Let’s stop lying about how things are “perfect” and start telling REAL stories about what it’s REALLY like to be an artist.
Are you in?
Today on the show I’m getting personal. I’m sharing my story of how I became a musician.
It’s not the one you put in your bio. It’s not the one where everything looks really shiny and perfect. It’s not the one with only the highlight reel.
When I hear an artist’s story, I want to hear the WHOLE story. (I’m very suspicious of “perfect” stories. Mostly because I’ve never actually seen one in real life. 💁)
I want to know what the beginning was like. How did they become an artist? What were the events that led up to it?
I find that no matter what kind of artist it is, if I can hear the real, true story—the gritty story, with all the flaws, the difficulties, the wins and the losses, and the highs and the lows—I always learn something.
Sometimes it helps me understand my own story better.
Or it helps me feel more understood, because maybe I went through some similar hell-fires.
The more honest the story is, the better.
Because when you hear a perfect, perfect story about how someone came to be an artist and how their career unfolded, that can feel so incredibly unattainable.
And that’s because it is!
Because that’s not ever really how it happens (even if a story is crafted that way looking back).
What actually happened is often a lot more interesting than that.
Every artist’s TRUE story will have elements of struggle. And I think it’s important for young people in particular—who are maybe just trying to figure out who they are, where they’re going, and what they’re doing—to know that.
To know that it doesn’t need to look and be perfect to have it be meaningful. And to know that it can go somewhere, even from very humble beginnings.
So I’m a big fan of honest story-telling when it comes to the arts. I think those stories HELP. They help humanize all of us. And they help us understand ourselves and our place in the arts a little better.
The more we can resist the urge to polish—to make it look like everything happened super methodically—the better it is for all of us.
Want to hear MY unvarnished, unpolished, mistakes-missteps-and-all story? Listen to the episode now!