Love and Fly Shit

Love and Fly Shit

By Jenna Nia & DonaySociety & CultureRelationships
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Love and Fly Shit episodes

  • Embarrassed In Love
    This week on Love & Fly Sh*t, Jenna and Donay sit down for a real conversation about the little things that can become BIG problems in relationships. They respond to a listener who says she loves her man but finds herself embarrassed by the way he dresses, talks, and acts in public. Is she being shallow, or is her embarrassment a sign that something deeper is going on?
    Then Jenna and Donay get into the difference between annoying habits, relationship quirks, and real character issues. They talk about how resentment can make the smallest things unbearable, why you can love someone but stop liking them, and why paying attention to character early on can save you from realizing you're incompatible later.
    The conversation also gets personal as they reflect on their own relationship, the things they've had to address over the years, and how marriage can magnify the little things. Plus, they play a game of "Can You Live With That?" and put each other's tolerance to the test.
    Topics Discussed:
    -The difference between a quirk and a character issue
    -When the little things become BIG things
    -Loving someone but no longer liking them
    -Being embarrassed by your partner
    -Accepting your partner for who they are
    -Why chemistry isn't everything
    -Paying attention to character while dating
    -How resentment changes the way you see your partner
    -Things that get magnified after marriage
    -Communication when you're upset
    -Keeping your relationship private
    -Can you really live with your partner's annoying habits?
    -The "Can You Live With That?" game
    -Learning when to compromise and when to walk away
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    29 min
  • Lover Boy Era with Cortez Smith
    This week on Love & Fly Sh*t, Jenna and Donay sit down with actor Cortez Smith, best known as Nuck from The Chi. Cortez takes us behind the character everybody loved to hate, what it was like bringing Nuck to life, and how his own experiences helped him understand the character on a deeper level.
    Then we get to know the man behind Nuck. Cortez opens up about his new relationship, being a lover at heart, wanting marriage, and why having the right support can change how you move in love. The conversation gets real about ego, affection, peace, friendship in relationships, and whether some people mistake healthy love for being boring.
    Topics Discussed:
    -The truth behind Nuck’s story on The Chi
    -On-screen chemistry & filming intimate scenes
    -Cortez’s new relationship
    -Being a lover at heart
    -Marriage & finding the right person
    -Why friendship matters in relationships
    -Having a supportive partner
    -Ego & learning how to receive criticism
    -How men show love and affection
    -Can healthy relationships feel boring?
    -Choosing peace over unnecessary drama
    -Growing and becoming a better partner
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    1 hr 12 min
  • Wifey Material

    This week, Jenna and Donay tackle one of the biggest relationship debates of our generation: Do women still want marriage, or has the idea of being "wifey material" changed?

    Sparked by a listener's letter, the conversation dives into why more women are choosing independence over traditional family life, whether social media has changed expectations around love and commitment, and if marriage is still something people genuinely aspire to. Jenna and Donay challenge each other's perspectives on modern dating, discuss what men and women are really looking for today, and share the lessons they've learned from building a marriage that's lasted nearly 12 years.

     

    Topics discussed include:

    -What does "wifey material" really mean today?

    -Why fewer people are prioritizing marriage

    -Independence vs. commitment

    -The role social media plays in modern relationships

    -Can you build a successful marriage in today's dating culture?

    -Why choosing the right partner matters more than chasing a wedding

     

    Whether you dream of getting married or you're perfectly happy on your own, this episode is an honest conversation about love, commitment, and what it really takes to build something that lasts.

     

