Part One – The Rules of enGAYgement: Who, What, When, & Where

Dating is hard—but dating as a gay man? No script, no rules, and a whole lot of guesswork. In Part One of The Rules of enGAYgement, we’re joined by social media influencer, music producer, and behavior specialist Solo to break down what dating even means in our world. From defining your intentions to figuring out who (and how) to date, we talk capacity, compatibility, and the queer dating pool shrinkage no one prepared us for. Plus: how to ask someone out, where to go, and whether it’s okay to kiss on the first date (spoiler: it depends).

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Part Two – Swipe Left or Act Right: Nudes, Labels, and Letdowns

In Part Two, we’re baring it all—literally. We dive deep into nude etiquette, sexual preferences, and the awkward dance of arranging to meet IRL. What makes a good pic? When is a block self-protection vs. self-sabotage? And how do we stay kind in a culture built for fast rejection? Plus: a listener question on queer code-switching, and a tip that involves dicks and decency.

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Part One – Swipe Left or Act Right: Horny or Human?

Hookup apps promise instant gratification—but what happens when our need for connection collides with the chaos of digital desire? In Part One of Swipe Left or Act Right, we explore the emotional whiplash of hookup culture, the art of pic etiquette, and why being horny doesn’t mean forgetting your humanity. From taps that lead nowhere to the emotional cost of ghosting, we unpack how to swipe smarter, chat better, and flirt with feeling.

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The masks come off—again. In part two, we go deeper into the cost of hiding in plain sight. We’re joined by an anonymous guest still in the closet, sharing his raw, unfiltered experience of navigating desire, fear, and identity in a world that demands conformity. It’s an honest look at what we bury to belong—and the courage it takes to break free.

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In this episode, we unmask the roles we play to feel safe, desired, and accepted in a world that rewards performance over authenticity. From masc-for-masc culture to everyday emotional armor, we talk about how queer folks often shrink themselves to fit in—and what it takes to start showing up as your whole damn self.

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This is the continuation of Shrink me baby, one more time: From breakthroughs to breakdowns, We share what therapy has taught us (and what we’re still figuring out).

In this episode, we talk about some sensitive and heavy topics, including experiences with sexual assault, drug use, and different kinds of abuse—physical, emotional, and verbal. Please take care of yourself and listen when you feel ready.

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From breakthroughs to breakdowns, We share what therapy has taught us (and what we’re still figuring out).

In this episode, we talk about some sensitive and heavy topics, including experiences with sexual assault, drug use, and different kinds of abuse—physical, emotional, and verbal. Please take care of yourself and listen when you feel ready.

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Welcome to part 2 of the first episode of our podcast: Live, Laugh, Loads. Cum take a load off and meet your hosts Ryan and Dario as we introduce ourselves and the purpose of this talk show.

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Welcome to the first episode of our podcast: Live, Laugh, Loads. Cum take a load off and meet your hosts Ryan and Dario as we introduce ourselves and the purpose of this talk show.

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Live Laugh Loads Trailer

Ep 1: Coming Out Pt 1

Launching Tuesday March 25th 2025 at 6am