Inspired by Oprah Winfrey's and Bruce Perry's book, "What Happened to You?' I asked and answered this question of myself. I discovered voluntarily and involuntarily my own childhood trauma and how it impacts the decisions I have made as a bigger kid. Because what I know for sure is that we never really grow up. We age and are forced to make bigger decisions but the smaller kid in us will always need to be fed. Speaking of being fed, sometimes all we need is cereal and cartoons to feel safe again.