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“I didn't realize I was trying to become a wife; then God said, 'Wait a minute, you're My daughter first!'” Discover the significance of one marriage, two covenants, and what it means to be “all in!”

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In E14 of Love Letters with Jason and Ros, we’re talking about “Covenant,” and we’re keeping it real! With fewer than 40% of couples receiving premarital counseling, many enter marriage unaware of their first covenant—let alone the second!

We’ve officially kicked off Season 2 of Love Letters with our new series, “Building Healthy Marriages,” starting with the key element by which every strong marriage must start and stand: Covenant!

Discover why covenant is the foundation for everything else in your marriage, and why understanding it can change the way you love, communicate, and build together.

We Cover:

• What a covenant actually is, and how our covenant with God through Jesus becomes the foundation for how we love our spouse
• The 5-part marriage covenant found in Genesis 2, and what each part means
• Husband and Wife covenant roles and responsibilities
• Three truths that changed how we view marriage
• Why we must recognize, receive, and remain “all in” with both covenants 

Chapters:

• 00:00 – Welcome to Season 2 of Love Letters
• 01:53 – Our three main points for today
• 02:29 – What is a covenant?
• 03:18 – POINT 1—We have a covenant with God through Jesus.
• 09:28 – POINT 2—We have a covenant with each other
• 09:58 – The first wedding in Genesis 2
• 16:34 – Three fundamental beliefs about godly marriage
• 27:06 – POINT 3— Committing to maintain both covenants
• 30:49 – How to maintain the marriage covenant (Ephesians 5)
• 34:49 – Five elements of staying "all in"
• 41:05 – What the research says about connection and intimacy
• 42:33 – Your Power Takeaway: Recognize, Receive, Remain
• 43:37 – Your Love Letter Challenge
• 44:20 – Closing prayer

References and Resources:

• One Extraordinary Marriage: “Average Sex Life in Marriage: What the Research Shows (And What Actually Matters)”  
  https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/average-sex-life-marriage/ 
• Good Therapy: “Premarital Counseling: Building a Strong Foundation for Marriage”  
  https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/modes/premarital-counseling 

Episode Scriptures/Passages— [NKJV], [NIV]

• All Scripture References taken from Bible Gateway:  https://www.biblegateway.com/ 

 Our Covenant with God, the Father, Through Christ Jesus:

• 1 Corinthians 11, verse 25
• John 1, verse 12
• John 14, verse 15
• 1 John 5, verse 3

Our Covenant with One Another, as Husband & Wife:

• Genesis 2, verses 18-25
• Genesis 1, verses 27-28
• 1 John 3, verses 16-18

3. Our Commitment to Both Covenants- Be All In:

• John 13, verse 34
• Ephesians 5, verse 21
• Ephesians 5, verses 22-28

Power Takeaway:

"If you want to experience a healthy, fulfilling marriage: Recognize, Receive, and Remain in both covenants, under God’s divine protection. This is God's WAY and WILL for all of your love relationships.”

This Week's "Live Out Your Love Letter" Challenge:

1. Identify one or two areas in your relationship with God and in your marriage where you haven't fully recognized, received, or remained in covenant. 
2. Write it down, pray about it, and talk about it with your spouse. 
3. Then commit to being intentional about doing something different this week.

💌 We want to hear from you!

• What did you learn?
• What surprised or inspired you the most?
• What topics would you like to see discussed on Love Letters? 

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This one came straight from you. 💌

A clip from our Body Changes episode blew up, and the comments section had questions we couldn't answer in a reply. So we sat down and dug into them, unscripted.

In this Candid Conversations episode, we respond to your comments and 
questions on:

• What to do if it's been years since you and your spouse have been intimate
• How perimenopause, menopause, and "manopause" affect intimacy for both spouses
• Who you should (and should not) talk to when you need outside support
• The difference between dating and courting for the unmarried
• Why sexual struggles are sometimes the fruit of a deeper root issue, not the root itself

If something we said got you thinking, or you've got a question of your own, send it our way. This is where we come back and actually talk about it.

"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another." - John 13:34

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Can love and money really work together? In Episode 12 of Love Letters with Jason & Ros, we dive into “F” Finances and share how to create “Romance with Finance” in your marriage!

