What would you do if the person you love suddenly collapsed - and you were the only one there to save them?

In this episode of LOVE ONE LIFE, Rob and Ruby from The Idiopath share the night that changed everything - when Rob went into sudden cardiac arrest at home, and Ruby performed CPR for 18 minutes until the emergency services arrived.

It’s a raw, emotional and surreal story of survival, shock, resilience, and a second chance at life.

But it’s also a powerful message about the importance of CPR, the reality of recovery, and how moments like this can completely transform your path and purpose.

We explore the collapse, the call, the coma, the recovery, the second cardiac event - and the mission that now drives their work: helping others learn CPR and build resilience before life forces them to.

This episode is a reminder to love the one life you have, stay present, and never underestimate the difference you can make in a single moment.

Chapters / Time Stamps

00:00 : Welcome to Love One Life
00:14 : “I saved Rob’s life”
00:38 : Hearing the 999 call
01:03 : Meet Rob & Ruby (The Idiopath)
01:33 : Who’s the real lifesaver?
02:10 : Why Ruby requested the emergency call audio
03:59 : The night everything changed
04:07 : The collapse
05:22 : Realising Rob isn’t breathing
05:49 : Calling 999 and starting CPR
06:42 : Emergency services arrive
07:01 : Protecting their son from the scene
08:37 : The hospital dash
09:20 : Doctors’ reactions to Rob’s age
09:50 : Waking up with no memory
10:34 : Idiopathic cardiac arrest explained
11:20 : Listening back to the 999 call
12:33 : 18 months on
12:46 : The second cardiac event
14:37 : The ICD shock in the night
16:54 : Hospital stay and mental recovery
19:02 : The reality of survival rates
19:46 : Finding purpose after trauma
21:28 : Heart attack vs cardiac arrest
23:04 : You don’t need a catalyst to change your life
24:27 : Why CPR should be taught early
25:52 : What CPR really does
26:24 : Life after two cardiac arrests
27:09 : A new version of normal
28:34 : Rob’s transformation and new purpose
29:34 : Rob 2.0: A completely different person
30:01 : Becoming vocal after a life‑changing event
31:09 : Ruby on strength, resilience, and the gym
31:45 : What we can control in life
33:18 : Why you can’t go “back” after trauma
34:31 : Don’t wait for a life‑changing event to change direction
35:11 : “Just do it — don’t wait to be pushed”
35:21 : Their mission: CPR for everyone
35:31 : Doing something is better than doing nothing
36:30 : Free CPR resources and where to find them
38:13 : Final reflections on a life‑changing journey
39:02 : Love the one life you’ve got
39:25 : Closing message & where to follow The Idiopath

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How do you stop postponing happiness and start living with intention today?

In this episode of LOVE ONE LIFE, we break down five practical ways to live a more fulfilling, intentional life, without waiting for “one day”, more money, or perfect circumstances.

This conversation is about clarity, discipline, action, and learning how to enjoy the journey while you’re building the life you want.

We share honestly from our own experiences - what’s worked, what hasn’t, where we’ve struggled, and how small daily choices compound into a life that feels purposeful and rewarding.

In this episode, we explore:

Why fulfilment is a daily practice - not a destination
How to decide what you actually want (not what’s expected of you)
Why writing things down changes everything
How taking action creates motivation (not the other way around)
Why doing three things a day is more powerful than big plans
The role of discomfort in growth
How distractions quietly steal your time and energy
Why discipline beats motivation every time
How mindfulness and accountability keep you on track
Why celebrating small wins matters more than you think
How to enjoy life now - not just when you hit the goal

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Chapters / Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction to Living Intentionally
01:45 Why Fulfilment Is a Daily Practice
03:57 The Importance of Knowing What You Want
06:32 Writing It Down & Revisiting It Daily
09:18 Imagining Life Without Constraints
12:45 Taking Action Towards Your Goals
14:10 Doing Three Things Every Day
16:08 Why One Action Must Feel Uncomfortable
18:02 Habit Stacking Explained
20:39 The Journey of Writing & Sharing Wisdom
21:07 Confronting Distractions: The Discipline Factor
24:22 Social Media, Consumption & Time Loss
27:39 Staying on Track: Mindfulness & Accountability
30:18 Self-Belief, Doubt & Inner Dialogue
33:04 Getting Out of Your Own Way
35:41 Celebrating Small Wins
38:05 Enjoying the Journey
40:12 Reward Systems That Actually Work
42:13 Love One Life Outro

In this episode of LOVE ONE LIFE, we dive into one of the biggest questions any of us can ask:

What is my purpose — and is my life actually aligned with it?

