Love Machine :  Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

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Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life episodes

  • How to Be More Intentional in Dating and Finally Attract the Right Relationship

    Are You Making Love Happen, Or Just Hoping It Finds You?

    This week on The Love Machine, James Preece sits down with certified life and love coach Valerie Mitric for a lively, honest chat packed with modern dating insights. Discover why intentional dating is the missing ingredient for so many singles, how to break free from dead-end dating patterns, and what makes a truly magnetic dating profile shine.

    Listen as Valerie Mitric and James Preece dive deep into the art of intentional dating, including the best ways to handle dating apps, why paying for a service can change everything, and how being clear about your intentions can attract better matches.

    Whether you're overwhelmed by too many choices or always picking the wrong people, this episode will help you take practical steps toward genuine connection.

    Tune in for laughs, lightbulb moments, and tips you can put to work right away - all through the lens of intentional dating. If you're ready for more than just random luck in your love life, you won't want to miss this.

    About Valerie

    https://www.instagram.com/valeriemitriccoaching/

    https://www.valeriemitriccoaching.com/


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    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    34 min
  • The Brutal Reason Your Dates Keep Fizzling Out

    Why Do So Many Dates Fizzle Out Without Warning?

    Are you tired of promising dates that seem to just fizzle out, leaving you wondering what went wrong?

    In this sparkling episode of The Love Machine Podcast, James Preece digs deep into the mystery of fizzling by revealing the real reasons modern dating sometimes feels like a string of lovely chats that never spark into anything more.

    Discover why the dreaded post-date "let's do this again sometime" could be a sign your dating energy is fizzling, how to shift from small talk to memorable connection, and why flirting is the secret ingredient so many people forget.

    James Preece shares refreshing tips for keeping conversations playful, being braver with your honesty, and turning polite encounters into lively possibilities, so your dating life never has to fizzle again.

    Ready to stop your dates from fizzling and start feeling sparks?

    Tune in and enjoy a fun, practical masterclass from the UK's leading dating coach on how to turn fizzling dates into unforgettable ones.

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    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    24 min
  • Why You Keep Dating the Same Type of Man - And How to Finally Break the Pattern

    Have You Ever Wondered Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Partner?

    In this electrifying episode of The Love Machine, dating coach superstar James Preece welcomes Tess Bremner, the expert behind Highest League, for an honest chat all about breakups.

    Join us as we explore why so many successful women struggle with repeating relationship patterns, the psychology behind subconscious choices, and how to finally break free from the cycle.

    You'll learn about subconscious reprogramming, core values in dating, and even the power of daily moisturising for self love.

    If you've ever asked yourself, "Why do all my breakups feel the same?" then this is the episode you can't afford to miss. Tune in now to discover strategies that'll help you spot toxic cycles, set new non negotiables, and approach your next breakup with confidence and optimism.

    About Tess

    Tess Bremner is the founder of Highest League and The Have It All Mentor, helping ambitious women who are done dating the same type of guy break the pattern and attract the relationship that finally matches their level.

    www.highestleague.com

    https://www.instagram.com/highestleague/

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    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/


    36 min
  • Your Nervous System and Mindset is Choosing Your Partners for You

    Are You Settling In Love Without Even Realising?

    In this lively episode of The Love Machine, James Preece teams up with Nicole Simpson from Rooted In Love Matchmaking for a game-changing chat all about dating mindset.

    Discover why your dating mindset could be the most important thing standing between you and a brilliant relationship, and how to tell if your thoughts are helping or sabotaging your search for love.

    Hear the real reason so many singles are stuck, why dating mindset is about much more than apps, and what happens when you finally stop settling for less.

    Nicole shares eye-opening stories about her own journey, and together with James, reveals powerful tips to help you shift your dating mindset, break old patterns, and become truly open to a new relationship.

    Ready for more confidence, direction, and fun every time you go dating? You’ll want to listen in.

    About Nicole

    https://www.instagram.com/nicolethematchmaker/



    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    35 min
  • Why You Keep Ending Up In Situationships - And How To Finally Break The Pattern

    Are You Caught Up In A Confusing Situationship?

    On this episode of The Love Machine, James Preece dives deep into the world of modern "situationships" - those muddled in-between connections that look a bit like relationships but feel like a romantic guessing game.

    Why do we keep falling for people who are warm one day, cold the next? How does hope become the most expensive dating habit?

    Listen as James Preece unpacks with flair the red flags, the emotional detective work, and the addictive mix of chemistry and confusion that make situationships feel so irresistible.

    If you’ve ever checked your phone every eight minutes, analysed vague texts, or wondered why you’re over-investing in someone who loves to keep things "casual," this episode is your wake-up call.

    Discover smart tips to spot the signs of a situationship early, protect your heart, and finally find someone ready for a real relationship.

    From the thrill of mixed signals to the peace of getting clear, you’ll learn how not to fall for relationship level drama on a situationship level effort.

    Don’t miss out - tune in now and take the next step towards genuine connection.

    33 min
  • Why More People Are Questioning Monogamy - And What Open Relationships Can Teach Us About Love

    What If Everything You Think You Know About Relationships Is Just The Beginning?

    This episode of The Love Machine is a cheeky and thought-provoking adventure into the vibrant world of non monogamy. Speaker B sits down with relationship coach Speaker A to uncover what really happens when you ditch the rulebook and explore open relationships, ENM, throuples, and the global play party scene.

    Ever wondered how couples actually navigate jealousy, kink, and honest communication?

    Or why more people are curious about non monogamy than ever before?

