Love & Lattes

What if the reason you keep struggling in love isn't that you need more healing, but that you've spent too much time trying to fix yourself, prove your worth, or earn someone else's love?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria chats with Christy Holt, also known as The Happiness Hussy, to explore the healing hamster wheel, self-abandonment, and what it really means to come home to yourself. 

Together, they unpack the shift from chaser to lover: moving away from seeking validation and trying to be chosen, and toward self-trust, authenticity, and consciously choosing the relationships that align with who you are. 

We explore how people-pleasing and overthinking can show up in love, why constantly trying to improve yourself can sometimes keep you stuck, and how asking better questions can change the way you date, communicate, and approach your next relationship.

Because self-love isn't about becoming a perfect version of yourself. It's about learning to trust who you are

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What happens when the life that looks perfect on the outside starts to feel painfully disconnected on the inside?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria is joined by writer, podcast host, and speaker Brianne Roberge. Brianne shares her journey from chasing perfection, validation, and “doing life the right way” to hitting a moment of unraveling that forced her to confront a deeper truth: she was living a life shaped by expectations, not self-trust. 

Brianne also shares her experience with breast implant illness and explant surgery, and how healing her body became a profound gateway back to self-love.

Together they discuss authenticity, people-pleasing, and the courage it takes to let go especially when that letting go includes your body, your image, and the versions of yourself that once felt protective. 

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Have you wondered if it’s too late to rewrite your story… or to believe in healthy, aligned love again?

Today’s episode is for anyone who’s been through heartbreak, addiction, divorce, or major life transitions and feels called to more.

Victoria is joined by Amanda, who after navigating serious health challenges, addiction, and two divorces before 40, chose to rewrite her story. 

Together, they discuss the power of self-love and deep inner work which can  attract your dream partner and reconnected with your purpose!

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📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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In this spicy episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria is joined by Kris Hall, VITA™ Certified Sexual Empowerment Coach, retreat facilitator, and host of the podcast I’ll Have What She’s Having. 

Together they dive deep into the real secrets of better sex—why it’s not about positions, techniques, or performance, but about quality of presence, connection, and embracing your pleasure as power. 

Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, Kris shows us how reclaiming pleasure can transform not just your bedroom, but your confidence, your connection, and your life.

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What if the thing that brought you together is no longer enough to keep the relationship alive?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria chats with relationship expert Katie Rössler for a powerful conversation about what successful relationships really look like..especially after the honeymoon phase fades and deeper patterns begin to surface. 

Together, they explore why what initially attracts us to someone often isn’t what sustains long-term love, how to recognize when a relationship is ready to be rebuilt, and what breakups can teach us when growth is no longer happening together.

Katie also shares insight into her Rebuild Method, a grounded and transformative approach that helps couples move beyond surface-level communication and into real relational change. 

This episode is for anyone navigating relationship shifts, disconnection, or the question of whether love can evolve into something stronger—or if it’s time to let go.

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Conflict isn't the problem.

The real question is: what happens after the conflict?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria chats with marriage coach Kameran Thompson to explore what truly creates a strong, connected, and lasting relationship. Using the principles of the Sound Relationship House, Kameran shares how emotional intimacy, friendship, trust, and effective repair become the foundation for healthy marriages.

You'll learn how conflict can actually strengthen a relationship, what emotional intimacy looks like in everyday life, and why repair is one of the most important relationship skills you'll ever develop.

Whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or have been together for decades, this episode offers practical insights for creating deeper connection and lasting love.

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What if manifestation isn’t about doing more—but about becoming more aligned?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria chats with Mindset and Confidence Coach Naomi Kreske to unpack the deeper truth behind manifestation. 

Together, they explore the three core principles that shift everything!

This conversation moves beyond surface-level mindset talk and into the real work of becoming honest about who you are, who you want to be, and what may be blocking you from the life you desire. 

If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting more and doubting yourself, this episode will help you reconnect to your power and remember: what you put out into the world is what you receive back.

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Today’s conversation is a powerful one. We’re talking about the hidden patterns that shape our emotions, behaviors, and relationships.

Victoria is joined by Karen Seltz, a transformational guide who helps people clear the deepest pain from their past quickly and gently by working with the subconscious mind. Karen shares her own journey of overcoming addiction, anxiety, depression, perfectionism, and low self-worth, and how spirituality, meditation, hypnosis, and quantum principles became the bridge to lasting healing.

In this episode, we explore how the subconscious mind influences everything from self-esteem to risk-taking, how energy healing can support emotional freedom, and what it really means to reconnect with yourself on a deeper level.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old patterns or disconnected from your sense of self-love, this conversation is for you.

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📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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In this solo episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria shares the sensual connection between solo travel and self-discovery, plus the wisdom nature offers when we're willing to take a closer look..

Inspired by her experiences in Costa Rica, Victoria shares how navigating unfamiliar places mirrors the process of exploring ourselves. 

From learning discernment to moving through scarcity mindsets and embracing curiosity, this conversation invites listeners to see self-exploration as an ongoing practice rather than a final destination.

Just as we wander through jungles, rivers, and hidden pathways, we navigate our own internal landscapes with wonder, courage, and excitement.

ENJOY the sounds of Costa Rica too as this episode was filmed in April 2026.

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📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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What happens when high-value women who have built beautiful, successful lives still feel stuck in love?

In this episode, Victoria sits down with Janaya Ward (Love Alchemist and Transformation Coach) for a powerful conversation about the wounds that can repel the very love we desire. 

Together, they explore the shift from wanting to be chosen to choosing yourself, how disconnection from personal power shows up in dating and relationships, and what it truly means to balance power and partnership. 

If you’re ready to break free from repetitive patterns, reconnect with your worth, and call in a love that meets you at your level, this episode is for you.

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 #sponsored Make your mental health a priority this year. Go to https://betterhelp.com/loveandlattes and get 10% off your first month of therapy.   

📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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