Talks with EL

We should normalize talking about these lustful feelings, if as a guy that’s what you are after, you should be bold enough to say it, if the girl in question likes you, and she’s wants the same, then no issues, this saves everyone from the heart aches that comes with breaking off. Most of the so called relationships of these days are simply transactional, the guys want sex and the girls want money, why go into a relationship, if it's not what you're really after? It's like ordering chicken and chips when you really want pizza. Find your pizza buddy, and everyone's happy!

In our lives, we may encounter all of these heart experiences to varying degrees. We may find ourselves utterly consumed by love, experiencing the depths of connection and devotion. At other times, we may revel in the fiery passion of lust, magnetically drawn to someone's physical presence. And at yet other moments, we may embark on a fling, allowing ourselves a taste of freedom and excitement.

Love and lust are both part of human connections and emotions. While each holds a distinct place in our lives, they all contribute to our growth, understanding, and pursuit of happiness. They remind us of our capacity to feel deeply, to desire passionately, and to explore the depths of our own desires. By embracing these diversity and approaching them with empathy, care, and open hearts, we can navigate the complex and ever-evolving landscape of love and relationships.

When a man musters up the courage to open up and reveal his deepest and darkest secrets, it’s always disheartening to see them being used against him. But it’s okay to not be okay, being a man doesn’t mean hiding your pains, or denying your struggles. It’s okay to feel vulnerable, you deserve to be loved and comforted, you are not alone.

Have you ever wondered what sets apart winners and losers? The difference between those who win and those who don’t. To win, you don’t have to be the smartest, or the strongest, you don’t even have to be the best. You just have to be the guy that doesn’t give up!

Having someone you can call to vent is like having a personal therapist on speed dial! It's so therapeutic and helps us become mentally stronger. Letting it all out and being vulnerable is a superpower!