Get ready for this episode with Jimmy Boheler. It’s packed with all the golden nuggets of information from motivation to his story; you’ll be sure to take something good away from this episode. Before the pandemic, Jimmy was selling life insurance. However, that became hard to connect with people in person. Jimmy knew that he loved serving the public and helping others, so he started to work for the company he’s currently working for as a Concierge Specialist. Jimmy works alongside many successful people and has learned how important your mindset is to everything in life.
He’s learned to be the influence, give more, give value, and surround yourself with the right people. Jimmy dives moe into how our mindset affects our overall success, the power of having mentors in our lives, and how he successfully came this far in his life in under a year.
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Transcript
Jimmy Boheler (00:00:01):
Um, Angie’s seen a couple of my lives that they they’ve, they’ve grown a lot. Uh, they used to, um, uh, used to be very plain, very boring, but I, I heard something a while back was value value, value sale. So I just keep giving value one day, I’ll sell it, man. but, uh, but right now
Pat Cherubini (00:00:17):
You say you can give away everything, you know, for free because 99% won’t do anything with it. And the 1% the do don’t have the time and they’ll pay you for it. So
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Angie Cherubini (00:01:18):
Hi everyone. It’s pat and Angie Cherubini on local vibes and day. We have Jimmy bowler and you know, we’ll, we’ll tell you a little bit more about him, but we’ll let him talk first about what exactly his business is and the origin behind it. And there’s a lot of businesses behind you. I know that. And we’ll get into that, but
Jimmy Boheler (00:01:41):
, that is true. What’s upon.
Jimmy Boheler (00:01:45):
Yep. Uh, best way to start. Yeah. Once upon a time, um, basically a little background I was doing life insurance was pretty much my gig and then COVID shut all that down. Uh, I definitely couldn’t go into, uh, miss Betty’s driveway anymore. She was like, no, not happening. uh, so, uh, so I had, I had to figure out something to do. Um, so I was looking, I was looking for, uh, you know, know some mentoring. I was looking for coaching. I, I had about, at that time I had about 13 streams of income. Uh, not all of them were cash flowing very well. Uh, but then I, uh, ran across a, a de a direct sales company and got excited and was like, and a mentor came, came to me and said, Hey, look, I’ve been doing this for 20 years. And all you gotta do is really just be coachable, be trainable.
Jimmy Boheler (00:02:27):
And I can show you a nice little system, uh, to make you very successful in a, not very long period of time. And so, uh, so in the past year has just been absolutely. I, uh, heard the term marketing to all as marketing to none. And so I took that and took that, ran with it and said, Hey, can let let’s slow, slow down all these other ones. Uh, as my father would say, shoot off a bunch of ducks . So I shot off a bunch of, a bunch of ducks and, uh, and, uh, came down to pretty much. Now I’m very rarely doing life insurance, and now I’m doing basically direct sales full-time, uh, it’s my full-time gig. And I basically help other people, uh, make money at online and at home.
Angie Cherubini (00:03:06):
Nice. Very nice. Why, what, let’s go back and talk about the origin of how we know each other, cuz um, you know, gosh, it started back when you started or when you were doing Southern chew mm-hmm do you remember that?
Jimmy Boheler (00:03:23):
Angie Cherubini (00:03:25):
Yeah, that was a family business. Wasn’t it?
Jimmy Boheler (00:03:28):
It was, uh, basically right outta college. I went to Appalachian state and uh, soon as I graduated out, even during college, I wanted cash and uh, my father and my mother said, Hey, look, you gotta get, you gotta get paid. You gotta make money. You can’t come, can’t come back home. Uh, and we decided very quickly that that’s a very quick cash making business and I fell in love with it. I love serving the public. I love serving people, uh, went all the way up to, um, you know, I was started serving tables. Then I was bartending. Then I was, uh, managing restaurants, uh, went all the way up to owning my own restaurant for by out three and a half years there. Uh, and it was funny because I really did not think, um, I, you know, my goal was to get to the top.
