Liveng Proof Podcast

Jenn Hardy, PhD, is a licensed counseling psychologist in private practice in Maryville, TN. She completed her doctoral degree at Penn State University in 2010 with specialized training in psychodynamic therapy, attachment theory, and career/vocational issues. Wanting to help a larger audience than could ever fit on a clinical caseload, she also writes on about relationships, career-related issues, resilience, and other psycho-educational topics. To see more of what she’s been writing and talking about, check out her website and consider subscribing to her quarterly newsletter. 

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What is trauma & our stress response to it

The ACE test

PTSD & complex PTSD

Why self-criticism doesn’t work: “A tree doesn’t grow any faster when you sit there and criticize it. And neither do you” 

“Sometimes we need to spend a little time around someone to remember the reasons why we don’t”

Recipe for self-forgiveness & being gentle on yourself

The nuances of conflict

Self mercey

The dialectic of two seemingly opposed concepts and how they can co-exist

waking the line of being authentic and private simultaneously

Defense and blame with a working example: parents with a child who has an eating disorder

Attachment styles: infant and adult

Attachment anxiety // attachment avoidance

Coding attachment style with toddlers **FACT CHECK: cardinal time for the strange test is 12-24 mos

The circle of security research based intervention — a tool that can be used by parents who have insecure attachment style, to develop a secure attachment with their babes

Experiences in Close Relationships Scale

Consistent doesn’t mean perfect

Between the World and Me

Call Me By Your Name

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Tami Amanda Sasson Is a licensed social worker, Personal Betterment Strategist, Yoga Teacher and is empowering women to re-awaken to their power, wholeness & worth through self-healing. She shares with potential clients that working with her is a very different experience as she incorporates her training as a psychotherapist, yoga teacher, somatic awareness practitioner and coach to bring you strategies that truly work and last. Enter to win these SIX lightroom mobile presets TO ENTER THE GIVEAWAY:+ Leave an itunes review+ Take a screenshot & email it to [email protected]+ That’s it! I will select a winner from the next 10 written itunes reviews I receive 🙂 SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS: Her childhood and role as a lost middle child The sexual trauma she experienced and the long term effects (as a young child) Intergenerational trauma + epigenetics Her desire to live in a fantasy world as a child The rules she learned to abide by in her family: keeping secrets, staying quiet,  Inner child and shadow work Coping strategies she developed in her teen years to deal with her trauma  Her baseline of fight/flight, normal = extreme, over active, hyper vigilant  Her experience with […]

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In this episode I’m chatting with Whitney Catalano, RDN is an anti-diet Registered Dietitian helping people break free from the diet/binge cycle, heal their relationship with food, make peace with their bodies, and take the power back from their inner bullies. She is the host of the popular podcast, Trust Your Body Project, where she treats her listeners to interviews with guest experts as well as solo episodes.  Trust Your Body Project  is not just a podcast but a growing social media movement aimed towards eliminating societal cultures around important topics such as weight stigma, eating disorders, emotional eating, fat culture, and “food addiction”, amongst others. WIN these SIX lightroom mobile presets TO ENTER THE GIVEAWAY: + Leave an itunes review + Take a screenshot & email it to [email protected] + That’s it! I will select a winner from the next 10 written itunes reviews I receive  SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON CONNECT WITH ENGRID: Email: [email protected]: @livengproofLiveng Proof Podcast Website CONNECT WITH WHITNEY: Podcast: Trust Your Body Project  Instagram: @trustyourbodyproject Facebook: @WhitneyCatalanoRDN IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS: What first motivated her to become a Registered Dietician Why “losing weight” always felt intrinsically wrong to her How she navigates comments […]

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IN THIS SOLO EPISODE I’M SHARING: How exercise was modeled to me growing up How this formulated my relationship with fitness How being an athlete became a large part of my identity The stereotypes we have of personal trainers & fitness industry professionals, imprinted from diet culture The positive + negative effects of being an athlete The experiences I had, that showed me how I had value  I didn’t know that my values was independent of my performance & appearance Where I learned “smaller is better” Adopting exercise as a coping strategy that evolved into a compulsion How my relationship with exercise has evolved from control/keeping myself small → to feeling empowered Believing I needed to suffer in order to earn approval, acceptance, love, belonging Questions I am asking myself: Why am I exercising right now? Am I doing it to feel empowered and connected to myself? Or am I doing it to control/manipulate my body? Because I feel obligated to? How will this exercise make me feel after? Empowered? Disempowered? Finding the True Self  Enter to win these SIX lightroom mobile presets TO ENTER THE GIVEAWAY:+ Leave an itunes review+ Take a screenshot & email it to [email protected]+ That’s […]