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    28 min
  • That’s Between Us
    This week, Jenna and Donay ask a simple question with a complicated answer: What should stay inside your relationship?
    After reading a jaw-dropping listener letter from a man whose girlfriend wanted to ask her ex for bedroom advice, the conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about privacy, loyalty, and the boundaries that come with commitment. Is it ever okay to vent to your friends? When does getting advice become disrespecting your partner? And are there some conversations that should never leave the house?
    Jenna and Donay get candid about the early days of their relationship, the mistakes they both made, and how their approach to love changed after getting engaged and married. They also reveal the habits they had to break, the boundaries they had to create, and why protecting your relationship sometimes means keeping other people out of your business.
    Topics discussed include:
    -Whether it's ever okay to ask an ex for relationship or sex advice
    -The difference between venting and betraying your partner
    -Why some relationship conversations should stay private
    -The boundaries that changed after marriage
    -Learning to stop moving like you're single
    -How outside opinions can impact your relationship
    -Why protecting your partner starts with protecting your relationship
    Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do for your relationship is keep your house business inside the house.
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    27 min
  • The Fear Of Forever with Moneybag Mafia
    This week, Jenna and Donay sit down with comedian and content creator Moneybag Mafia for one of their funniest—and most unexpectedly honest—episodes yet. Known for his wild stories and unapologetic opinions, Moneybag opens up about why six years in a relationship still hasn't convinced him to get married, why he believes peace matters more than longevity, and the lessons he's learned after what he jokingly calls "69 failed relationships."
    The conversation takes plenty of unexpected turns—from his experience trying polygamy to whether men and women can really be just friends, why body counts matter (or don't), and the boundaries people should have once they're in committed relationships. Moneybag also gets candid about fatherhood, co-parenting challenges, dating women with children, and how past relationships can shape the way people love today.
    Topics discussed include:
    -Why Moneybag says he's still scared of marriage after six years
    -The truth about choosing peace over simply staying together
    -His experience attempting a polygamous relationship
    -Whether men and women can ever be "just friends"
    -Work spouses, relationship boundaries, and temptation
    -Dating someone with children and blending families
    -Co-parenting struggles from a father's perspective
    -Do body counts actually matter?
    -What men are really looking for in a long-term partner
    -Why communication and consistency matter more than chemistry
    Some conversations start with jokes... and end with truths nobody expected. This episode is full of laughs, honest opinions, and real conversations about what it actually takes to make love last.
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    58 min
  • Ego Tripping
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    32 min
  • Cheating And Lies
    This week, Jenna and Donay dive into one of the most debated topics in modern relationships: cheating, forgiveness, and whether people can truly change. Using the recent headlines surrounding Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson as a jumping-off point, the couple gets candid about their own experiences navigating infidelity, trust, and the realities of building a lasting marriage.
    From the differences between how men and women view cheating to the role age, maturity, and timing play in relationships, Jenna and Donay unpack the hard conversations many couples avoid. They also share personal stories about forgiveness, growth, and what it takes to move forward after betrayal.
    Topics discussed include:
    • Whether a person who cheats can truly change
    • Why some men cheat even when they're in love
    • The differences between emotional and physical infidelity
    • How age and maturity impact relationship decisions
    • Whether body count and relationship history matter to men
    • Why some people choose to forgive while others walk away
    • The role of ego, reputation, and pride in modern dating
    • What makes someone "the one" worth changing for
    • Why timing can be just as important as compatibility
    • The realities of forgiveness after infidelity in long-term relationships
    Sometimes love isn't about finding the perfect person—it's about deciding whether the person you're with is worth growing through life's hardest lessons together. This episode explores the complicated space between betrayal and redemption, and asks the question: Can love survive cheating?
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    30 min
  • Pour Into Me with Pour Minds
    This week, Jenna and Donay sit down with Lex P. and Drea Nicole — the powerhouse best friends behind the wildly popular Pour Minds podcast and BET’s Travel Queens — for a hilarious, heartfelt conversation about friendship, business, love, and what it really takes to build something that lasts. From starting their podcast on the floor with short mic cords to becoming two of the most influential voices in the culture, Lex and Drea keep it real about loyalty, growth, and navigating success in public.
    Topics discussed include:
    • Building a business with your best friend — and why it’s basically a marriage
    • How Lex and Drea have survived real conflict and stayed solid through the years
    • Separating friendship from work when the grind never stops
    • Dealing with jealousy, outside opinions, and people rooting for your downfall
    • Privacy, relationships, and why some love stories don’t belong on social media
    • The truth about modern dating, marriage, and bringing value back to family
    • “If You Really Know Me” game: how well do these besties actually know each other?
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    1 hr 24 min
  • It's Giving with Dr. Sarah Fontenot
    This week, Jenna and Donay sit down with Dr. Sarah Fontenot — self-love and relationship expert and host of the It’s Giving Podcast — for a bold, unfiltered conversation on modern dating, discipline, and what it really takes to build a marriage that lasts. From setting standards without apology to understanding why chemistry isn’t the same as commitment, Dr. Sarah brings heat, humor, and real-life perspective that’s guaranteed to spark debate.
    Topics discussed include:
    • “Women being too loose”: standards, discipline, and the real convo behind it
    • The difference between privacy vs. secrecy in relationships
    • How to date with intention (and stop letting people waste your time)
    • What it means to be “married” vs. being a real husband and wife
    • Relationship skills: conflict, communication, and staying committed through seasons
    • The viral debate: spouse vs. kids — and the hierarchy of marriage
    • “It’s Giving” game: modern dating red flags and what they’re really giving
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    1 hr 18 min

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Funny, provocative and boldly opinionated, Love and Fly Shit is a highly anticipated lifestyle podcast featuring married millennials Jenna Nia and Donay. Join this unapologetic power couple in their…