Jimmy Boheler (00:04:08):
Once, once I got there, I was like, I don’t wanna be here anymore. Uh, I mean, yeah, cause I got, I got married. I had, I had a kid on the way. Uh, didn’t have time. I mean, I just did not 80 hours a week, 90 hours in the restaurants anybody’s out there listens. And if you’ve done any type of restaurant work, it’s a lot, a lot of time, especially when you’re the janitor, you’re the bartender, you’re the cook. You do it all. Yeah. Uh, you know, welcome to business ownership. Yeah. And chief ball washer, that’s it. That’s it. So, uh, so then I, at that point, uh, we basically shut that down and I went into, uh, corporate America. Uh, I had never worked corporate America besides restaurants. So that gave me a good idea of that. Worked for a little tire company called Michelin tires. Uh, worked for those guys, did their, just
Angie Cherubini (00:04:49):
Jimmy Boheler (00:04:50):
Just a little one. Uh, but I, I did that for a while. Um, that was for about three or four years, uh, and ran their social media. So they had over 5 million people on their, of social media platform. So we had to be very careful what we said, what we did. Uh, it was a team of us that ran that. But I, I learned a lot about zoom. I learned about, uh, social media and Instagram and YouTube and Google and everything, uh, coming from a big company like that had a lot of great training. Um, but I hated having a boss. I just could not do it. You honestly was constantly, ever since college was, I I’ve gotta, I wanna start at the top. And I remember my mom used to say, you can’t start at the top. And I was like, eh, maybe there’s gotta be a way somehow yeah.
Jimmy Boheler (00:05:33):
So, uh, so, uh, that’s when I got into life insurance and basically I never really had a foster there, so I did a life insurance and mortgage protection and a, and all that jazz. And then, like I said, COVID shut all that down. I had to do something. Uh, but the great thing about it, which was the win on this is I learned more about zoom because I started teaching others about life insurance and mortgage protection through this technology. Uh, so that’s been, so that was a very, very big game changer for me because now I was like, well, we can be pretty much anywhere now, uh, in a split second or even on a, on a cell phone and, and, and communicate and, and grow businesses. And I was like, so when I came into what I’m doing now, this direct sales that was, they said P Z private business zoom. And I went, I’m in . I like it. Let’s go. I
Angie Cherubini (00:06:21):
Pat Cherubini (00:06:22):
Already know it’s here to stay too.
Jimmy Boheler (00:06:24):
And it’s, and it’s not going anywhere. The stock stocks rose on it. It’s, it’s not, it’s not going anywhere. And, uh, and so I, I basically put all those eggs right in that basket and said, I’m, if this is because, and I would love to teach I others out there, you know about that idea is once you put all your eggs in the baskets. Cause I had that approach to me several times. It’s like, you’re doing too much, you’ve got too many things out there and I’m sitting there spinning plates, like crazy. I was like, man, what are you talking about? I’m making money. Let’s go, you know? Yeah. Um, but I wasn’t an expert at anything and, and that’s the thing it’s and so when I really narrowed down to be coming the expert in what I do, uh that’s when that’s, when a lot of things changed,
Pat Cherubini (00:07:04):
You want me to tie the bow on how we actually connected because it’s, it’s a good entrepreneurial story. Yeah. How many years ago was it a lot?
Jimmy Boheler (00:07:14):
Pat Cherubini (00:07:15):
Angie Cherubini (00:07:16):
Jimmy Boheler (00:07:18):
Pat Cherubini (00:07:18):
Like that. So you are in North Carolina, correct? Correct. Is that where you’re still at? We were in Ohio. We didn’t know each other at all. Nope. And you know, the story was, we were going on vacation and Angie has always been very good at this of figuring out a way to go. If we needed something, she could figure it, figure out a way. And I have no idea how you found Jimmy, but Judy had the restaurant and I believe you said you contacted him and said,
Angie Cherubini (00:07:47):
Pat Cherubini (00:07:47):
Angie Cherubini (00:07:48):
Yeah. It’s because I looked at your condo and mm-hmm then I looked at you and checked you out online to see what kind of business you did. And you needed a website for Southern ch that’s. Right. And we traded services. Yep. So
Pat Cherubini (00:08:03):
Like that, that’s that. And looking for a condo on the beach, we found him that’s right. And then, you know, one little offer I gotta do is ask. You never know, you know, so that’s it. That’s a good lesson for everybody. You gotta ask. Yep. If you don’t ask the answer is what?
Jimmy Boheler (00:08:16):
Pat Cherubini (00:08:18):
So I, I just thought that was, uh, kind of funny that we’re right back here. Face to face finally, after you gave us a vacation
Jimmy Boheler (00:08:25):
Angie Cherubini (00:08:27):
Been a long time. Yep. Um, so would you say then was COVID your inspiration to start doing what you’re doing now?
