When you date someone, how many people become emotionally involved? When you sleep with someone, are you screwing the family?

In this episode, we explore the themes of anxiety, relationships, and family dynamics. Explore the complexities of dating men with baggage, and the impact of family expectations on relationships. The conversation explores how family dynamics can impact romantic relationships and the importance of navigating these challenges.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles with Anxiety

02:36 Exploring the Episode: The Shortcomings

05:25 Dating Men with Baggage: Perspectives on Relationships

07:55 Family Dynamics and Their Impact on Relationships

10:29 Navigating Intimacy and Emotional Connections

13:15 The Role of Family in Shaping Relationships

15:56 Reflections on Personal Experiences with Family Dynamics

28:15 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

29:44 The Impact of Family Relationships

32:16 Maintaining Connections Post-Breakup

34:24 Dealing with Family Manipulation

37:04 The Role of Professional Help

41:22 Introducing Partners to Family

45:29 Exploring Sexual Dynamics

48:33 The Complexity of Family Involvement

Are we dating the same person over and over again?

In this episode, we get real about our dating patterns and the messy in-between. We talk about the whole “roster” culture, friends-with-benefits situations, and how our childhood and past relationships shape the way we show up now. Following the next Sex and the City episode on our list, “The Fuck Buddy,” we unpack when “casual” dating and hookups are okay, when they’re not, and why the real problem usually isn’t “casual”... it’s us.

Chapters

00:00 Intro and Life Updates

08:35 The Episode's Summary

18:18 Double-booking and the Roaster Concept in Dating

26:09 The Roster: Pros and Cons

29:16 Friends with Benefits

33:25 Recognising and Breaking Dating Patterns

44:12 Answering the Episode's Question

47:38 Outro

Do you have to play games to make a relationship work?

In this episode, we dig deeper into a conversation about therapy, its stigma, as we explore the concept of games in relationships, questioning whether they are necessary. Join us as the discussion delves into the dynamics of love bombing, emotional availability, and the importance of communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

12:49 Exploring Therapy and Relationships

17:49 The Role of Games in Relationships

24:32 The Rise of AI in Therapy

30:00 Navigating Emotional Connections in the Digital Age

41:51 Understanding Relationship Games and Dynamics

48:19 The Game of Flirting

52:45 Navigating Love Bombing and Emotional Availability

55:22 The Importance of Readiness in Relationships

56:47 The Dangers of Playing Games in Relationships

01:01:24 Friendship vs. Romantic Feelings: The Waiting Game

01:06:54 Winners and Losers in Relationship Dynamics

As Carrie once said, the most exciting thing about love can be its exquisite pain. But how much pain is too much?

In this episode, we dive into the messy side of modern romance, emotional masochism, fetishes, and the lengths we go for love. Carrie spirals back into her obsession with Big (again), Charlotte channels her passion into shoes, and Miranda endures some painfully public PDA.

From obsessions and attachment styles to post-pandemic intimacy, we explore the thin line between a playful fetish and a flashing red flag. The big question: when does desire turn into self-sabotage? And when is enough finally enough?

Are we evolving past relationships?

Explore the evolution of relationships as we discuss the importance of seeking substance over appearance, personal experiences, and the dynamics of masculinity and femininity in modern relationships. Dive deep into unpacking topics around reproductive health, societal expectations, and the emotional complexities of dating, ultimately concluding that while relationships have evolved, the intrinsic human need for connection remains unchanged.

00:00 The Art of Compliments and Cultural Nuances

01:03 Seeking Substance Over Appearance

03:55 Navigating Personal Experiences and Social Interactions

04:46 Exploring Relationships and Emotional Intimacy

05:40 The Evolution of Characters in Relationships

08:04 The Role of Gender and Companionship

10:06 Biological Needs vs. Emotional Wants

12:48 Masculinity, Femininity, and Modern Relationships

15:09 The Balance of Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

23:35 The Emotional Spectrum in Relationships

26:19 Navigating Vulnerability and Emotional Availability

28:18 The Dynamics of Leaving Personal Items in Relationships

34:12 Samantha's Evolution and Emotional Depth

39:01 Miranda's Struggles with Reproductive Choices

43:40 The Importance of Reproductive Health Awareness

48:00 Conclusions on Relationship Evolution

We’re digging into the messy reality of love, money, and power, because yeah...relationships aren’t just about feelings, they’re about who holds the cards. Why is it so damn hard for us women (and men!) to own our success without guilt? How does money really change people? And how does a “caste system” play a role in dating? We’re also breaking down the awkward “I love you” power plays and whether it is the ultimate relationship test.

Can you change a man?

Navigate the intricate dance of love as we explore how grief, change, and communication reshape our more personal bonds. Join us to uncover how setting boundaries, understanding personal routines, and embracing evolving expectations are key to a lasting relationship.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Grief and Relationships

00:05 Cultural Reflections and Humor

02:07 Summarizing Life Updates

04:55 Concert Experiences and Fan Culture

07:13 Urban Safety and Work Experiences

09:55 Relationships and Personal Growth

15:08 Can You Change a Partner?

34:08 Balancing Routines in Relationships

36:54 The Evolution of Relationships

40:04 Communication Styles in Relationships

43:39 Navigating Different Lifestyles

45:35 Cuddling and Relationship Dynamics

52:13 Can You Change a Man?

59:46 Understanding Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

Are we willing to believe anything to date?

Still believing in relationship myths ? Join us as we unravel the complexities of cliche love myths, while navigating friendships and age gaps to uncovering the surprising truths about emotional connections and self-discovery.

On a date… and makes out with another woman?
Cheating or just how dating works now?

In this episode, we dig into what actually counts as cheating today. Not just the obvious ones, but the quieter betrayals too: the lies you tell your friends, your family, even yourself. We talk about why going back to a toxic ex is (still) a bad idea, and why it doesn’t matter if you're gay or straight, the principle holds - you can’t cheat your way in and expect to stay friends with the dating pool.

Join us as we explore the complexities of relationships, emotional health, and personal growth. Reflect on Miranda's struggles with success and loneliness, Charlotte's romantic misadventures, and Carrie and Big's rekindled connection, ultimately emphasizing the importance of relationships in our lives.