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In this episode, my best gal pal and fellow podcast host, Georgie Morley is taking over as host for the day and interviewing yours truly. This was such a fun and surprising episode to record because Georgie helped me to unearth some real gems that I would not have been able to share had I done this episode solo. SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON CONNECT WITH ENGRID:Instagram: @livengproofLiveng Proof Podcast Website CONNECT WITH GEORGIE:Instagram: @georgiemorleyThe Chasing Joy PodcastWebsite CHECK OUT GAL PALS:InstagramListen to: Gal PalsJoin: Gal Pal Corral IN THIS EPISODE WE DIVE INTO: The enneagram → I share about my enneagram (The Investigator) Proud moments Learning as an empath to hold space for other people’s emotions without needing to FEEL their emotional state Communication & listening skills + Building Relationships Learning to own my voice The origin story of the Liveng Proof Podcast The differences between in-person vs. skype podcast interviews  My process for preparing both workouts for my training clients and questions for my podcast guests I’m guiding someone but I’m not doing it for them Skills of podcast hosting Switching gears in both my business and my podcast theme, to embody my value of INTEGRITY (practicing in a […]

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In today’s episode I’m throwing back to one of my favorite interviews I have ever done. I’m taking it all the way back to September 2017. Now I’m not typically a re-post kinda gal myself, but you’re going to want to hear this mind-blowing story. It’s truly one for the record books. In this episode I am speaking with Bo Stegall. Owner of Bo Stegall Salon here in Greenville, SC. He spent 9 years developing his own hair care prodcut line: Bo Stegall | The Collection.  Additionally Bo has also starred in two reality tv shows. And was an on-camera style expert for E!, MTV, VH1, and TV Guide for several years. As if that wasn’t enough he’s also a huge animal lover and co-owner of the Noble Dog Hotel SUPPORT ME ON PATREON IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS: * The moment his life changed forever* How he navigated the passing of his mother to small cell lung cancer* His experience with grief and loss* Moving across the country to LA at 18 years old* How he ultimately became a celebrity hair stylist in Los Angeles CA* His experience with coming out and living true to himself* The struggles he […]

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MY EXPERIENCE WITH VYVANSE: What the mediation initially made me feel like How it impacted my appetite and sleep How it played into my eating disorder How I eventually knew I had a problem with it What sparked my decision to wean off of Vyvanse What it was like to wean off and the fears I had What recovering my energy has been like What I have gained from this decision Feeling more connected to my body = presence I was using Vyvanse as a way to cope with reality  SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON CONNECT WITH ME: Email: [email protected]: @livengproofLiveng Proof Podcast Website Other resources regarding my experience with vyvanse:  My Vyvanse Addiction Story LPP #112 ADD Medication Misuse & Eating Disorders with Katie Tewes Photo cred: Instagram: @carolinethephotographer

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TAKEAWAYS I LEARNED IN 2019: Overcoming (A HUGE) Fear Redefining “doing my best” Embracing Intuitive Eating Being uncomfortable slowing down Freeing the real me: my decision to wean off of Vyvanse  Self Advocating Improving my response time to triggers Learning how much I need my experiences to be ACKNOWLEDGED  Self Discovery: getting to know myself (and letting go of living up to expectations) BLOG POSTS MENTIONED: A Letter From A Recovering People Pleaser My Vyvanse Addiction Story EPISODES MENTIONED: BOOKS MENTIONED: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom  PODCASTS MENTIONED: Interview with Oprah & Lady Gaga CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: @livengproof Liveng Proof Podcast  Website

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In this episode I’m sharing about my experience of feeling like I didn’t get the memo on how to fit in and belong. I’m diving into: My experiences growing up that contributed to feeling like an outsider How this experience effects the lens through which I see today How it’s easier to focus on fixing an external thing and how this grants us the illusion of control The keystones of the human experience: security, connection, belonging, acceptance, love, feeling seen — are not achieved through losing weight, buying a house, or earning more money The trap our brains fall into The underlying messages that we’ve been conditioned to believe: “this is what you should want”, “it should come naturally to everyone”

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In this episode I’m take a leap and getting super vulnerable with you. I’m sharing about a recent experience with failure and how I ultimately am working to redefine what this means to me. This episode is perfect for anyone who has struggled with perfectionism, feels scared to go after what they want, or has taken the leap and not gotten the outcome you wanted. IN THIS EPISODE: The tools I used to get to the root of what I was feeling Facts, Feelings, Story, Old Idea, New Idea Rewriting old poisonous thoughts Learning how I cannot control the outcome but I can control my decision to take the leap & try When you get hurt then you know you feel, and when you allow yourself to feel something then you can begin to heal CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: @livengproof Liveng Proof Podcast  Website

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