Jimmy Boheler (00:08:37):
Yeah, absolutely. Because you know, COVID, I think changed a lot of people. The people there they’re people that survived and there’s people that are still trying to survive. Um, and I think what what’s exciting is, uh, I could have never dreamed this big that everybody that I would deal with now, uh, would know how to use zoom. I, I just couldn’t dream that big. I mean, that was the thing within overnight. Uh, all of a sudden this technology of video chats and, and talking through a computer was now very popular. Mm-hmm everybody knew and everybody knew how to do it. uh, so, so when I saw an opportunity and my mentor will tell you each and every day is there’s people that will make money online and there’s people that’ll watch people make money online. Mm-hmm . And so it’s, and it’s gonna be your choice, you know, if you’re still in a brick and mortar, good luck to you, I’m telling you it’s going by the wayside. Uh, there’s a lot of things that look at restaurants, restaurants, didn’t a lot of them. I mean, some of my favorite restaurants are gone, go down. We were talking about out the beach. A lot of those restaurants took a hit and they’re not gonna be back. They’re never going to be back. Especially
Angie Cherubini (00:09:41):
Those that didn’t adopt new ways of doing things. Um, when COVID hit, I mean, it totally exposed so many businesses.
Jimmy Boheler (00:09:51):
That’s right. That’s exactly right. So, and that’s, what was my fear was I was out there sling insurance in front of people and everything shut down. I mean, it literally, I couldn’t do anything, but get, find, find business that was online. And what I did, uh, little side story was, uh, I was doing the insurance and a lot of people didn’t do the insurance online. It was actually frowned upon, you know, you gotta be in front of the person. Right. But I was having success with it. So I started to others. Of course, uh, it was actually called the tele cell guru at one point. And, uh, started offering insurance online and teaching others how to do that. Uh, and a lot of it was just communication and talking skills and having the posture and things like that. But a lot of people didn’t know that because they just walked into a home and said, Hey, how you doing?
Jimmy Boheler (00:10:35):
I saw you filled out this little form here. Let’s go. Uh, let, lemme see if I can get you some insurance. And there’s a lot more to that. The numbers are a lot lower as far as selling online, but as long as you’re helping somebody, that’s the key. Uh, so, so I had to adapt. I mean, there was no, there was no choice. It was sink or swim. And I, and I definitely think that, uh, with this technology and everything that’s going on, I mean, just like this mean you were having, having a conversation now with you guys and, uh, we can do that now from anywhere.
Pat Cherubini (00:11:02):
Right. And there’s more, I mean, if you don’t know, we’re not on zoom, but this is just like zoom and there’s, there’s a handful of them now where even a couple years ago there wasn’t, mm-hmm so this is just what we used to record our courses with and we just have it. So, you know, we have zoom too, but is what we use. Yes. No different face to face virtual,
Jimmy Boheler (00:11:21):
Angie Cherubini (00:11:23):
So then you, you know, honestly, what exactly, what exactly is your business
Jimmy Boheler (00:11:29):
Now? Okay. Um, well, you know, how, and, and, you know, I, I target real estate agents. That’s, that’s my go-to people. Uh, why real, why real estate agents is, is mainly because, uh, these guys, uh, if you’re a real estate agent, one of the number one questions that is asked to a real estate agent is where do I get my services from? Uh, so what I do is offer, uh, a concierge service to those real estate agents, because that last bit of the sale, that last two percents building that rapport with that real estate agent. And if that real estate agent can now offer those services of power, gas, uh, internet TV, all those services that, that customer’s asking for and get paid on it each and every month and just the ending of the sale or ending of helping that client, um, you know, that’s, it’s very beneficial. Um, so that’s what I do is, is basically offer a concierge service or a tr you know, a lot of their real estate agents call it transaction coordinator. Uh, that’s pretty much what I do, but, uh, a lot of times those, uh, those real estate agents do not get money or get any type of any type, the income by sending, uh, their own clients to, you know, for, for different types of services. Right,
Angie Cherubini (00:12:38):
Jimmy Boheler (00:12:38):
So they’re they’re. Yep. So they’re able to build that residual income each and every month, because most real estate agents do know that you’re only going from sale to sale or, you know, house to house, to house and, and it’s, you know, feast or famine,
Pat Cherubini (00:12:52):
You get paid, you ain’t getting paid until you sell something.
Jimmy Boheler (00:12:54):
Right. So, so I show them a way to make residual income each and every month. And that can builded on itself all the way up to 20% on, let’s say a home security system, or let’s say a, let’s say a power bill or a gas bill, very, very powerful stuff. And it’s not out there. We are the only real, the strong player with this because we partnered up with, at and T with direct TV, with spectrum names you’ve already heard of before. Right? Because we, we came in with a thousand, a thousand, uh, customers saying, Hey, look, here’s, here’s a bunch of customers. Can we do business with you? So the contracts are already there. I mean, it would take another company years to build the contracts that we built with these companies.
