We should normalize talking about these lustful feelings, if as a guy that’s what you are after, you should be bold enough to say it, if the girl in question likes you, and she’s wants the same, then no issues, this saves everyone from the heart aches that comes with breaking off. Most of the so called relationships of these days are simply transactional, the guys want sex and the girls want money, why go into a relationship, if it's not what you're really after? It's like ordering chicken and chips when you really want pizza. Find your pizza buddy, and everyone's happy!