For along time on my spiritual path I focused on developing what I determined were 'spiritual aspects', disregarding what I had determined were 'unspiritual traits'. Over time I had many issues with reality which I spent much time trying to heal - such as fears of being seen, playing it small, wanting (later attracting) money, being ungrounded, poor boundaries, lack of motivation, commitment, discipline, relationship issues... It wasn't until I began to question my perspective on healing itself that opened me up to finally healing them.