Angie Cherubini (00:13:33):
And it’d be easy for the, a real estate agents to then, you know, they’ve already built that rapport with that person once they’ve sold the house or, or just, you know, they they’ve totally built that rapport. So then they’ve, you know, people are gonna be like, yeah, what if this can make it easier for me that’s right. Of course I’ll do it so I can see how beneficial that would definitely be.
Pat Cherubini (00:13:59):
And I’ll be honest, I didn’t know this existed.
Jimmy Boheler (00:14:01):
Right. Well, and that’s the thing, because most real estate agents and, and of those real estate agents that are listening right now, they typically hold up a piece of paper that says, Hey, here’s where you go get your internet. Here’s where you get your TV. Here’s where you get your power. And now we can offer it’s a, a link to them. They get their own concierge link, they click on it and the customer can fill it out. And the real estate agent gets paid on that each and every month.
Angie Cherubini (00:14:25):
Jimmy Boheler (00:14:26):
Pat Cherubini (00:14:27):
Recurring income is a good thing. Yes.
Jimmy Boheler (00:14:29):
Recurring income is a great thing.
Angie Cherubini (00:14:32):
Pat Cherubini (00:14:35):
Yep. So how long have you been with this company?
Jimmy Boheler (00:14:38):
Less, less than a year. Uh, I’m now a regional director within the company, uh, did not take me very long. I’ve got about 200 and we call ’em business partners 225 business partners now, and over 1500 services that I’m making residual income each and every month. And that being power bills, gas bills, things like that. So it’s, it’s, it’s been very, very, uh, just a, a blessing. I mean, just a blessing outta the sky, because I’ll never forget. When I first started this two days, two days before I met my mentor, I was looking for a coach. I was looking, cause I didn’t know where I was going. All I kept hearing was get a mentor and get a coach, get a mentor and get a coach. I had a coach pretty much I was working with, but a mentor will take you down that road that you’re trying to go.
Jimmy Boheler (00:15:20):
They’re gonna make that road a little easier. And, uh, so I, uh, two days before I met him, I walked into my wife’s office and I said, I’m gonna, I’m gonna get a mentor. I’m gonna get somebody that’s gonna help me. Uh, but I it’s gonna cost me about 20. It’s gonna cost us about $25,000 just to get the coaching and the mentor and everything I need. And she goes, you lost your mind. and I was like, I know . I was like, I was like, I, I know. Uh, but to, and, and, and so we prayed about it and we talked about it. Never really got a firm. Yes, it’s okay for Jimmy to go out on the limb here. And, uh, and I ran into, uh, Patrick maser. Who’s my mentor, uh, met him on an online app. He reached out to me, said, congratulations on your success.
Jimmy Boheler (00:16:01):
Now guys, I was selling life insurance. And I was like, this isn’t says to me, um, and, uh, he said, but I’ve, he said, you know, you’ve got a big thing going, you you’ve got an energy, you’ve got a lightness about you, but you need a, but you need a system. You need a system to run with. You need a, uh, you know, we, we laugh about, you probably could see a little bit of the train tracks there. Uh, I started kind of getting this freight train mentality. He said, I love your freight train mentality, but that train needs a track brother. so, uh, that’s good. Yep. Yep. So, uh, so he showed me a system, a very duplicatable system and said, look, come in. Let’s, let’s make some money together. I think we can do some big things together. And the rest is history that was less than a year ago, but a year ago, April 14th, uh, is when I joined, when I joined this business and it’s been up ever since, I mean, of course, nothing is easy.
