18

Making Quickies Intentional - 8:07

Common Quickie Mistakes - 19:53

Listener Bloopers Continued - 25:32

Closing Prayer - 30:22

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Getting married is an exciting milestone, but the wedding night often comes with a mix of anticipation and uncertainty! From managing expectations to embracing those awkward moments, this episode will help guide you through making your special night unforgettable.

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Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Overview: The Wedding Night - 0:20

Bible Verse Discussion - 0:50

Importance of Communication - 2:50

Expectations vs. Reality - 5:14

Common Wedding Night Surprises - 7:07

Understanding the Female Cycle - 10:04

Prayer and Spirituality in Marriage - 13:41

Guide Introduction and Details - 14:45

Closing and Prayer - 17:09

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Want better sex but don’t know how to say what you like? This episode breaks down how couples can communicate sexual preferences with kindness and confidence. Not sure what you like in the bedroom? Don't worry- we cover that too!

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Overview - 0:20

Verse of the Day - 0:45

Sponsor Break - 1:13

Why We Don't Talk About Preferences - 1:38

Purity Culture and Desire - 2:11

Communication in Marriage - 3:07

Exploration and Self-Discovery - 4:15

Guidance and Communication Levels - 8:24

Challenge for the Week - 17:11

Closing Prayer - 18:33

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What if your sexuality was meant to be approached with awe instead of fear? In this episode, Kyle and Tiera chat with Sam Jolman about shame, the difference between arousal and desire, and how reclaiming sensuality as sacred can lead to healing, and freedom!

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Discussion on Sexuality and Faith - 1:20

Sam's Personal Journey - 3:08

Exploring Masculine Sexuality - 6:24

Arousal and Desire - 13:41

Sensuality and Spirituality - 15:52

Shame and Evil - 33:49

Conclusion and Prayer - 44:25

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Ever feel like you love your kids and your marriage, but you’re exhausted and wondering where you went? In this episode, we talk honestly about the tension between motherhood, marriage, and identity, and how to get back into "lover" mode.

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Approximate Timestamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Verse of the Day: Proverbs 31 - 1:17

Losing Identity in Motherhood - 1:39

Balancing Motherhood and Marriage - 3:00

The Mental Load of Motherhood - 4:09

Postpartum Changes and Challenges - 8:40

Husbands' Role in Supporting Wives - 14:39

Reclaiming Identity and Intimacy - 21:30

Practical Tips for Couples - 25:01

Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 33:57

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Ever woken up from a sexual dream and thought, “What does this mean??and should I be worried?” Tune in as the KS team unpacks why sexual dreams happen, what they do (and don’t) say about your heart, marriage, and faith.

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Introduction and Episode Overview - 0:00

Verse of the Day - 0:38

Discussion on Sex Dreams - 1:19

Dreams and the Continuity Hypothesis - 2:13

Inside Out Movie Reference - 2:35

Dreams and Emotional Processing - 4:31

True or False: Sexual Dreams - 8:22

REM Sleep and Emotional Brain Activity - 8:51

Psychotherapist Erin Walsh's Insights - 9:17

Understanding Sexual Dreams - 10:08

Dreams and Relationship Dynamics - 11:36

Wet Dreams and Nocturnal Emissions - 19:37

Conclusion and Prayer - 25:06

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Tune in as Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the incredibly common topic of mismatched libido- having a different sex drive than your spouse! Whether you're the higher or lower drive spouse, you'll learn how to start the open communication to create a thriving sex life.

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Introduction and Welcome - 0:00

Episode Overview - 0:21

Sponsor Break - 1:18

Discussion on Mismatched Libido - 1:25

Understanding Desire Types - 6:01

Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire - 7:29

Dual Control Model - 19:26

Communication and Compromise - 23:23

Course Information and Conclusion - 34:09

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Orgasm help, screen-obsessed husbands, dry seasons, and everything in between- nothing is off-limits in this Q&A episode! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera answer real questions from Christian couples about mismatched libidos, period sex, how to talk about sex with friends, oral sex, and more!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:14

Q&A Session Announcement - 0:33

Patreon Shoutout and Benefits - 0:56

Verse of the Day: Romans 12:9 - 1:35

Sponsor Break - 1:46

Dealing with Dry Periods in Marriage - 1:51

Handling Different Sex Drives - 4:11

Tips for Enjoying Different Positions - 8:01

Sex During Menstruation - 10:38

Tension During Intercourse - 12:59

Talking About Sex in Christian Circles - 14:36

Dealing with Screen Obsession - 19:00

Idolizing Future Spouse - 25:51

Best Practices for Oral Sex - 28:17

Closing Prayer - 31:36

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