Love Hints by Prince Vince

Prince Vince talks about his mother and then even motherhood in general. Mothers have a way of truly providing love and care for their children in such an invaluable and priceless way. Part of this motherly instinct stems from the notion that she places the hearts and lives of her children before her own wants and needs, but understands that her role is to guide them to not have her be the most important thing in their own lives. 

"A good mother loves fiercely but ultimately brings up her children to thrive without her. They must be the most important thin in her life, but if she is the most important thing in theirs, she has failed" -Erin Kelly

Prince Vince reiterates some points from a conversation from a road-trip a few weeks ago with his sister Anna and her friend JJ. 

When love falters, two things occur which are often problematic. Firstly, one individual appears to have lost a sense of who they were before the relationship started, placing too much identity emphasis on the coupled relationship. Secondly, just as in a court room, lovers will defend their relationships, no matter how detrimental they look from the outside. 

Moral of the story, focus on each of three components of the relationship -- the relationship, the other, and yourself -- equally AND then just let love tell the tale. 

Sam Hunt's Kinfolks expresses the concept that "having a type takes two". This week, Prince Vince tackles this concept in light of conversations with his father and uncle about what do we see attractive in another person and how do relationships blossom and grow. Simply put, when we focus on the internal heart and soul of a person, we build a magnetic draw to that individual and deepen the relationship -- look for the beauty within.

Why are we surprised by a random act of kindness? We always seem to be taken aback from these grand gestures. If love truly can become a chain reaction, should these moments constantly arise in our day-to-day lives? Find out in this week's episode as Prince Vince illuminates some stories from his own life.

John and Stasi Eldredge have written books on the innerworkings of the woman's and man's souls, suggesting a mutual influence of one with another. Women long to be loved, cherished and fought for, while men look for a journey in life, an adventure of sorts.

In this week's episode, Prince Vince expands on these principles suggesting that it is necessary to always look to treat a girl like a princess rather than a queen.

John Eldredge - Wild at Heart
Stasi Eldredge - Captivating

Prince Vince shares his thoughts on the common phrases of "Quitting while you're ahead" and "Stop digging yourself a hole." When taken together in the context of love, we can keep ourselves from failure but also direct ourselves onward to becoming vulnerable with another individual. There is not a place to stop in love as we always have an opportunity to grow in love and get to know another person. However, we also must be hesitant that we do not push ourselves downward into a hole.

Push forward. Push always. Toward Love.

Gain a glimpse of the thought processing of Prince Vince in this short and sweet episode relating Klondike bar commercials with the aspects of LOVE.

What would you lose for some more love in your heart?

Prince Vince talks about how we can shift our eyes and hearts during the various stages and seasons of love in order to grow and see love in another light. We will meet two types of people in our lives; the third comes unexpectedly but reads every word and then keeps the book.

In celebration of the twenty-fifth episode, Prince Vince shares some of his favorite songs, which denote some aspect of love.

Short term feuds can lead to long term prize. Within a relationship setting, quarrels and disagreement are inevitable, but processing these disagreements in a civilized manner is important for success and change within the relationship dynamic. Often when a couple argues the behavior is seen as 'an old married couple' or 'sibling fight,' both which are discussed in further detail in this week's episode.