Jimmy Boheler (00:16:46):
I had a couple little, uh, S you know, on the way, but that’s, what’s great is having a mentor and having a coach, somebody to say, Don, that let’s go this way. , mm-hmm . Um, but, but it, but it is duplicatable. Anybody can do it. And, and my, you know, one of the reasons why I absolutely said yes to this is everything. You can have, everything you want. It’s all up here in your head, it’s all up. It’s all mindset. Uh, it is, I had the desire. I had the passion, but I didn’t have, I had the faith, but I just didn’t have that system. And you’ve got to have a system before anything will really take off for you. So that’s why I do lives. I think, uh, um, Angie’s seen a couple of my lives. They, they they’ve, they’ve grown a lot. Uh, they used to, um, uh, used to be very plain, very boring, but I, I heard something a while back was value, value, value, sale. so I just keep giving value one day. I’ll sell. Yeah. But, uh, but right now
Pat Cherubini (00:17:36):
You say, you can give away everything, you know, for free because 99% won’t do anything with it. Amen. And the 1% to dude don’t have the time and they’ll pay you for it. So
Jimmy Boheler (00:17:44):
Pat Cherubini (00:17:45):
Yeah. That’s kinda the way we work too. And that’s kind of what we’re doing now. You know, we just wanna share information. Um, so I, I probably know the answer to this because you have a coach and a mentor, but, you know, for those, you know, in any business, you know, local businesses was our jam. You know, when there are rough spots, you know, what did you do? You know, when the tough got going or the tough got tough, what did you get do to get going?
Jimmy Boheler (00:18:08):
Yeah, I definitely in our business, we talk about your, why, why are you in this business? Why are you going through so that, so in those trials and tribulations happened, that’s exactly what we go back to. Yep. We go back to here’s where we’re going. Uh, here’s here’s remember if we go back about three months, you told me you were doing this for your kids. You were doing this because you wanted out of that job of you were telling me that. And so I go all back all the way back to that. Why? Uh, so that’s, that’s the main reason when, anytime there’s hurdles or hiccups, things like that. I go back to my kid, go back to my wife. I go back to my, I don’t want a boss. That was a big one. Uh, I will ne I will. And, and, and sticking to that, it’s saying, I’m not gonna have a boss. And there will be nothing that gets me to a boss. Uh, so, uh, in making that commitment, me and my wife, you know, made a, made a commitment a long time ago when we said our vows was, we don’t even say divorce. We don’t even talk about it. And if you can do that, when it comes to a business, say I’m committed no matter what, I’m gonna give it. My all that’s when that’s, when things change,
Pat Cherubini (00:19:09):
We have a story long time ago. Neither one of us can remember who said it, but you know, when things were tough, somebody told us once, no matter what, never shut the doors. And that’s just the way we’ve been, you know, things get tough. It’s just not an option. We’re gonna keep going and figure it out.
Jimmy Boheler (00:19:24):
That’s it, that’s it. And, and even with, with the restaurant, uh, we, we were, God, we were really struggling those last six, well about last year. And so what I did is like you just said, I shut the front doors, but I left the catering doors open. Oh, right. And I catered for another. Yeah. I catered for another year, year and a half. I still do catering now. Um, but, uh, but, uh, yeah, I left the catering business open because I ha I was like, I can’t give up. There’s still something still a need out there. And then it was to matter. Do I want to, I’m SAC now I’m sacrificing life and I’m sacrificing time. And I was like, I don’t, I don’t wanna go through this for, for, this is, this is not what my life life’s too short for that. Um, so now, uh, all that, that led up to this now I have my own free time. Now I’m making more money I’ve ever made. I’m having more fun than I’ve ever had. Uh, and it’s, and I don’t do not have a boss. So I, so all that had to come, you know, brought me to this.
Angie Cherubini (00:20:17):
Awesome. That is, that’s really awesome.
Jimmy Boheler (00:20:21):
Angie Cherubini (00:20:21):
What would you say is your most memorable moment so far
Jimmy Boheler (00:20:26):
That you, of man fall just falling on my face so many times and, and, and knowing that I can do it, the, I am, oh, there’s a perfect one. Um, so I do affirmations affirmation cards each and every day, and really digging into these, like these books behind me with the thinking grow rich and, uh, the science of getting rich. And so I would say the most memorable, memorable moments is the change that has been made the change from going from no longer me, but about them give more about the give than, than, than taking. And that was, that was very, that was hard for me. That was hard. Uh, cause that was always been instilled in me. I didn’t, I never even heard the word. This is gonna be sound crazy, but it, and I never heard of gratitude. I didn’t know what gratitude meant.
Jimmy Boheler (00:21:09):
Mm-hmm I didn’t know the word. The second one was EdFi I had never heard of Edify until I got in this business. I know that sounds crazy, but I just wasn’t around it. I wasn’t, I was around restaurant people. I was around. Yeah. You know, corporate, corporate, America people. They, we didn’t talk about that kind of stuff. Mm-hmm . And so when you get around and this is huge for everybody listening is when you get around heavy hitters, you’re, you’re taught the conversation changes. , you know, you get around people that are making more money that are making bigger decisions. Your conversation changes a lot. Um, and you know, they always say, if you’re around five broke people, you’re the six, if you’re around five rich people, you’re gonna be the six. So yeah. Uh, I had, I had to change my friends and uh, you know, whoever ends the up watching this or whatever I had to change those.
