As Carrie once said, the most exciting thing about love can be its exquisite pain. But how much pain is too much?

In this episode, we dive into the messy side of modern romance, emotional masochism, fetishes, and the lengths we go for love. Carrie spirals back into her obsession with Big (again), Charlotte channels her passion into shoes, and Miranda endures some painfully public PDA.

From obsessions and attachment styles to post-pandemic intimacy, we explore the thin line between a playful fetish and a flashing red flag. The big question: when does desire turn into self-sabotage? And when is enough finally enough?