Loud murmurs podcast

What style of feedback do you receive better? Is direct feedback different from rude feedback? Which friend role are you tired of playing? What would you want people to celebrate on your public holiday?

The girls play a game where they ask tough and funny questions and try to answer from their own perspective.

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Ten credit cards, six of them maxed out, and £45,000 in debt. We react to a story about a fiancée who pays only the minimum and doesn't see a problem. They ask whether it's a red flag before marriage, what a fair ultimatum looks like, and why a partner needs a real repayment plan, not just a promise.

The conversation then turns to how social media drives overspending: staged homes, content-driven lifestyles, commission-led product pushes and the pressure to look like everyone else.

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Cheap holidays, airline chaos, and a very real conversation about forgiveness, faith, and why forgiving someone doesn’t mean giving them access to you again.It’s an honest, funny, sometimes heated conversation about boundaries, belief, and figuring things out as we go.If you’ve ever had a travel disaster, questioned religious pressure, or thought, “I forgive you, but you don’t get access to me,” this one’s for you.

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What does it really mean to "love yourself" when beauty maxxing, body dysmorphia, and aging pressure are all fighting for your attention?

Em, Misj, and Dumie get brutally honest about the line between self-care and overdoing it, and why so many people are trying to look 20 at 40, 50, or even 60.The trio also gets into the economics and ethics of family business, the fallout from the PSquare family drama, and the age-old question of why some people still think older women should not be with younger men.

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Most parents don’t realize how easily social media restrictions could backfire, until the UK’s proposed ban on under-16s sparks a nationwide debate. In this candid conversation, Dumie and Em peel back the layers of a controversial policy that aims to shield our youth from digital harm but risks pushing children to covert, riskier platforms.

They share surprising insights on how social media shapes young minds; fueling anxiety, distorted body image, and dangerous trends, and explore the real impact of technology’s grip on childhood development.

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The gals discussed a controversial situation involving a YouTuber couple who decided to terminate their pregnancy due to a high risk of Down syndrome. We debated the ethics of such decisions, emphasizing that it's the couple's personal choice to make, and also shared perspectives on the challenges of caring for children with special needs and the importance of being more compassionate toward people making difficult life decisions. The conversation also touched on the recent Belfast's racially motivated attacks and South African's Xenophobia attacks.

The girls reacted to some hot and unpopular opinions around personalities, social etiquettes, relationships and even dog owners.

We also laughed our hearts out. We have a question for you: Are you in support of giving an ultimatum in a relationship?

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Most social media thrives on staged lives, but behind the glossy images lies a complex web of shallow pursuits, accidental oversharing, and the relentless pursuit of exclusivity. This episode pulls back the curtain on how the desire to appear unique pushes many into absurdities, like faking firsts or chasing viral stunts, highlighting the dangerous blurring of social media with reality.

Uncover the impact of social media on authenticity, as we discuss viral stunts, the rise of 'clout culture,' and the blurred lines between reality and online personas. This episode also tackles the controversial topics of 'slut shaming' and the role of shame in today's society, offering a fresh perspective on accountability and moral values.

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Unpacking the Black experience—identity, beauty standards, and the hidden impact of colonialism. In this powerful episode, we explore how systemic bias has shaped perceptions of Black hair, skin, and self-worth across cultures—from Nigeria and Ghana to the diaspora.

We dive into hair discrimination, internalised bias, colourism, and Eurocentric beauty standards, and how these narratives influence confidence, identity, and mental health. We also tackle the rise of social media culture, clout-chasing, and deception, and why these behaviours thrive in today’s digital world.

This is an honest, thought-provoking conversation about Black identity, cultural conditioning, self-acceptance, and breaking harmful stereotypes.

If you’re on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and embracing natural beauty, this episode is for you.

🎧 Tap in and rethink everything you thought you knew about beauty, identity, and authenticity.

The conversation covers holiday celebrations, surprise visits, financial discussions, and investment strategies. The chapters include holiday celebrations and recap, surprise visit and weekend activities, finance and taxation, and investment strategies. The conversation covers the topics of investing in stocks and real estate, as well as the influence of coaches and therapists. It also delves into personal rules and daily routines that shape individuals' lives. The conversation covers topics related to daily self-care routines, bath and self-care rituals, unpopular opinions and revenge, vulnerability and personal traits, and random opinions and adulting break. The speakers discuss the importance of self-care, personal hygiene, the value of revenge, the need for vulnerability, and the concept of gentle parenting. The conversation delves into the concept of adulthood, the surprising realizations about older people, the influence of parental advice and ideologies, the impact of romantic novels and ideals, and the misconceptions about healing and closure in relationships. The takeaways highlight the overrated nature of healing and closure, as well as the concept of healing within relationships.

Takeaways

• Holiday celebrations
• Financial discussions
• Investment strategies Investing in stocks and real estate
• The influence of coaches and therapists Self-care routines
• Personal hygiene
• Unpopular opinions
• Gentle parenting Healing and closure are overrated
• The concept of healing within relationships

Chapters

• 00:00 Holiday Celebrations and Recap
• 06:01 Surprise Visit and Weekend Activities
• 15:05 Investment Strategies
• 37:52 Personal Rules and Daily Routines
• 44:45 Unpopular Opinions and Revenge
• 51:13 Vulnerability and Personal Traits
• 57:52 The Freedom of Adulthood
• 01:04:00 The Misconceptions About Healing and Closure in Relationships