Jimmy Boheler (00:21:49):
I mean, they’re, they’re still my friends, but we don’t talk like we used to, we, that conversation is different now. Um, and I think, and I think that’s one of the things I, my coach tells me all the time, it’s an out body outta mind experience where you literally have to get out of an old mindset and into a new one and, and lot. And a lot of times your friends don’t go with, yeah, those are the ones that are not, that are knocking you down instead of pulling you up. And so I had just get new, new friends, bigger friends, bigger hitters, um, that drive nicer cars and have nicer houses. and, and that literally, and it changed. Yeah,
Pat Cherubini (00:22:21):
Go ahead. Yeah. I, I literally just made the post a week ago or so about that. Cuz we follow a lot of entrepreneurs, you know, big thinkers that it’s mindset, it’s gratitude. It’s, mm-hmm, , you know, morning routines and all that stuff that we do. And that’s one of the things that they’ve, I I’ve heard for years, you know, you can love your family doesn’t mean you have to be around ’em if they’re trying to bring you down and if you that’s right, you can’t change the people around you, you gotta change the people that you hang around. Yep. That’s it, you that doesn’t and a lot of people get that, you know, they feel bad for leaving ’em behind, but you know, they chose to stay behind. They could have come with you,
Jimmy Boheler (00:22:56):
That’s it? Yeah. I mean, I, some, some of the people that I know are right down the street, right in my area shop the same grocery store. And you know, my, my favorite book, the science of getting rich, he Wallace Wallace talks about that is you can live in the same neighborhood, drive down the street. And one person is very successful and the other person is not, has nothing to do with where you live. It’s all about that mindset. And, and you’re exactly right. You have, they have a choice. They know what I do. mm-hmm you know, so, uh, so it’s just a matter, some of them do reach out. I’ve had, I’ve had some recent ones, I’ve got a guy this week. Uh, that’s partnered up with him cause you know, he, I watched you, I’ve watched you grow and I’m ready. I, I think you’re ready for me now. He said, you wasn’t ready for me then. Okay. Let’s go. You know? So, um, but it, but it’s, you know, a lot of it goes back to just that changing of the mindset, getting, getting that, getting the, the impossible out of the way, cuz anything is possible. Anything. Um,
Pat Cherubini (00:23:51):
Yeah. And like I say, if anybody’s done it, you can too. Mm-hmm
Jimmy Boheler (00:23:54):
that’s right. You know, they talk, they talk that’s right. And they talk, uh, we were at a convention two weekends ago. One of the things they talked about was, you know, track, track racers, and you know, there’ll be a time limit and all the, of a sudden it’d be 4.2 seconds on a certain, you know, a lot of these NFL combine stuff. And so they’re timing these guys and all of a sudden somebody breaks the record. Yeah. Well now everybody’s mindset changes. Cause now it’s like, okay, wait a minute. I can do that. I can break that record. And, and that’s the same, that’s the same thing with, with what, what I’m learning, uh, each and every day is, is nothing is possible. I’m ready to break some records. I mean, that’s, that’s the thing. Anybody can break any record. That’s what they’re there for. Right? The brain be broken
Angie Cherubini (00:24:32):
I believe I will believe you will do that. I would say I was thinking one of your most memorable moments had to be when you were just on stage, because I remember you posting all about that and how exciting it was and your wife went and down there with you, where did you guys go?
Jimmy Boheler (00:24:48):
We were in Dallas, Texas. Um, and what’s interesting about that. It’s funny you said that cuz you’re right. That is a pretty good one. Uh, is when I met my mentor, I, you know, one of the things he asked me is, do you ever want, would you get on stage? I’m like, dude, hand me a microphone. Let’s go. And of course, uh, I took communication. So I took public speaking. And one of, of the scariest things to do is, is public speak people. Oh yeah. They won’t even speak at their own funeral. I mean, that’s how bad this is, you know? So, uh,
Pat Cherubini (00:25:13):
A big 50 years to get on zoom
Jimmy Boheler (00:25:16):
right. Um, yeah. Even lives. And that’s where some of that started from was I was, uh, another mentor had told me, Hey, look, if you start going live and start sharing yourself, you’ll get more comfortable, more comfortable, more comfortable. And then, uh, and it was funny because this past one that I was at, he gave me the microphone again. And this time he took the microphone from me after I got done and said, you’re getting good at this I said, I know.
