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What happens when the daughters of a “Words from the Wise” mom hear her share their family story and realize she’s still being too hard on herself? In this follow‑up to one of The Whole Motherload’s most loved episodes with Erin Christensen, her daughters Madi and Sarah share what their childhood actually felt like from inside their little family of four—and how different it was from the way their mom remembers it.

Now moms themselves, they talk about growing up with a young single mother, the room she gave them to make mistakes, and how her love, consistency, and later‑in‑life healing shaped their own motherhood. 

If you’ve ever lain awake wondering whether you’re screwing up your kids or replaying moments you wish you’d handled better, this perspective‑changing conversation will help you see your motherhood through kinder eyes.

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This week on The Whole Motherload, I’m opening up a treasured Christmas memory I gained when I was young. It’s the story of how my family became “Christmas Angels” to our widowed neighbor, Mr. Allen, through a simple Twelve Days of Christmas tradition.

This is a story about legacy, connection, and the traditions that anchor us — especially during the holidays. I hope it warms your heart and inspires you to look for someone who needs a little light this season.
From my family to yours, Merry Christmas.

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In this grounding and honest conversation, Jackie hosts guest Erin Christensen in the first episode of the Words from the Wise series (one each season) — a space for women who have lived enough motherhood to look back and share wisdom from the heart.

Together, they explore the realities of raising children through both calm and chaos, and the unexpected growth that comes from the hardest seasons. Erin shares her journey through single motherhood, blended family life, healing after heartbreak, and the lessons that helped her release perfectionism and reconnect with her children.

This episode touches on:

• learning to let go of unrealistic expectations
• navigating mom guilt and self-forgiveness
• creating meaningful traditions on a budget
• becoming emotionally safe for your kids
• how changing yourself can repair relationships
• why nothing lasts forever — especially the hard stuff

It’s a conversation full of relief, perspective, and tenderness for mothers in every stage.

Parenting Books Mentioned Links >>> HERE

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Today’s episode is such a good one — especially if reading is something you want to do more of with your kids… or if you’re already a book lover and want fresh ideas.

I’m chatting with Ashley Furness, a mom of four who has built the sweetest, most down-to-earth reading culture in her home. She makes reading feel doable, fun, and not at all overwhelming — which is honestly what we all need, right?

We talk about:

• Making reading fun and low-pressure
• What books to pick (without spiraling into overwhelm)
• Kids who stick to “easy” books
• Audiobooks
• How to introduce reading to kids
• How to bring books back into your life too
• and more...

All of the books and resources mentioned in this episode are here in this one PDF for you: TWML:E10 Resources

Grab your earbuds and join us — you’re going to love this one.

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In this deeply nourishing episode, I have a conversation with soul coach and mother of seven, Jenny Baer, to talk about the sacred, messy, and magical journey of motherhood. From toddlers to teenagers to adult children, Jenny shares the emotional shifts, spiritual insights, and practical tools that have helped her mother with more love and less regret.

What We Cover:

• How to move from clinging to savoring each season of motherhood
• Letting go of control and embracing trust in God and your children
• Raising children with purpose — not perfection
• Homeschooling, emotional resilience, and trusting your intuition
• Why traditions matter more than we think (and which ones to keep)
• The power of moms "moming" each other

Favorite Moments:

• Jenny’s analogy of birthing adult children — raw, real, and tear-worthy
• A touching story about how a lullaby she sang came back to her son in bootcamp
• Real talk about training vs. indoctrination
• Permission to nap (and why going horizontal might just save your day)

Connect with Jenny:

Follow her on Facebook: http://www.Facebook.com/jennybaercoach

Follow her on Instagram: http://instagram.com/glow.with.Jenny.baer

• 00:00 – Meet Jenny Baer: soul coach & mom of 7
• 03:08 – Identity loss & early motherhood
• 05:45 – Clinging vs. savoring
• 08:15 – Letting God lead in parenting
• 11:20 – Releasing control = more growth
• 14:55 – From mother to mentor
• 17:05 – Body cues: Am I holding on too tight?
• 20:20 – Why moms need support & rest
• 25:35 – Human design & body awareness
• 28:40 – Hormones & selective giving
• 30:50 – Being the mom you wish you had
• 34:40 – Sacred family traditions
• 38:10 – Healing through generational rituals
• 40:45 – Indoctrination vs. training
• 44:30 – A lullaby that echoed from bootcamp
• 47:25 – Media, masculinity & motherhood
• 51:00 – Parenting in evolving phases
• 53:30 – Savoring the small moments
• 56:45 – Final thoughts: Imperfect action & love

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This week on The Whole Motherload, Jackie sits down with Whitney Vogrinec, an “everyday mom” of two. Whitney opens up about the rhythms of love she builds with her kids, the resilience she hopes to pass on, and the importance of sharing the load with other moms.

