Me, me, me, me--- that's all I wanted to say and or talk about when my husband and I first got separated. Well, here's a reality check for me sister, IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT, DEE! Many times when we're in a difficult situation, it's easy to forget that the other person is a child of God as well. By focusing so much on our hurt, we forget that the other party is human too-- meaning, they hurt as well.