You know the most important thing that God desires is intimacy with us and our highest calling is to live for him all the days of our lives as we do the spirit will transform us to resemble the Lord more and more over the course of our life.

Realize that God is solvent and he makes us more ready to forgive when we trust Jesus to remove any desire for retaliation in our lives.

We need to remember the Lord is grieved to see his children cling to an unforgiving spirit because emotional debt imprisons you and we want to be set free today. So, set your goal for the freedom from your bitterness and your hatred by asking Jesus Christ to release you with a tender heart and loving acceptance of the fact that he forgave you first.

Remember as we mature in our faith the inclination to sin will decrease but as long as our earthly life continues we won't be fully free of fleshly tendencies.

God gives us an opportunity each day to accept him as Lord and saver by those that he put to cross our path don't put off a decision for Christ you not only lose the immediate blessings of a deeply personal relationship with God now you also risk permanent precipitation from him for all eternity.

God does not want us to be trapped by the hurts that we've suffered nor does he want us to be so crushed by our expenses that we feel worthless.

I remind you that you are not in control, and God's way is better than yours. Don't let your independence and pride think you're better suited than the Lord, but humble your heart and live in complete reliance upon God.

I encourage you to set aside time every day to read your Bible and pray.

As you pray, imagine Jesus's shoulders just above you bearing all your burdens.

Remember God has given us his word a wonderful resource where his character his works and his purposes are clearly displayed so when difficulty or when you have your next difficulty remember to meditate on some attribute of a Lord.