Locos Only Cantina

It’s just a name right?

Is it really all that important?

Who had it right?

Our grandparents with their old school way of creating one family unit under one family name?

Or is it our younger woke culture who believe they can remain autonomous within their relationships.

Are you giving up a part of yourself by taking the man’s name in in marriage?

Or are you signing on to something much bigger and better than yourself by creating a family under one family name?

Kick back grab a drink and lets talk about some controversial questions that seem to keep popping up in today's culture of marriage.

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Everybody needs to be free to live their lives the way they see fit.

But how much freedom do you actually want within a marriage???

How much freedom is healthy?

How much freedom will destroy a relationship?

Almost without exception whenever we hear one or both partners talking about how they need “autonomy” in their marriage that marriage is only months away from being over.

We agree that a degree of freedom is healthy…

We also agree that it can go too far and become a detriment to your relationship.

If you want complete autonomy stay single.

If you want a good solid relationship that will last the test of time hangout for the next hour or so and let’s talk this through.

Remember marriage is not a me vs you game…

Marriage is an us against the world game!

Grab a drink, kick back and relax with us while we chat it up in the Cantina.

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Did you forget that you took a vow?

Through better or worse…

Till death do us part…

Did you ever stop to think as to what exactly that might look like?

50+% divorce rate…

Kids being ripped away from parents and moved house to house.

We live in a world today where people give up far too quickly.

Most give up long before the “D” word ever comes up.

They get comfortable…

They become content…

They stop trying…

Then they act surprised that their partner has lost something…

Attraction…

Admiration…

Respect…

Divorce seems to come out of nowhere but really it’s been in the works for months if not years.

Let's chat about how to overcome this or better yet if you are just starting out never need to face it at all.

Check out the video by Jordan Peterson that we talked about:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm-8m9tBm1-/?igshid=MDM4ZDc5MmU=

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LIfe is HARD!

Relationships are HARD!

Marriage is HARD!

SO FUCKING WHAT???

It’s time we get a little more old school in our approach and attack life when it gets difficult…

Instead of running from it!

Our grandparents didn’t get divorced because they got their feelings hurt.

They didn’t crawl under a rock and give up because life threw them a couple of curve balls.

They didn’t have that option.

They stood up tall and pulled up their big boy/big girl pants and figured that shit out!

In this family we do hard things.

Success in any aspect in life comes from one's ability to FIO (Figure it out!)

Let’s have a chat about it.

FIO!!!

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“Statistics show that 56% of men and 34% of women who commit infidelity rate their marriage as happy or very happy.”

SO WHAT THE ACTUAL F@#K???

Why then do people stray in otherwise happy marriages?

We have some ideas… 

Join us for a chat on infidelity and what, if anything, can be done to prevent it.

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Video we talked about: 

https://youtu.be/u0STqvF0BDs

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Sometimes in relationships we are asked to step outside of our comfort zones and support our partners in things that simply do not interest us.

Some people refuse…

They tell themselves they can have their hobbies and I’ll have my own.

It’s true, we are not always going to be overly excited to do the things our partners want to do.

We can however be there for them regardless.

They will appreciate the effort.

And who knows, you may just find yourself with a new passion yourself.

Life is exciting! 

Try all the shit.

You never know what the next thing is to light your fire.

You never know when and where you might be introduced to new friends that you might one day call your extended family.

Join us for a chat on how Cherie was surprised to find herself with a whole new family by supporting Brandon in a passion that she didn’t quite understand at first.

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Join us as we go the rounds about this controversial subject.

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Don’t be boring!

Don’t be lame!

Get your ass out of the house and show her a good time.

And oh yeah… End it with a bang!

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In a world full of all of this woke/PC nonsense men are finding themselves more and more confused as to what in the actual hell their women really want in their men.

Men want to please their women so they talk, they listen, they comply yet their women still aren't happy.

Most of today’s men are confused as hell as to how it is they actually please their wife.

They wonder where they went wrong and how to fix it.

How do we bring the spark back?

The answer is not all that complicated actually and truthfully it's as old as time.

Let's discuss…

Join us for blunt, pull no punches chat on what it is that women really want.

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10 Tips To Supercharge Your Marriage

Your relationship is only as good as you make it

Yes it is up you

Today we look over advise from 10 couples who have been married 10 plus years and discuss

Join us for a chat about 10 ways to supercharge your marriage.

Article:

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/g4872/marriage-tips-from-longtime-couples/

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