Money mismanagement can be one of the greatest sources of stress, discontentment, and division in marriages and love relationships. Challenges like debt, misappropriation, unrealistic expectations, lack of vision, and poor or no planning can quickly turn marital bliss into chaos! Yet, when finances are handled with wisdom, unity, and Godly principles, couples can build stability, strengthen trust, and move toward lasting success.

In this episode, Jason & Ros share interesting facts, fun conversation, and powerful insights on:

• Financial fundamentals for relationships
• How financial ignorance is not bliss
• The real results people experience when they honor God with their finances
• The common challenges couples face when the “money is funny”
• Practical strategies for overcoming financial difficulties... together

Chapters:

• 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros- Topic Introduction
• 2:06       Navigating the Fundamentals of Finances 
• 11:30     Our Story: Financial Ignorance is NOT Bliss
• 21:20     The Real Results of Honoring God w/Your Finances
• 25:18     When the Money is Funny- Financial Challenges!
• 31:48     Biblical Truths— Deuteronomy 8, Verse 18 and Matthew 25, Verse 21
• 33:35     Overcoming Financial Difficulties
• 47:38     Love Letter Finance Challenge
• 48:13     BONUS: Gold Nuggets of Giving & Investing
• 52:34     Closing Prayer

Resources:

Connect with Jason and Ros at: https://linktr.ee/jasonandros 

5 Financial Fundamentals:

1. Living— Setting a realistic budget
2. Giving— Honoring the Lord with your finances
3. Saving— Establishing funds for emergencies and incidentals
4. Investing— Sowing into your future, retirement, and eventual passing
5. Just for You— Enjoying the fruits of your labor (modestly)

Scripture References: 

• Deuteronomy 8, Verse 18 - "And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day.”
• Matthew 25, Verse 21 - "His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.”

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:

• Pray for a Vision for Your Finances 
• If you are struggling with managing your money, and it's negatively impacting your relationship with your spouse, get help right away.

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Do you really know what Purpose is? The truth may surprise you, especially when it comes to purpose in your love relationships!
 
In Episode 11, we explore the true meaning of “P” for Purpose in a dynamic conversation with our special guest, Pastor Erik Luchetta, a longtime Bible teacher of theological studies and a trusted friend! Together, we challenge some of the most common misconceptions people carry about purpose, and why having the right perspective can potentially impact how we love, live, and relate to one another with positive results.
 
 Top Three Things Purpose is Not:

1. It’s not your job or position
2. It’s not a “calling” or “anointing” over your life
3. And… it’s not your gifts, talents, or abilities

The truth?
Every person has one purpose, but it’s lived out in many unique ways.  And yes… even your love relationships have purpose!

Pastor Erik helps us unpack how understanding God’s design for purpose brings clarity to relationships, the appropriate love alignment, ultimate forgiveness, and divine peace in how we should live out our faith, individually and collectively!

Chapters:

• 0:00         Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 3:10         Introducing Pastor Erik Luchetta
• 3:42         Defining PURPOSE & God’s Plan for Humanity  VS. Individual Calling
• 8:44         God’s Will On Earth As It Is In Heaven- Matthew 6, Verse 10
• 11:12       The Cost of Fulfilling Godly Purpose 
• 13:44       What It Means to Be Human
• 24:02       Living Out Purpose in the “Little” Things
• 33:03       The Importance of Forgiveness in Fulfilling Purpose
• 42:30       Interesting Statistics on Purpose
• 47:24       How Purpose & Love Contribute to the Greater Good
• 1:02:57    Biblical Truth- Colossians 3, Verse 23
• 1:06:20    Love Letter Challenge on Purpose!

 Episode Resources:

• Lakewood Bible Study “Living In Your Purpose.” Erik Luchetta and Jeremy Marrone, September 2024. https://www.lakewoodchurch.com/watch-online/06E587AE45D62f542B9F7930DE16

Scripture References:

• Matthew 6, Verse 10 - “Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.”
• Colossians 3, Verse 23 - “And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men,”

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:
Discover your purpose by answering these 3 questions.

1. What do you love to do and would do without getting paid or if no one was watching?
2. What is your why and motivation behind fulfilling purpose?
3. Are you willing to start "small" and possibly stay "small?"

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Are you currently living single? Get ready as we uncover the truth about God's gift of singlehood and how to embrace it in your love relationships.

In Episode 10: Embracing the Gift of Singlehood, we sit down with Pastor Jacqui Hill-Goudeau, author, administrator, exceptional Bible teacher, and longtime friend. Jacqui breaks down common myths about being single, answers those burning questions, and shares how to live a successfully single, healthy, and whole life God's way. 

We discuss the challenges of living single in the 21st century, share interesting statistics, and unpack the truth about the two singlehood statuses — whether you are single while waiting (you desire a spouse) or single while walking (you do not have a desire for a spouse).

Chapters: 

• 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 2:11       Meet Special Guest— Jacqui Hill-Goudeau       
• 3:06       Choosing to be Single & Stigma
• 5:26       “Jacqui’s Single Seasons Story”
• 9:55       Loving Yourself & Being Genuine
• 13:35     God Is Your Ultimate COVERING 
• 21:17     “The Single Wife”
• 26:09     Singlehood Challenges
• 30:45     Waiting Well in Your Single Season
• 44:26     Bible Truths- 1 Corinthians 7
• 48:00     How to Embrace Singlehood
• 50:21     “A Shopper’s Guide to Dating”
• 55:01     Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge
• 56:48     Closing Prayer

Episode Resources:

• Follow Jacqui — https://www.wisdomspeakstoday.com Order Jacqui's books on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jacqui-Hill-Goudeau/author/B0G6GMB58K

Scripture References:

• 1 Corinthians 7, verse 7 (Apostle Paul) “But I wish everyone were single, as I am. Yet each person has a special gift from God, of one kind or another.” (NIV)
• 1 Corinthians 7, verse 32b  “…He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord, how he may please Him…” (NKJV)
• o   1 Corinthians 7, verse 34b  “…In the same way, the unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit…” (NKJV)

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:

• Read 1 Corinthians 7 and discover your gift. Has God called you to walk in singleness and wholeness? Or has He given you a desire for a spouse? Both are gifts from God. Learn what yours is and embrace it as you walk with Him in faith during your single season.

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Every love relationship needs to be at the “H.O.T. Level!”  And no, we’re not talking about chemistry, we’re talking about next-level Honest, Open, and Transparent conversations.

Episode 9, introduces “H” for H.O.T. — which means “Honest, Open, and Transparent.” Jason & Ros explain why reaching H.O.T. level conversation is your:

• Ultimate relationship goal.
• Essential next level beyond basic communication.
• Key to deeper trust, connection, and growth in love.

This episode builds on E3: “C” for Communication and takes it further — sharing how to move from talking to truly connecting. We unpack:

• What H.O.T. communication really looks like.
• Why honesty, openness, and transparency are relationship game-changers.
• What typically prevents couples from having H.O.T. conversations?
• How to overcome fear, defensiveness, and shutdown.
• How H.O.T. conversations can transform your relationship.

If you’re ready to end surface-level talking and start building a genuine connection, this episode is for you.

Chapters:

• 0:00     Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 1:30     The What, Why, and How of H.O.T. Conversation 
• 3:06     The Significance of Being H.O.T.
• 8:03     Three Levels To Communication
• 10:13   “We Get H.O.T.”- How Our Conversation Journey is Still Progressing
• 16:00   When H.O.T. Turns Cold— Challenges of Being H.O.T.
• 21:00   Biblical Truths— Zechariah 8, Verses 16-17
• 22:40   Overcoming Through H.O.T. Conversations- Power Takeaways
• 37:20   Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer
• 40:09   Bonus: H.O.T. Blooper! 😊

Additional Content & Notes:

3 Levels of H.O.T. Communication:
Every relationship has a “journey” to take and “purpose” to fulfill, and communication is the key to getting it there. 

• Level I –  Basic conversation and understanding of each other that lead you to the altar (“I Do”)
• Level II – Specific conversations that keep you connected (“I Love You”)
• Level III – Intimate conversations that keep you committed to each other (“I Am With You Through It All”)

H.O.T. Conversation Takes:

• Vulnerability
• Trust
• Forgiveness
• Patience
• Humility

Overcoming Through H.O.T. Conversations:

1. Practice— Start with something small that you can be honest, open, and transparent about.
2. Recognize Fear's Presence— Fear of rejection, abandonment, or loss; is a tactic of the enemy
3. Pray & Acknowledge God— Allow the Holy Spirit to lead and guide your tongue, providing a strategy for communicating wisely.
4. Choose a Time— Give a heads-up to schedule an appropriate time.
5. Choose a Place— Set an environment conducive to having hard conversations. 

Bible Truth:

• Zechariah 8, Verses 16-17 - "But this is what you are to do: Speak the truth in love to each other. Render true and sound judgments that lead to peace in your gates. Don’t plot evil against each other, and stop your love of telling lies that you swear are the truth. I hate all these things, declares the Lord.”

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:

• Practice being “vulnerable” with your loved ones! 

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FAITH is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not yet seen! But what happens when the dynamic of a love relationship is added? Episode 8 explores “F”— Faith and what it looks like when your relationship of two becomes three, with Jesus at the center! 

Join Jason & Ros as we discuss the firm foundation of faith in your love relationships. BOTTOM LINE: Faith is what love stands on when life gets hard, truth is tested, and unity is challenged.

Watch & Explore with us in conversation about:

• What faith really means in relationships
• Why it’s essential to lasting love
• How faith is tested — individually and collectively
• What happens when couples agree (or disagree) on truth
• How to establish, navigate, and maintain faith through every season

Faith has the power to strengthen relationships — or strain them — depending on what it’s built on. In this episode, we encourage you to examine your foundation, grow spiritually together, and allow faith to deepen your love for God and for one another.

CHAPTERS:

• 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 1:55       What Is FAITH in Your Relationship?
• 3:55       The 5 Cs of Faith
• 8:51       “The Love Triangle” –  Our Faith Journey Story
• 17:23      When Faith is Put to the Test
• 19:14      Facing Faith Challenges Head-On
• 27:18      Biblical Truths— Jude 1, verses 20 and 21a
• 28:25      How to Overcome Through Faith- Your Power Takeaways
• 41:13      Your E8 Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer

RESOURCES:

• Donnie McClurkin (1996). Stand [Song]. On Donnie McClurkin; McClurkin D. (Producer), Warner Alliance  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donnie_McClurkin 
• Bible Study Fellowship International—  https://www.bsfinternational.org/ 

THE FIVE (5) C'S OF FAITH:
As you’ve committed to loving each other, it's vital to establish if faith will be a part of your relationship. If so, what will it look like for you as a couple? The 5 C’s of Faith provide a guideline to establishing faith.

1. CONNECT: Work to ensure that your faith foundation aligns with each other (Crucial)
2. COMMUNICATE: Share your history with faith in God and Jesus, “religious” experiences. What is your basis of “truth?”
3. CREATE: Work together to build your faith foundation as a couple. Below are a few examples.
   1. Study together
   2. Pray together
   3. Worship together
   4. Serve in ministry together
4. CONTINUE: Maintain your faith foundation, nurture it as you continue to grow together.
   1. Individual Faith, considering and supporting each other.
5. CORRECT: Learn to make adjustments as you both grow in faith and/or when challenges come.

WAYS TO OVERCOME RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES THROUGH FAITH

1. SALVATION - Receive it (single or couple)
2. FIRM FOUNDATION - Let God’s Word (the Bible) be the basis of:
   1. Truth
   2. Your guiding light for life
   3. The final authority in your life and every love relationship
3. PRAYER – Pray together without ceasing
   1. Not out of religious ritual, but naturally through your LOVE relationship with God and each other.
   2. Pray in faith through every trial and triumph 
4. WORSHIP & SERVICE - Will help continue to build and strengthen your faith in God
5. STAND - When the tests and rough challenges come to try you, stand firm together and face it head-on.
   1. God is with you in it, through it, and out of it!
   2. Standing in faith will not always be about the challenge, sometimes it’s for prayer petitions, guidance, and new open doors.
   3. CONVICTION (awareness of wrong behavior) vs. CONDEMNATION (self-judgement)
      1. Conviction of the Holy Spirit
      2. Acknowledging sin
      3. Heartfelt repentance
      4. Moving forward in grace

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES:

• Jude 1, Verses 20-21 "But you, dear friends, must build each other up in your most holy faith, pray in the power of the Holy Spirit, and await the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will bring you eternal life. In this way, you will keep yourselves safe in God’s love."

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Parenting is a blessing and one of the greatest challenges we'll ever face! In Episode 7, "P" for Parenting, we talk honestly about the dazes, crazes, and triumphant phases of being parents in a modern world, and why there's no one-size-fits-all approach. 

Indeed, children are a gift and an inheritance from God; yet parenting today comes with learning curves, strategies, various styles, and specific outcomes we cannot control. 

BOTTOM LINE: We must parent with prayer, patience, unity, God's Word, and the leading of the Holy Spirit,  even though the results will NEVER be up to you!

Chapters:

• 0:00       Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 2:33       Laying the Foundations of Parenting, What We Need to Know
• 5:39       Modeling Faith in the Family
• 9:12       Why Parenting Styles & Alignment Matter
• 10:10     "It's Rough Out in These Parenting Streets!"— Our Parenting Stories
• 11:21     Jason's Childhood & Upbringing
• 15:55     Ros' Childhood & Upbringing
• 21:53     How Childhood Experiences Impact Parenting
• 22:50     Impact of Work & Ministry on Parenting
• 35:14     Parenting Challenges are INEVITABLE!
• 52:53     Biblical Truths— Ephesians 6, verse 4, and Proverbs 22, verse 6
• 54:49     Overcoming & Parenting God's Way
• 57:32     Winning with "The 4 Cs of Parenting."   
• 1:08:17   Your E7 Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer

Additional Notes:

THE FOUR (4) C's or PHASES OF PARENTING:
This phase process helps kids develop their: Identity, Values, Critical Reasoning, and Communication Skills.

1. COMMANDER— Establish the foundation of right and wrong. Includes the why, even if they don't understand it yet. 
   1. Yes, because…
   2. No, because… 
   3. The "Because I said so!" phrase doesn't work or teach kids how to express themselves, or make logical decisions between what's right and wrong, best and worse.
2. COACH— Establish core values and encourages reasoning.
   1. Would you rather do this… or that?
      1. Is this decision within the boundaries of your values?
      2. Have you considered the possible consequences?
      3. As the coach, you make the final decision; however, always explain why. They may not agree or understand, or it may make them angry with you. However, your final decision must be based on your family's values.
   2. COUNSELOR— Encourage independence and responsibility.
      1. Allow them to make the decision and be responsible for the consequences.
      2. This phase works best while they're still in your home or in college.
      3. They're paying rent and other key bills related to their transition into young adulthood.
   3. CONSULTANT— Practice "Patient Availability."
      1. Young adults, out of your home, being there when they need you
      2. Challenges Arise: Ask them whether they need you to listen or want your advice.
      3. Moms, there comes a point when your sons are no longer your "baby," encourage manhood.
      4. Consider allowing "One stimulus package" as a bailout plan.

Scripture References:

• Ephesians 6:4 "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." 
• Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."

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When bodies change, does love change too? Join us for real talk in Episode 6— “B” for Body Changes, and why every couple should discuss this inevitable truth: Every Body changes!

How do you stay "attractive" and "attracted to your mate" when the body changes over time? If you’ve ever wondered about maintaining the passion, connection, and appreciation of your love relationships through the seasons of life, this conversation is for you!

We’re talking about weight gain, wrinkles, sags, and real-life bags that can happen to us all! Yet, the real beauty of our love relationships can only come when we understand that love and attraction go well beyond physical appearance, and they can evolve in ways we don’t always expect.

Explore with us what genuine love looks like after the widening and rounding, gray hairs, glasses, sicknesses, scars, and stretch marks show up and show out! Learn what it means to love your spouse through every version of their outward appearance.

Although our bodies may change, love doesn’t have to fade. Instead, it should deepen, strengthen, and mature into something even more beautiful as you learn to see your loved one the way God sees them — from the inside out!

Chapters:

• 0:00      Welcome to Love Letters with Jason & Ros
• 2:20      Every Body Changes… Here’s Why!
• 6:15      Our Body Change Story— “That Was Then, This is Now!”
• 19:07    Menopause: Real Issues Women Face
• 20:53    Issues & Physical Changes with Kids/Youth
• 27:35    "Manopause" & Real Issues Men Face
• 30:27    Overcoming Body Change Issues… It Starts with Acceptance
• 37:48    Biblical Truth— Psalm 139 and Verse 14
• 38:57    Power Takeaways for Body Changes
• 42:34    Your Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer

Episode Resources:

Top 3 Tips - Overcoming the Challenges of Body Changes:

1. Expect It — The effects of aging are going to happen sooner or later.
2. Adjust to It— Support each other as you experience it together and make changes.
   1. Seek medical attention when necessary.
3. Embrace It = Age Gracefully— Use it to your advantage

Power Takeaways:

1. In Love Relationships: Keep the communication lines wide OPEN/SAFE. Share your concerns by speaking from the heart, speak truth in LOVE.
   1. You’re committed to growing old together as long as possible in this lifetime.
2. Don’t hold yourself or others to unrealistic expectations during physical changes. 
   1. Remember, the physical body is the “bonus” not the “blessing!”
   2. You love the person’s soul, not their body or the shell that houses their soul.
3. Commit to growing old together as long as possible in this lifetime.
4. Pray and seek God’s Word pertaining to health, wellness, maintained commitment, and acceptance of physical changes.

Bible Truth:

• Psalm 139, Verse 14 “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are Your works, [O LORD], and that my soul knows very well."

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:

•   Have some “Pillow Talk” about at least one area of health you are concerned about. 
• Let us know how it goes!

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Yes, you read that title right! In Episode 5, we’re unpacking “M” for Marriage — and revealing the two cuss words that can wreck marriages when we ignore God’s design.

Marriage isn’t a contract. It’s a covenant that thrives (or falls apart) based on how we choose to live it, God’s way or our way. We’re getting real about what it takes to build a marriage filled with joy, peace, trust, and genuine love, even when it’s hard.

Dear Singles, this is for you too! You don’t have to be married to gain wisdom, perspective, and hope for your relationships. What we share here can help prepare your heart, protect it, and align it with God’s vision for love.  Our prayer and purpose: That your thinking shifts, heart strengthens, and you walk away empowered to live out your love letters.

Hit play and prepare for transformative truths, laughter, and a fresh perspective on what marriage really requires. This conversation might just change how you live and love!

Chapters:

• 0:00     Welcome Intro
• 1:40     What Everyone Needs to Know About Marriage!
• 8:55     Engaged Twice, Broke Up Thrice, 3rd Time Was a Charm— Our Marriage Story
• 17:31   “Husband & Wife Life” After the Honeymoon
• 19:46   Marriage Challenge #1- Unawareness of the Covenant
• 20:42   Marriage Challenge #2- The Soulmate Myth
• 21:36   The Two CUSS WORDS of Marriage- Challenge #3
• 32:15   Marriage Challenge #4- A Broken Covenant
• 35:56   Don’t Give Up On Loving Again After Breakup or Divorce
• 37:00   Biblical Truth— 1 Peter Chapter 3, Verses 1 and 7
• 40:12   Overcoming & Winning in Marriage
• 43:38   Episode 5 Power Takeaways for Your Marriage
• 52:03   Your Love Letter Challenge & Closing Prayer

3 Purposes of Marriage:
Marriage and family are by God’s design. It is the first ordinance He created between one man and one woman with a divine purpose for life on earth.

1. Carry Out the Covenant - Through respect, loyalty, and commitment.
2. Procreate - Be fruitful and multiply. Couples without children can STILL be Spiritual parents and leaders in helping disciple the next generation.
3. Companionship - Love, Support, and mutual Service.

Power Takeaways to Win in Marriage:

1. Keep Covenant— Stay committed and mindful of the “covenant” promise between the two of you and God. Seek help when and if the covenant is “broken.”
2. Expect Challenges—  They WILL come; be prepared to face and do the work together without blame.
3. Submit & Serve— For strength and growth.
   1. There’s power in submitting to each other
   2. There’s peace in his “Godly” leadership
4. Get regular marriage check-ups/tune-ups! Agree to participate in the 3 Cs:
   1. Level 1: Conversations
   2. Level 2: Conferences
   3. Level 3: Counseling & Coaching

Biblical Truths:

• 1 Peter Chapter 3, verses 1 and 7
  • 1“Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives.”
  • 7“The same goes for you husbands: Be good to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives as equals so your prayers won’t be hindered.”

Live Out Your Love Letter Challenge:

• Conduct a “Marriage Check-up or Tune-up!” 

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