Jimmy Boheler (00:25:43):
So, yep. So, so that’s but yes, that’s a very big, uh, that, that was a big one getting in front of people. I mean, I was in front of, uh, this past one. I mean we had probably, I think two or 3, 3, 2 or 3000 people. So it’s, and, and he said that he told me that from the beginning and said, look, man, I’m gonna put you in front of people that you ain’t going, you going, you gonna get a little nervous on this. And uh, he said, but the more that I do that, and the more that you get in front of those people, the more you’ll get comfortable with it. They’ll start hearing you, your, your, your speech will change. And then all of a sudden, and look, I mean, you guys reached out to me to do this. I mean, and that’s the thing is, is that’s what you gotta, you gotta get in front of more people. Uh, yeah. My, my, my main coach will say that it doesn’t take more money. It takes more people mm-hmm
Angie Cherubini (00:26:22):
so yeah, 100%. And we know that. I mean, that’s why you’ve started to do more again, and we’ve gotten back online now and now we’re starting to do lives as well. Um, you know, helping people and instructing them on doing the stuff that we do online. Um, we had a little hiatus from it for about six months, but, um, since then we, we knew that this is, you know, once you have a life changing moment, something life changing that happens, then you decide, and it makes it easier for you to decide, yes, this is what I wanna do. And, and helping other businesses was what we wanted to do. And that’s what we wanna definitely wanna focus on. So yeah,
Jimmy Boheler (00:27:11):
Pat Cherubini (00:27:12):
Transitioning right into that, you know, because we are marketers and that’s what we do. How do you get the word out? Yeah. For yourself, you know, when you’re trying to, to market and get, get yourself known. I think I know the answer, but you know, what
Jimmy Boheler (00:27:23):
Pat Cherubini (00:27:23):
To get, get more people to know, know about Jimmy?
Jimmy Boheler (00:27:26):
Yeah. I, I fell in love with social media. I was always, uh, I, I, and it is funny because my social media, not only did, uh, my friends change, but my social media friends changed. Uh, I went from a I, yeah. If you, if you go back, uh, I don’t, I don’t know if it’s even possible, but go back probably two or three years ago. I never had over a thousand friends. Mm-hmm I think if I, I think if I can, today I’m meant 2 2500. So that, that grew, and I don’t know if you guys know this, but I got, uh, I never was really an Instagram person. I never really got on there much. Uh, but I found a nice little following there. I had 209,000 views the other day on just a quick reel. Uh, so what I like to do is have a little bit of comedy and also have a little bit of, and that’s been, uh, that’s been very, very beneficial. I don’t usually tell exactly what I do. I kind of give ’em a little bit of ice cream, a little bit of value. And that’s what, and my, uh, person, person of influence book by Mr. Uh, John Maxwell be the, be the influencer, be, be the one that they, they want to know more. And I mean, just as we’re talking, somebody disrupt me just now and say, what are you into these days? So that it’s working.
Pat Cherubini (00:28:28):
Jimmy Boheler (00:28:29):
right. What do you, what do you do? And I, and I love that. I love that question. What do you do? Let’s hop on a zoom. Let’s, let’s hop on a call or something. Let’s, let’s get to know each other. Let’s talk and let’s see if we can maybe work together. Let me see what they do. Uh, and see if I can help them out. Be a, be maybe be a value of them. And then if something, he comes to return, great. It’s not a big deal. At least I helped him out.
Pat Cherubini (00:28:49):
Maybe he’ll tell somebody about it.
Jimmy Boheler (00:28:51):
That that’s it. That’s it. Absolutely nice.
Angie Cherubini (00:28:56):
So what’s, I guess what would be the source of your inspiration for doing this
Jimmy Boheler (00:29:04):
Man? that’s it, uh, that’s, that’s a good one because, um, I would say my kid and the reason I would say that is because I was tired of telling, no, I can’t stand telling a kid. No, if they want something, then, then let’s go get it. I mean, that’s that? And, uh, it’s funny because he’s all in a NASCAR, which it started at a very early age. Uh, and so we, he’s got a, he’s got a box in there. I mean, I’m talking this sucker, it weighs, I, I, you gotta use a, uh, what do you call these things? Um, basically something to pull this, I mean, I probably weighs maybe a hundred pounds. I dunno, goodness. But it’s all, but it’s all matchbox cars. So he got into NASCAR. And so, uh, so to answer your question, I, you know, I want him to be able to, we go, we get, get on the private jet. I mean, think big, right? Get on my private, private jet and fly over and go to a race one Sunday and come back home.