    You'll hear stories about hilarious hotel mishaps, the real deal on jealousy, and how to curate an intimate life that's unique to you.

    Whether it's about opening up a current partnership, diving into new desires, or simply learning how to talk about what turns you on, this episode covers it all with fun, warmth and loads of “aha” moments.

    Tune in if you want smarter relationship advice, passionate debates about thriving partnerships, and tips on how non monogamy can become your playground - all brought to life on The Love Machine!

    Curious about your own relationship style? This is your invitation to listen and join in the conversation about non monogamy.

    About Ally

    Ally Iseman, CRC is an internationally Certified Relationship Coach and NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional who specialises in modern relationship design, unlocking erotic jealousy, and consent and communication

    https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure

    https://www.passport2pleasure.com/quiz


    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    41 min
  • Why Some People Effortlessly Attract Love - And How to Build Those Qualities Yourself

    Why Do Some People Just Radiate Attraction?

    Ever wondered what really makes someone irresistible? On this episode of The Love Machine, host James Preece teams up with top dating and relationship coach Sophia Bloom to unravel the buzz around attraction.

    If you've ever felt invisible or puzzled by why others light up a room, this episode is for you.

    Dive in as James and Sophia dig into the science and secrets of attraction beyond looks, sharing the key traits that actually matter most.

    From what makes personalities magnetic to why "fake it till you make it" can only get you so far, every minute is packed with practical tips.

    You'll even discover how emotional safety, confidence, and humour all play a part in creating real attraction, plus how your attachment style could be running the show.

    Whether you're looking to boost your own attraction or just curious why we fall for certain people, this episode is bursting with insights and feel-good advice. Hit play and see what really draws us together.

    About Sophia

    https://www.sophiainbloom.com/

    https://www.instagram.com/sophia_inbloom/

    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    39 min
  • How Women Can Break Trauma Bonds, Trust Themselves Again, And Finally Find Healthy Love

    Are You Mistaking Emotional Chaos For Chemistry?

    Join James Preece, the UK's leading Dating Coach, as he sits down with Sarah Harkness for a refreshingly honest chat about dating after trauma. If you've ever wondered why you keep falling for the wrong type or struggle to trust yourself after a painful breakup, this episode is essential listening.

    You'll hear Sarah's unfiltered journey through her own relationship patterns, discover why safe love can feel boring, and find out exactly how to spot the difference between true chemistry and old chaos.

    From spotting trauma bonds to journaling, self-awareness, and learning how to regulate your nervous system, "dating after trauma" is the focus throughout.

    Sarah even finishes with a beautifully calming guided visualisation you can use before your next first date.

    If you want a new perspective on dating after trauma, don't miss this episode. Hit play and get ready to transform how you approach love.


    About Sarah

    https://www.austinelitematchmaking.com

    https://www.instagram.com/austin.elite.matchmaking/


    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    38 min
  • The Red Flags You’re Ignoring Aren’t Small - They’re Training You to Betray Yourself

    Is That Really a Red Flag or Just Your Nervous System Sounding the Alarm?

    This week on The Love Machine Podcast, James Preece sits down with the brilliant trauma-informed relationship recovery coach and author, Romilly Golding, for an eye-opening episode all about spotting the true relationship red flag before it's too late. Have you ever caught yourself making excuses for that subtle criticism or those "harmless" jokes?

    You won't want to miss Romilly Golding reveal the unexpected red flags that people often miss - like sleep deprivation sabotage and sneaky patterns of control - and why they matter more than you think.

    Dive into the psychology of toxic relationships as James Preece and Romilly Golding discuss why leaving isn't simple, how people pleasing starts in childhood, and why true healing is a bold act of self-reclamation.

    Plus, you'll get powerful tips to rebuild your confidence, spot the earliest red flag in dating, and discover the biggest green flag for your next relationship.

    Ready to change the way you see the red flag forever? Hit play and start building more love and safety in your life today.

    About Romilly

    www.romillygolding.com

    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    30 min
  • The Stylist’s Secret: Easy Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Look And Boost Attraction

    What Does Your Personal Style Say Before You Even Say Hello?

    Get ready to unlock the secret to instant attraction in this energising episode of The Love Machine!

    This week, James Preece sits down with personal stylist and colour analyst Jo Novak to reveal how the right style changes can transform your love life before you ever open your mouth. The hot topic? Personal Style - and how it’s your ultimate dating game-changer.

    Discover why wearing the wrong colours might make you look tired or even unwell, and why something as simple as choosing an analogue watch or the perfect belt can totally upgrade your first date look.

    Jo Novak shares jaw-dropping stories - like spending half a million pounds over a lifetime just trying to crack your personal style - and provides surprisingly simple tips you can use today to look more attractive and confident.

    Curious why black isn’t the solution for everyone, or how a fresh style can boost your dating profile and your everyday confidence?

    You’ll hear the psychological science behind first impressions and find out what accessories, grooming habits, and outfit combos make the biggest impact.

    Whether you’re heading back out there, ready to reinvent your wardrobe, or just want to feel your best, this is the episode you cannot miss.

    Click play and let the magic of personal style work for you!

    About Jo

    Jo Novak - is a House of Colour Franchise Owner and expertly trained Personal Stylist and Colour Analyst, specialising in Client Transformations based on colour and style analysis. Jo guides clients to refine their image, strengthen their confidence, and express who they are through intentional, flattering style.

    https://www.instagram.com/houseofcolour_jonovak/


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    About James

    James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

    Get his free book when you join his newsletter :

    https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/

    Website:

    https://www.jamespreece.com

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    35 min

About Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.