7 Reasons Marriages Fail in the first Seven Years and How to Rebuild Yours In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses why many marriages fall apart between years five to eight and provides practical Biblical advice on how to avoid these pitfalls. Learn about the importance of prioritizing your marriage, effective communication, handling conflict, expressing your needs, maintaining emotional intimacy, including God in your marriage, and seeking help when needed. Kelly also offers a free couples communication guide and invites viewers to book a free clarity call for personalized support.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Seven-Year Itch00:51 Reason 1: Neglecting the Marriage01:57 Reason 2: Poor Communication02:46 Reason 3: Destructive Conflict Management03:57 Reason 4: Avoiding Hard Conversations04:54 Reason 5: Fading Emotional Intimacy06:09 Reason 6: Excluding God from Marriage06:53 Reason 7: Not Seeking Help07:35 Steps to Rebuild Your Marriage10:00 Conclusion: Hope and EncouragementTo book your free Clarity Call with Kelly, call or text him at 626-804-1731 or use this link: https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-callFor more on this topic, watch this video - How to Ask for Help: https://youtu.be/faOE_us5jlY

7 Biblical Ways to Handle Conflict in Marriage Without Hurting Each OtherDo you struggle with handling conflict in your marriage? In this video, Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach, shares seven biblical ways to handle conflict without hurting each other and how to grow closer through it. Learn how to navigate disagreements with compassion, empathy, and effective communication skills based on biblical principles. Conflict is normal, but how you handle it can make a world of difference in strengthening your relationship. Tune in to find out how you can turn conflict into a path toward greater closeness and understanding.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Embracing Conflict in Relationships00:42 Understanding Conflict: It's Normal and Okay01:47 Biblical Ways to Handle Conflict: Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak02:55 Stay Curious and Don't Get Defensive03:48 Speak with Grace, Not Blame05:26 Call a Timeout When Emotions Run High07:01 Assume the Best and Focus on the Issue08:06 Compromise for a Win-Win Solution09:17 Reconnect and Keep Jesus at the Center10:12 Conclusion: Strengthening Your MarriageTo book your free Clarity Call, text 626-804-1731 or use this link: https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call

5 Ways Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage - With Pastor Kelly DuPeeIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee highlights the transformative power of gratitude in strengthening marriages. Through a detailed exploration of five distinct ways gratitude can improve a relationship, Kelly emphasizes the importance of shifting perspective, inviting God's presence, healing emotional wounds, building resilience in tough times, and reinforcing the choice to love. This recording aims to help couples foster deeper connection and spiritual growth through daily acts of thankfulness.Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gratitude in Marriage00:42 Understanding Gratitude as a Spiritual Weapon01:19 Gratitude Shifts Your Focus02:34 Free Couple's Communication Guide02:52 Inviting God's Presence Through Gratitude04:20 Healing Offense and Building Emotional Safety06:20 Building Resilience in Tough Seasons07:31 Love as a Daily Choice08:35 Conclusion and Next StepsFor more on this topic, watch this video:   📍 How to Ask Your Spouse for What You Really Want and Need. Here's the link: https://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCg

Overcoming the Fight or Flight Response in Marriage Conflicts Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle where every conflict with your spouse turns either into a heated argument or total disengagement? In this video, Kelly Dupee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, discusses why the 'fight or flight' response occurs in marital conflicts, its damaging effects, and how you can overcome it. Learn biblical strategies to stay engaged during tough conversations, understand the root of your flight response, and hear tips on how to communicate effectively to build a stronger and more loving marriage. Kelly offers practical advice rooted in Scripture and shares a free communication guide for couples. Key strategies include reminding yourself of God's presence, speaking gently instead of shutting down, asking for God's strength, taking a strategic timeout, and committing to stay engaged a little longer each time. Watch for a detailed approach to transforming your marriage from one of fear and avoidance to one of understanding and connection.Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Walking on Eggshells in Marriage00:32 Understanding the Fight or Flight Response01:45 The Role of Fear in Conflict Avoidance02:22 Biblical Guidance for Overcoming Conflict04:07 Practical Strategies to Stay Engaged07:12 Taking a Timeout: A Promise to Return10:05 Building a Stronger Marriage: Small Steps, Big Changes10:42 Conclusion: Your Marriage is Worth Fighting ForTo learn more about Marriage Coaching with Coach Kelly and to book your free Clarity Call, go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call or text 626-804-1731.

Love Like Jesus: Transform Your Marriage with Sacrificial LoveIn this video, Pastor Kelly DuPee, a Christian marriage coach, delves into the essence of real love in marriage, drawing parallels from the sacrificial love of Jesus Christ. Based on Ephesians 5:25, he emphasizes how husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, through selfless acts and enduring challenges. Kelly recounts the suffering Jesus endured and highlights the importance of husbands and wives loving each other not just in grand gestures, but in daily, often unseen moments. He concludes with an invitation to follow Jesus and a prayer for forgiveness and a deeper relationship with God. This video aims to inspire couples to love like Jesus and build holy, lasting marriages.00:00 Introduction: What Real Love Looks Like in Marriage00:53 The Biblical Call to Sacrificial Love01:20 The Agony and Sacrifice of Jesus02:24 The Crucifixion: Ultimate Act of Love03:51 Resurrection and Its Implications04:37 Applying Christ's Love to Marriage05:34 Daily Acts of Sacrificial Love06:41 A Call to Both Husbands and Wives07:12 Invitation to Follow Jesus08:07 Conclusion and EncouragementTo learn more about how to invite God into your life, check out this video: https://youtu.be/PU4eOkCFmsYTo schedule a free 30 minute Clarity Call, go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call

7 Ways to Support Your Spouse Through Grief

Kelly DuPee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, shares seven ways to help your spouse cope with grief. The steps include being present, giving hope, praying, listening, offering practical help, being patient, and supporting professional help. With biblical references and practical advice, this video aims to offer comfort and guidance for those navigating the challenging seasons of grief with their loved ones.

Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide 00:00 Introduction: Supporting a Grieving Spouse00:51 Be Present: The Power of Presence in Grief01:21 Offer Hope: Reminding Them of Jesus' Promise03:11 Pray: Connecting Through Prayer04:01 Listen: Providing a Safe Space for Emotions04:56 Practical Help: Lightening Their Load05:32 Patience: Allowing Time for Healing06:18 Seek Help: Encouraging Professional Support07:21 Conclusion: Anchoring in Faith and Love

If you'd like help with grieving or helping your spouse grieve, text Kelly at 626-804-1731 or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call to book a free call. For more on this topic, check out this video called How to Avoid Three Common Mistakes when Grieving: https://youtu.be/UtgD9pxUoWA

7 Biblical Ways to Reduce Anxiety in Your MarriageIn this video, pastor and Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses the impact of anxiety on marriages and relationships. He provides seven Biblical strategies to help reduce worry and anxiety, such as prayer, replacing worry with God's word, loving communication, trusting God, serving each other, quickly addressing issues, and seeking help from a Christian marriage coach. He emphasizes the importance of faith and action in overcoming fear and building a loving, peaceful marriage.Here's the link to Kelly's free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Anxiety in Marriage00:50 Biblical Guidance for Anxiety02:01 Seven Ways to Reduce Anxiety02:08 1. The Power of Prayer03:12 2. Replace Worry with the Word04:15 3. Communicate with Love and Grace05:15 4. Let Go of Control and Trust God06:12 5. Serve Each Other Selflessly07:05 6. Deal with Issues Quickly07:47 7. Seek Help from a Christian Marriage Coach08:59 Conclusion: Building a Peaceful MarriageTo learn more about Marriage Coaching and to book your free Clarity Call, go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call or text 626-804-1731.

Learn how improving your listening skills can strengthen your marriage. Discover the power of generous listening and how it can transform your relationship!Listening to your spouse can lead to fewer arguments, deeper connections, and a stronger marriage. Learn four key principles of generous listening: being attentive, patient, understanding, and action-oriented. Practical advice based on scriptures like James 1:19 and 1 Corinthians 13:4 is provided to help you become a better listener in your relationship. The video emphasizes the importance of giving your full attention, being patient, understanding your spouse's feelings, and taking action to meet their needs. Strengthen your marriage by applying these generous listening techniques today.Want to improve the communication in your marriage? Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 The Power of Listening in Marriage00:34 Introduction to Generous Listening01:58 Principle 1: Be Generous with Your Attention03:19 Principle 2: Be Generous with Your Patience04:55 Principle 3: Be Generous with Your Understanding07:31 Principle 4: Be Generous with Your Service08:55 Conclusion: Building a Stronger Marriage through ListeningFor more on this topic, check out my video called "Why Listening is Hard" Here's the link: https://youtu.be/Uq2uNs-Kl9Y

How White Lies Destroy Trust in RelationshipsIn this episode, we delve into the harmful impact of white lies and dishonesty in relationships. Learn why small lies, not big betrayals, gradually erode trust in marriage. Gain practical steps to change this destructive habit and understand why truthfulness is crucial. Discover real-life examples, biblical insights, and strategies to build a stronger, more honest relationship. To improve the communication in your relationship, get my free Couple's Communication Guide here: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Dangers of White Lies in Marriage00:45 Defining White Lies and Their Impact01:14 Common White Lies and Their Consequences03:12 Real-Life Examples of White Lies06:56 The Importance of Honesty in Marriage10:42 Practical Steps to Overcome White Lies12:21 Conclusion: Reflecting on TruthfulnessReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation clarity call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call today to schedule yours!

6 Biblical Principles for a Strong and Lasting MarriageIn this episode, discover why loving God is essential for a successful and enduring marriage. The recording presents six biblical principles demonstrating how God’s love strengthens a marriage, especially during difficult times. These principles highlight the importance of sacrificial love, forgiveness, peace, and lifelong commitment. By putting God at the center of their relationship, couples can build a resilient and thriving marriage. The discussion includes relevant scriptures and practical advice on how to integrate these principles into your marriage.Want to improve the communication in your relationship? Download my free guide at https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Secret to a Lasting Marriage00:49 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide to a Great Marriage01:05 Reason 1: Loving God as the Foundation of Marriage03:15 Reason 2: Strengthening Love Through Difficult Times04:29 Reason 3: Unconditional Love Rooted in Faith05:56 Reason 4: The Power of Forgiveness in Marriage07:23 Reason 5: Finding Peace in Your Marriage08:19 Reason 6: Lifelong Commitment Through Loving God10:17 Conclusion: Building a Thriving Marriage with GodFor more on this, check out this video - Invite God into Your Marriage - Here's Five Ways! https://youtu.be/AH41nBtWzW8If you'd like to book a free 30 minute Clarity Call with Kelly, text him at 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call