Angie Cherubini (00:29:56):
That would be awesome. Nothing wrong with that? No, not at all.
Jimmy Boheler (00:30:02):
Yeah. So telling him, no, I don’t, I don’t wanna have to tell him no to that. I wanna be able to say, all right, well, let’s strap up. Let’s go.
Angie Cherubini (00:30:09):
Was your wife say now, now that, I mean, now that you spent the money on your, uh, mentor, is she happy?
Jimmy Boheler (00:30:16):
yeah, it’s crazy. Um, actually, and, and that’s yeah, that was the follow up of that is I do didn’t have to pay him anything. Oh, I pay him $25 a month. is what the, yeah. Yeah. So, uh, that was part of joining, joining the company was, it was, uh, our, our company’s, uh, 1 99, 1 time and $25 a month. And so $25 a month is what I got. I got a mentor that is TW I mean, this guy’s been on success magazine, this, I worked, you know, several millions, uh, you know, I stayed at his house lives in Texas, super cool guy. Uh, but again, I paid $25 a month for him. But as far as the wife, uh, yes, she’s, um, she it’s, it’s been almost surreal, uh, to, to watch the, the changes. She hasn’t seated as much as like my, my close friends, uh, some of my family have, but, uh, because she, she lives with me every day, you know?
Jimmy Boheler (00:31:07):
Yeah. Uh, but, but she has seen some big, some my decision making changed. And that’s another one that I would tell, tell your audience is your decisions everything’s based on your decisions. Mm-hmm uh, so when you start making better decisions, better results happen. One of the things that really changed in my life about six months ago is I was listening. I listened to a, uh, basically a motivation video or, um, music, whatever you call it each morning podcast, there you go. . And, uh, and on there, they were talking about calls and effect, and every calls has an effect. No matter how you look at it, if you change the calls, the effect changes mm-hmm . And so back in November, I wasn’t getting the results I wanted. So I changed the calls. I went out and I did did different things, got uncomfortable.
Jimmy Boheler (00:31:52):
That’s a big one guy got uncomfortable, did things I didn’t wanna do. And now my effect changed. And when I realized that a lot of stuff changed, because now I started going, wait a minute, I can do this to other things. So all I gotta do is change the calls and the effect has to change. Um, so that’s a big one. That was a big one for me is, is, is realizing that, that, you know, decisions that we make too many people are still in the same situation. I see my friends celebrating their same birthday parties at the same time, but the same friends doing the same thing. And, you know, and I real, I always thought growing up that your successful people, number one were really, really smart. And they’re not , uh, number, number two is that they were do, they were so just, I mean, it, it was so hard to be on top.
Jimmy Boheler (00:32:39):
I mean, it was like, and when I realized that it’s just action, they’re just doing action. I mean, 95% of the people aren’t doing anything. I get dudes do a little bit of action. Uh, the, the roads at the top are very, very empty . I mean, they are, uh, and, and it’s, and it’s just the difference I heard this, uh, probably two years ago was, you know, what’s the difference between a $50,000 man and a $500,000, man, that much, a little bit more, that’s the difference a little bit more. And I never, I never realized that until I started working with some big, heavy hitters, don’t get me wrong. They work hard, they work very hard, uh, and they are, they are smart to, to some extent, uh, but they are consistent. They are persistent. They do, it’s usually
Pat Cherubini (00:33:18):
A little bit a simplicity in there. It’s the same thing that works over
Jimmy Boheler (00:33:22):
And multiplying it and multiplying it. That’s right. Using, uh, my mentor says a lot of times, he’ll say when you start using multiplication multiplication, instead of addition, your money change is big. I know, you know, there you go. I like that.
Angie Cherubini (00:33:35):
Jimmy Boheler (00:33:38):
Yeah. So change, I’ve got a,
Pat Cherubini (00:33:40):
That may help other people that are, I’m just, I’m not an Instagram guy. I watch, I look at Instagram. Okay. I’m just now starting it. Our children are, our children are, we have two boys that are in their twenties that are in a daughter in a, well, the, the two boys in their twenties are like, they’re into mountain biking. And they’re pretty much getting to be considered influencers in that space.
Jimmy Boheler (00:34:04):
Pat Cherubini (00:34:05):
10,000 followers, but they get, they make YouTube and they’re gettin