Love + Life Advice

There are a lot of unique problems bisexuals face, but what happens when even their own significant other seems to be against them? 

In today's episode, our listener is having problems with an insecure boyfriend. He wants to turn her straight, and is jealous of the fact that she is attracted to both sexes. She is deeply upset by some of the things he has said to her. 

Do we have a controlling guy on our hands? Or simply a guy caught up in jealousy? Where should she go from here? Is this relationship salvageable if he can't come to grips with her bisexuality? 

Find out what we think in today's episode!

Most of us have been in a relationship with someone who has gone above and beyond in the bedroom. You go at each other every night, and never get tired of it. But even when it seems you're 99% sexual compatibility, sometimes there are things to be worked on. Some people will encounter problems, some small and others... Much larger. 

In today's episode, one of our listeners is struggling with how to handle the size of her partner's "porn sized" penis. Her partner loves receiving head, but it is painful and uncomfortable for her, and she is afraid she will lose him if she refuses him too often. 

We've never gotten a question quite like this one before, and we're still not quite sure if this is legit or if someone is trolling us- but regardless we decided to go ahead and answer it anyway. 

As you join us for today's episode prepare to not only learn, but laugh along as well. 

How do you know when to move on from a long relationship? Is there an appropriate amount of time to grieve your ex? Can you jump right into something new without any consequences?

In today's episode, we answer the question of how long should you wait when it comes to starting a new relationship. We've had several questions along these lines in the past and we generally agree that there is no one answer. How and when you move on depends on so many factors you can't really point to the perfect answer but we give our thoughts on the topic.

Listen in and enjoy!

What do you do when your spouse wants to start a family but you're not ready? Or vice versa? 

What happens when you have a plan to have kids once you reach a certain milestone but someone still doesn't feel ready when you achieve your goals?

In this episode, we talk about a woman and her husband who planned to have kids once they got a home but things didn't quite work out that way. Now she is ready but the husband still needs more time. She's stuck in a tough position and may even divorce him over the issue. We give our thoughts on the topic which is one that we both understand well in our own relationship as we approach our own mark for starting a family.

Listen in and enjoy!

Are you bad at reading people, especially when it comes to romantic gestures or flirty behavior? 

Are you scared of putting yourself out there to "ask" if someone is interested in you because you don't want to get hurt? 

Do you hate rejection?

In this episode, we answer a question from a girl who thinks a guy might be into her, but she isn't quite sure. Is he just bored? Is she reading it wrong? How can she find out without getting hurt?

Listen in and enjoy!

Does paying on a first date get awkward? Who should grab the check? Should you split the bill or what?

In this episode, we answer a question that comes up often with regard to getting the tab on a first date. We both agree that men should pay, but there are some circumstances where we think women should step up and grab the tab instead.

Listen in and enjoy!

Do you have a boyfriend or a spouse that gets angry and even violent when you turn down sex?

Are you afraid of saying "no" because of his hostile overreactions to being rejected? Have you even needed to hide in the bathroom until he calms down?

In today's episode we discuss a question from a 21-year-old woman who has a big problem with her boyfriend lashing out at her when she refuses sex or isn't in the mood for whatever reason. She is starting to believe this might somehow be her fault. We both adamantly agree that she is not the problem and this guy needs to go!

Listen in and enjoy!

Have you ever met someone and felt like you've know them your whole life after just a couple of days or hours?
How can you be sure you aren't just being hopeful and they are on the same page?

In today's episode, we talk about the feeling you get when you meet a future best friend and how to make sure you don't open yourself up too quickly to just anyone.

Listen in and enjoy!

Have you been "the other woman" without knowing?
Did you get dumped only to find out your boyfriend not only had a girlfriend but she was pregnant?
Did your boyfriend still want to be friends?
Did you confront her just to make sure she knew what was going on and accidentally shock her into labor?
Did you feel like a homewrecker after going through this whole ordeal?

In today's episode, we will talk about this exact bizarre scenario and give some quick advice on what to do if you feel guilty for being in an awkward and bad situation like this one. We'll talk about who is to blame and how you might avoid this kind of relationship in the future.

Tune in and enjoy!

Having casual sex with a friend with no strings attached?!? Who wouldn't sign up for an arrangement like this? However, it is easy to have blurred lines in a relationship like this. 

A "friends with benefits" arrangement can be great if both parties are clear on rules and boundaries from the beginning and abide by the rules throughout their relationship. Honesty matters when it comes to both the other person's feelings and about exploring options with other people. 

In today's episode, we talk about the pros and cons of a "fuckbuddy" situationship. And specifically, if there is such thing as "cheating" in one of these agreements. We break down everything from unwanted STDs, deception VS cheating, transparency, and when it's a good idea to break off when it becomes unhealthy.

Happy Listening!