6 Steps to Earn Your Wife's Respect and AdmirationIn this video, Kelly Dupee, a Christian marriage coach, explains how husbands can earn their wife's respect and admiration. Rather than attempting to change their wives, men are encouraged to become the kind of husbands that naturally deserve respect. Kelly shares six practical action steps, underpinned by biblical principles, to build the character and qualities women admire. Key points include understanding what your wife needs, building integrity through small commitments, engaging in honest self-examination, identifying areas for personal growth, making a commitment to change, and seeking help. Offering a free 30-minute strategy call and a couples communication guide, Kelly provides resources to help husbands improve their marriages.Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Earning Your Wife's Respect02:11 Understanding Your Wife's Needs04:14 Building Integrity Through Small Commitments05:46 Self-Examination for Personal Growth08:13 Identifying Areas for Improvement09:09 Making a Commitment to Change10:45 Seeking Help and Support11:50 Conclusion and Action PlanEvery husband desires his wife's respect and admiration. This video offers practical marriage advice, suggesting that true respect comes from self improvement and becoming the kind of husband who embodies a strong mindset. By focusing on personal growth and pursuing God, men can cultivate a success mindset that naturally earns their wives' honor. This approach fosters healthier relationships and deeper connection, rooted in christian motivation.

4 Simple Steps to Be a Good Spouse and Strengthen Your MarriageIn this episode, I'm sharing four simple steps to help you become a better spouse and strengthen your marriage. Discover how to apply biblical principles to everyday relationship challenges, learn the importance of listening, responding with patience, and taking initiative. I'll also guide you in asking your spouse what they need and inviting God into the process for transformative change. Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: The Key to a Better Marriage01:22 Understanding the Challenge: Are We Really Good?02:41 Step 1: Defining Goodness in Marriage03:26 Practical Examples of Being a Good Spouse10:14 Step 2: Communicating with Your Spouse12:07 Step 3: Seeking Divine Help15:29 Step 4: Taking Action16:27 Conclusion: Your Path to a Stronger Marriage

3 Steps to Reconnect Your Marriage After Christmas |Christmas is over and the post-Christmas stress might be impacting your marriage. In this video, I offer you three simple steps to recover your connection: talk about what happened, rebuild intentional moments of connection, and make a plan for next year. These steps, backed by biblical wisdom, will turn any holiday tension into breakthroughs. Let's make your marriage stronger together!Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:00 Introduction: Post-Christmas Reflections00:42 Meet Your Coach: Kelly Dupee01:32 Step 1: Talk About What Happened04:43 Step 2: Rebuild Your Connection06:17 Step 3: Make a Plan for the Future09:43 Conclusion: Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For

How to Protect Your Marriage from Christmas StressFeeling the weight of Christmas stress? You're not alone. In this video, I share practical ways to protect your marriage during the festive season and make your Christmas more meaningful. From prioritizing each other and setting boundaries to rediscovering the true reason for the season, I'll guide you on how to keep your connection strong. My name is Kelly DuPee, Christian marriage coach and author of 'Turn It Up: How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want.' Join me as I offer advice backed by biblical principles and practical tips to help you navigate the demands of Christmas joyfully and stress-free. Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:42 Meet Your Guide: Kelly DuPee00:55 Understanding Christmas Stress01:24 Tip 1: Prioritize Each Other02:48 Tip 2: Set Boundaries03:48 Tip 3: Communicate Expectations04:48 Tip 4: Remember the Reason for the Season07:31 Final Tips and Encouragement08:28 Conclusion and Further ResourcesThe holiday season, meant for closeness, can sometimes bring disconnection and stress to couples. If you're navigating the pressures of Christmas, this video provides essential `marriage tips` for a truly `stress free christmas`. Discover practical ways to improve your `mental health at christmas`, focus on `building connection`, and ultimately `strengthen marriage` during this special time. ✨🌲👉 Ready to make this Christmas a time of joy and connection? Type CALL in the comments to schedule your FREE 30-minute strategy session!