From bedtime routines and four-year-old honesty to lessons from her own health struggles, Whitney reminds us that whole mothering doesn’t mean perfect mothering. It means embracing the mess, leaning on community, and staying connected to the full self—physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Why moms were never meant to do this alone.
• The small, everyday rhythms that help kids feel unconditional love.
• Teaching resilience by letting kids face challenges.
• Whole mothering: nurturing not just kids, but the whole self.
• The importance of mothers taking care of their own health.

Resources Mentioned:

• Wherever You Are, My Love Will Find You by Nancy Tillman (Affiliate Link)
• Emie Willow Books - By supporting this new author, you are supporting this show! 

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In this bonus episode of The Whole MotherLoad, I share the deeply personal story of Sarah O’Flaherty — my cousin from Ireland, my pen pal, and ultimately, the woman whose life has intertwined so closely with mine.

What began as a teenage letter exchange grew into a bond that connected me to my husband, Thom, and later to Sarah’s son, Logan, after her heartbreaking passing shortly after his birth. Through unexpected moments of connection, loss, and grace, Sarah continues to play a role in my life — as a friend, a connector, and a guardian angel.

This episode is a companion to my recent conversation with Amy Davis, Sarah’s widower’s wife, offering the backstory that brings even more heart to their journey.

✨ If you’re curious about your own roots, I encourage you to explore your family history through >> Family Search

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What does it look like to step into motherhood in an unexpected way? In this episode of The Whole MotherLoad, I sit down with Amy Davis, an educator, wife, and mom who married a widower with a young son.

Amy shares the unique challenges of being a stepmom in a situation where there isn’t an “ex,” but rather a beloved mother who passed away. From navigating identity and questions of “Am I enough?” to finding joy in everyday parenting moments, Amy’s story is raw, real, and deeply encouraging.

She opens up about:

• The challenges of “living with someone’s ghost”
• How she and Logan built trust and connection 
• The humility and perspective she’s gained through step-parenting
• Why she believes love — not DNA — is what makes a family whole
• Practical advice for moms in blended families (and really, for any mom who doubts herself)

This is a story of resilience, humility, and choosing happiness when life takes unexpected turns. Whether you’re in a blended family or just need reassurance that you’re not alone in the hard parts of motherhood, Amy’s wisdom will inspire you.

“I wasn’t there for his birth, but I get to be here for his life.” Amy Davis

💌 If this episode touched your heart, share it with another mom who needs encouragement today.

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Motherhood is messy, sacred, and full of moments where we wonder if we’re doing it right. In this episode of The Whole Motherload™, I sit down with my friend Colby Fletcher, mom of four (including triplets!) and a mother to a special needs son, to talk about the power of mothers’ intuition, faith, and building systems that bring peace in the chaos.

Colby shares her journey through infertility, raising multiples, and learning to lean on God when she didn’t know what to do. This conversation is full of wisdom and encouragement for every mom who has ever doubted herself.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re “messing up” your kids or wished for a little more confidence in your parenting, this episode will remind you: you’re not doing this alone.

WHAT YOU'LL GET IN THIS EPISODE:

✨ Colby’s childhood revelation that prepared her for infertility

✨ The faith and systems that helped her raise triplets + one

✨ What she learned about trusting her intuition as a mom

✨ How to manage anger and to repair when you fall short

✨ How kids mirror our self-talk — and how that can change us

✨ Colby's take on fearing we’ll “mess up” our kids

✨ The importance of enjoying the journey, even in the chaos

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Some references in this episode: 

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (LDS)

Patriarchal Blessing

Blessing of Healing

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In this first Shorts episode, Jackie shares some musings about radical listening and radical acceptance and how they relate to being present in relationships.

This goes deep. 

A raw and real episode about her struggle for true self-acceptance and how it taints the way she shows up for her most precious relationships.

She digs into how her judgment of herself creates a situation where she fails to show up for others too. 

This show references: 

The Whole MotherLoad Episode 3 >> HERE

Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection - Video interview with the co-author of the book>> HERE

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