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Living with Love, Not Ghosts: Marrying a Widower, Becoming a Mom


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What does it look like to step into motherhood in an unexpected way? In this episode of The Whole MotherLoad, I sit down with Amy Davis, an educator, wife, and mom who married a widower with a young son.

Amy shares the unique challenges of being a stepmom in a situation where there isn’t an “ex,” but rather a beloved mother who passed away. From navigating identity and questions of “Am I enough?” to finding joy in everyday parenting moments, Amy’s story is raw, real, and deeply encouraging.

She opens up about:

  • The challenges of “living with someone’s ghost”
  • How she and Logan built trust and connection 
  • The humility and perspective she’s gained through step-parenting
  • Why she believes love — not DNA — is what makes a family whole
  • Practical advice for moms in blended families (and really, for any mom who doubts herself)

This is a story of resilience, humility, and choosing happiness when life takes unexpected turns. Whether you’re in a blended family or just need reassurance that you’re not alone in the hard parts of motherhood, Amy’s wisdom will inspire you.

“I wasn’t there for his birth, but I get to be here for his life.” Amy Davis

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The Whole MotherLoad™By Jackie Beauchamp