Setting Healthy Biblical Boundaries with Parents & In-Laws: 6 Practical StepsHave you ever felt caught between your spouse and your parents or in-laws? In this episode, I share six practical steps to help you establish healthy biblical boundaries with your parents and in-laws to protect your marriage while honoring God. Learn why boundaries matter, how to pray for wisdom, unite as a couple, communicate clearly, offer alternatives, stay consistent, and respond to pushback gracefully. By setting boundaries with love and clarity, you not only protect your marriage but also set a healthy example for your children and extended family. If you'd like help on this journey, type 'guide' in the comments for a free Couple's Communication Guide or use this link: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:00 Introduction: Navigating Family Dynamics01:09 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage03:15 Step 1: Seek Divine Guidance04:24 Step 2: Unite as a Couple05:17 Step 3: Communicate Clearly and Kindly06:11 Step 4: Offer Alternatives06:48 Step 5: Stay Consistent07:31 Step 6: Respond with Grace09:11 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

How to Maintain a Strong Parenting Team: Tips for Unity and Effective ParentingIn this video, you'll learn valuable insights on maintaining a cohesive parenting team with your spouse. Learn how to stay united with your spouse, protect your marriage from parenting stress, and build a calmer, more connected home. Key principles include focusing on your marriage, avoiding 'shoulding' on each other, committing to parenting in unity, showing appreciation and accountability, and evaluating your parenting strategies regularly. Additionally, this recording covers the importance of connecting before correcting, building structure and routine, training kids on life skills, allowing them to learn from failures, and effective co-parenting with an ex-spouse or in a blended family. I'm offering a free 30-minute parenting strategy call for personalized advice.Schedule your free Strategy call today at https://www.turnitup.coach/ or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the links to my other parenting videos:Blending your Parenting Styles - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIParenting as a Team - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIDisciplining without Yelling - https://youtu.be/ASWQhAwpx7oBe the Parent your Kids Love - https://youtu.be/hQJWc85eax000:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Maintaining Progress00:45 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide to a Stronger Marriage01:28 The Importance of Focusing on Your Marriage02:36 Stop 'Shoulding' on Each Other03:16 Commit to Parenting in Unity03:52 Appreciation and Accountability in Parenting04:36 Evaluating Your Parenting Strategies05:49 Additional Tips for Strong Parenting07:58 Co-Parenting and Blended Families08:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

What if the fastest way to feel closer to your spouse isn’t fixing a problem, but noticing a blessing?In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee shares how one simple shift—gratitude—can lower tension in your home, soften sharp reactions, and help you feel more connected to your spouse, starting today.You’ll discover: - How a daily gratitude practice can quietly transform the way you see your spouse - Why gratitude calms stress and helps you respond instead of react - How it gives your marriage a steadier foundation during conflict and busy seasons - A powerful biblical perspective on giving thanks *for* everything (Ephesians 5:20) - The surprising way gratitude becomes a “protective shield” for your relationship Kelly will also give you a **7‑day gratitude challenge** for your marriage: writing down three things you’re grateful for about your spouse each day to begin changing the emotional climate in your home.If you’re feeling distant, irritated, or just “off” in your marriage, this video will help you: - Shift your focus from what’s wrong to what’s working - Notice the small, everyday kindnesses you’ve been walking past - Bring more peace, warmth, and emotional safety into your relationship May God bless you, your marriage, and your family this Thanksgiving season.

Becoming the Parent Your Kids Want to Be Around | 4 Key Shifts for Lifelong ConnectionHave you ever thought that parenting is more about becoming the parents your kids want to spend time with? In this video, I explore the transformative goal of not only raising good kids but becoming parents they love being around. I share four key shifts that will help build lifelong connections with your children: moving from controlling to coaching, from perfection to presence, from correction to connection, and from worry to faith. Stick around to learn how these shifts can bring you closer to your kids and keep your relationship strong as they grow. I’m Kelly DuPee, and as a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I’ve learned that parenting shapes our character just as much as it shapes our children's. I also offer a free 30-minute parenting strategy call to help you strengthen your family dynamics. Schedule your call today at turnitup.coach or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the links to my other parenting videos:Blending your Parenting Styles - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIParenting as a Team - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIDisciplining without Yelling - https://youtu.be/ASWQhAwpx7o00:00 Introduction: The Goal of Parenting00:56 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide01:36 Shift 1: From Controlling to Coaching02:29 Shift 2: From Perfection to Presence03:57 Shift 3: From Correction to Connection05:24 Shift 4: From Worry to Faith06:28 The Power of Prayer in Parenting08:08 Final Thoughts and Free Offer09:36 Closing Prayer and BlessingsDo you ever feel like the goal of parenting isn't just about raising kids you like to be around, but also becoming parents they want to be around too? This video explores a deeper dimension of parenting motivation, focusing on building meaningful relationships that last into adulthood. By fostering strong parent child bonding, we can cultivate adult children relationships where our kids choose to spend time with us, contributing to a peaceful parenting environment that benefits everyone. ✨And if you want to strengthen communication in your marriage so you can parent more effectively together, type GUIDE in the comments and I’ll send you my free couples communication guide.#ChristianParenting #FaithTok #ChristianMarriage #GentleParentingTips #ChristianCouples #BiblicalParenting #MarriageAdvice #PeacefulParenting #ParentingTips #ParentTok #ChristianFamily

Effective Parenting: Calm Discipline Without YellingIn this video, I share techniques for disciplining your kids calmly and effectively. You will learn how to create a peaceful home, maintain unity with your spouse, and teach your kids responsibility without power struggles. I also discuss important parenting resources, including the books 'Boundaries with Kids' by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend and '1-2-3 Magic' by Dr. Thomas Phelan, which offer valuable insights on balancing grace and truth in discipline. I provide practical tips on using the 1-2-3 Magic method, the importance of being calm and consistent, and the difference between guilt and shame. Additionally, I offer a free couples communication guide to help improve communication in your relationship.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on Parent as a Team: https://youtu.be/lHnjxCnJyZU00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Disciplining Kids00:39 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide to Effective Parenting01:01 The Power of Parenting Books01:34 Balancing Grace and Truth in Parenting02:33 Understanding Discipline: Training, Not Punishment03:49 The 1-2-3 Magic Technique05:15 Common Discipline Mistakes and How to Avoid Them07:31 Practical Tips for Effective Parenting09:19 The Role of Guilt and Shame in Discipline11:34 The Importance of Keeping Promises and Consequences13:13 Biblical Insights on Discipline14:28 Final Encouragement and Resources

Parenting Together: 6 Practical Tips to Unite with Your SpouseHave you ever felt like you and your spouse are on opposite teams when it comes to parenting your kids? In this video, I share six practical suggestions to help you parent as a team and improve unity, communication, and consistency in your home. Hi, I'm Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author dedicated to helping couples strengthen their marriages. Join me to learn how to make united decisions, communicate with grace, and raise your kids from the same page. Don't miss out on tips like 'Don't Decide Alone' and 'Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions'. Plus, get your free couple's communication guide by typing 'guide' in the comments. Let's create a calmer, more consistent home together.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on How to Blend your Parenting Styles: https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFI00:00 Introduction: Parenting on Opposite Teams00:36 The Power of Team Parenting00:55 Meet Kelly DuPee01:18 Suggestion 1: Don't Decide Alone03:55 Suggestion 2: Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions05:22 Suggestion 3: Practice Understanding First08:05 Suggestion 4: Aim for Win-Win Agreements10:19 Review and Final Suggestions13:08 Conclusion: Unity in Parenting