This week on the podcast we talked about the concept of Love Capacity in detail so this will be a very interesting show. Even more interesting if you have your score in hand! Some people will be mad. So what! It is not my fault. IT IS YOUR SCORE! (Maybe it is someone else's fault!) Don't just focus on your score, focus on how you can improve your score! Thanks for listening. Enjoy!

"Love Capacity is the measure of your ability to receive, provide and be accountable for an unconditional, forgiving, profoundly tender, passionate affection to another person."

BlackDemographics.com - There are about 364,000 more Black men who are married than Black women. An overwhelming percentage of Black women are married to Black men (94%), about 86% of Black men are married to Black women."

We ask the question "Should Black women move past the preference of marrying a black man?"

This week we are talking about Awkward Relationship Coaching Sessions. We talk about reasons to break off a relationship like "Your dude being a drug dealer" or "Your girl wanting a thug instead of a nice guy." We talk about dating married men. We review relationship questions from Lisa in Washington D.C., Curtis in Dallas and Janine from New York. Enjoy! Subscribe and follow!

Congrats to Tamara and her new husband! They were married over the weekend and are on their honeymoon this week so I had to pull up Chapters 9 & 10 from the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" for your listening pleasure. Take your #LoveCapacity Quiz on LoveCapacity.com.

If you are listening to this . . . Donald Trump is President. We talk about the Obama years. Did Obama do enough for black people? How about poor people? Is Steve Harvey an Uncle Tom? Have you been paying attention to Trump's Cabinet picks? All this and more on Episode 12 of the "Divorce Is Not An Option Podcast."

This week Steven and Tamara talk about 6 tips for "Negotiating With The Spouse". Article from HuffPost.

1. Talk your issues out.

2. Choose the right time and situation.

3. Address one or two specific behaviors at a time.

4. Use “I” statements.

5. Make it a give-and-take.

6. Keep things light.

In this episode Tamara and Steven discuss a number of marriages, their problems, the proposed solutions and developing an attitude of "Stay Married or Die Trying!"

In this week's podcast we talk a little bit about submission, a lotta bit about leadership. We mix in some talk about the differences between Relationships and Marriage. Finished up with some controversial political talk. We had fun! You will too! Enjoy!

Tamara's getting married! We got the story of how her future husband proposed. I also tell the story of how I asked my wife to marry me. We also discuss the HBO hit series "Insecure" and we round out the show with some political talk. Enjoy!

During this episode I tell a story about a husband and wife who actually know how to do this marriage thang. Also for your listening pleasure Chapter 7 "Back in the dating game" and Chapter 8 "All women are the same" from the audio book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho."