Love, Lust & Lies

On the final episode of season 2 Sex Therapist Jen and Steph talk about being comfortable in whatever arrangement you are in. Whether its just a hook-up, casual dating, situationship, friends with benefits, polyamorous relationships, etc. Sex Therapist Jen talks about Imposter Syndrome and how people aren't really being their true selves in relationships. Steph says "You are the only Expert in your relationship. No one can tell you about your relationship better than you." Steph and Sex Therapist Jen both think people allow societal pressures too much authority on their "Arrangements." Once again we appreciate all our listeners. We thank you for tuning in every week. Please send us your comments and thoughts about the show. Share some of the topics you'd like to hear. Share some of the stories you have with us and we'll talk about them on the show. You can remain anonymous if you'd like. You can reach us at [email protected]. Message us on anchor.fm/lovelustliespodcast, @lovelustliespodcast, @sextherapistjen, @stephon_urquelle on Instagram. Also like and subscribe on all platforms. See y'all next season

This weeks episode is all in support Masturbation Month. We are joined by Sex Educator and toy supplier Linnea Maire. Linnea and Sex Therapist Jen share stories about their "What that mouth do?!" workshop and the importance oral pleasure. We talk about the importance of masturbation. Steph and Sex Therapist Jen share some intimate stories about masturbation. Also we discuss why masturbation isn't "Taboo" and should be normalized.

This week we dive into how the way we are raised effects our relationships. Does your parents relationships effect your decision making in relationships. Also does the lack of witnessing a successful loving relationship determine whether you can have a successful loving relationship. Sex Therapist Jen and Steph share stories on their up bringing and how they think it has effected their relationships.

During this episode Steph and Sex Therapist Jen interview Kingnoire. He is a Porn Star, Educator, Rapper and Co-Owner of Royal Fetish Films. King gives insight on how he started in the business and what it's like working with different performers. He also drops gems on how men can have more stamina in the bedroom!

This episode is all about the co-sign. Sex Therapist Jen and Steph talk about co-signing the homie. Steph has his reservations about giving the approval to dating his friends. Sex Therapist Jen explains why the co-sign could be a very sketchy reference. Also there's more than one type of co-sign. There's what some would say a "Dick Review" when the ladies are describing whether or not a friend is worth the time when suitors come calling. Also is dating the homie a good idea... If it doesn't workout can you go back to being homies. All that plus some juicy stories shared by both Sex Therapist Jen and Steph.

This we talk all thing Derrick Jaxn. Why do women believe these so called "Relationship Gurus"? Also Sex Therapist Jen sets the record straight on the difference between so called Life Coaches and Therapist. 

This episode is all about Truth! Can you handle the truth? Who deals with truth better men or women? Steph shares some stories about how he was confronted with the truth and how he reacted. Sex Therapist Jen explains that truth must be delivered in with care so it can be received instead of with intent to hurt. At the end of the day would you rather enjoy the lie or live in your truth? 

Keeping in touch with you Ex... Is it cheating or not? Is it ok to keep in touch with your ex and your mate doesn't know. We getting to all that and more in this weeks episode Sex Therapist Jen and Steph share their stories and opinions on the Ex-Factor. Sex Therapist Jen has an interesting story about exes and her family. 

Dating is so confusing so in this weeks episode Sex Therapist Jen and Steph try to get some clarity and breakdown the stages of dating. They discuss Talking, FWB, Situationships, Dating, the actual relationship, etc. Also how important is your parents thoughts and opinions when it comes to your relationships? Does parental approval matter? Does your mate have to get along with your family? Well you'll hear Sex Therapist Jen and Steph's thoughts on all these things and more.

This week Sex Therapist Jen sits down with The Carters and pulls back the curtain on how they met, who said "I love you" first, co-parenting and just the ends and outs up and downs of being in a loving relationships.