Did you know that love doesn't keep score?

In this recording I discuss the harmful effects of keeping score in a relationship. This is part 9 of a series entitled "Love Is..." from 1 Corinthians 13, the famous love chapter in the Bible.

Join me as I explain how resentment can build over time, and as I provide four suggestions for curbing the habit of holding onto past hurts. These include confronting issues calmly, allowing for effective apologies, seeking God's assistance for forgiveness, and going through the process of forgiveness. Alongside these, I discuss the four R's of an effective apology - Responsibility, Remorse, Repentance, and Request forgiveness.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:02 Understanding the Problem: Keeping Score in Relationships

01:13 Biblical Perspective on Love and Forgiveness

01:45 The Damaging Effects of Keeping Score

02:29 Four Suggestions to Stop Keeping Records of Wrongs

05:16 The Process of Forgiveness

06:26 Rebuilding Trust in Relationships

06:55 Conclusion: Letting Go of Past Hurts

07:53 Promotion of the Book and Personal Coaching

08:38 Final Blessings and Farewell

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