We talk honestly about finding your “why”, why so many people feel unfulfilled even when they’re busy, and how living without clarity quietly pulls you further away from the life you actually want.

From business and creativity, to family, lifestyle, money, and personal fulfilment, we explore how purpose evolves, why it doesn’t have to be one fixed thing forever, and how small, intentional changes can start bringing your daily life back into alignment.

In this episode, we explore:

Why so many people can’t clearly answer what their “why” is
The difference between surviving and living with intention
Why “making money” is rarely a real purpose
How purpose changes through different seasons of life
The link between purpose and feeling fulfilled
Why clarity always comes before action
How to start defining your own why and what
The danger of misalignment between goals and daily habits
How consumption steals time from purpose
Why writing things down changes everything
How to begin aligning family, business, and lifestyle choices
Why your core purpose is to actually enjoy your life

If you’ve ever felt busy but unfulfilled, successful but disconnected, or clear on what you’re doing but not why — this episode will give you space, perspective, and practical ways to start realigning your life.

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00:00 Finding Your Purpose
01:11 Why “Purpose” Feels So Big
02:43 Understanding Your Why
04:02 Why Most People Can’t Explain Their Why
05:23 Aligning Actions With Purpose
06:41 Money vs Meaning
07:33 The Importance of Clarity
08:54 Why People Feel Unfulfilled
09:28 Evolving Your Purpose
10:57 When Your Purpose Changes
11:59 Business Insights on Purpose
13:12 Learning to Start With Why
14:26 Creating a Plan for Your Life
15:42 Turning Purpose Into Action
16:51 Overcoming Barriers to Action
18:03 Time, Distraction & Consumption
19:23 Family and Lifestyle Choices
20:54 Choosing Lifestyle Over Default Living
22:22 Living Your Best Life
23:40 Love One Life Outro

In this episode of the LOVE ONE LIFE Podcast, we open up about what it really means to manifest dream love by design, not by accident.

We share how both of us experienced relationships built on chance, compromise, and settling, and how everything changed when we stopped leaving love to luck and started living (and loving) with intention.

This conversation is inspired by Fred's song Dream Love and book Dream Love, born from real life, lived experience, not theory.

Together, we explore:

Why so many people don’t believe real love exists until they experience it
How we accept relationships that aren’t right for us, and why
Why knowing what we don’t want isn’t enough
The danger of settling and believing “movie love” is unrealistic
How writing down what we do want changes everything
Manifestation through intention, not fantasy
Why self-worth is foundational to love
What it really means to choose yourself
Why alignment matters more than chance chemistry
How online dating can still be deeply authentic
Why becoming the person you want to meet matters
How living with intention shapes every relationship

If you’ve ever questioned whether real love is possible, felt stuck in relationships that didn’t feel right, or wondered if you were asking for “too much”, this episode is for you.

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🎵 Dream Love – The Song
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📘 Dream Love – The Book:
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00:00 Manifesting Real-Life Dream Love
01:12 Not Believing Love Is Real
02:58 Accident vs Intention in Relationships
04:31 Lessons from Past Relationships
06:22 Accepting What Isn’t Right
09:48 Why Knowing What We Want Matters
12:06 Designing Love With Intention
14:02 Writing Down Your Ideal Partner
17:41 The Journey of Love
19:22 Meeting Online & Authentic Connection
22:11 Alignment Before Chemistry
25:39 Choosing Yourself in Love
27:06 Self-Worth, Boundaries & Deserving More
28:40 Releasing Dream Love
31:12 Living With Intention
33:08 Becoming the Person You Want to Meet
35:14 Love One Life Outro

🎶 About the Music
Dream Love is written and performed by The Fred Warner and is available on all major streaming platforms.

WHAT IF THE SECRET TO SUCCESS, FULFILMENT, AND HAPPINESS ISN’T GETTING, BUT GIVING?

In this episode of the LOVE ONE LIFE Podcast, Fred and Drea are joined by Bob Burg, co-author of the international bestseller The Go-Giver, a book that has sold over 1.5 million copies worldwide and transformed how people think about business, relationships, and life itself.

Bob shares the powerful philosophy behind The Go-Giver - shifting your focus from getting to consistently providing immense value to others - and explains why this approach isn’t mystical or self-sacrificial, but deeply practical, logical, and proven.

If you’ve ever worried that being kind or generous, means you’ll be taken advantage of - this conversation will reframe how you see success.

CHAPTERS / TIME STAMPS

00:00 Introduction & Welcome

00:02 Meet Bob Burg & The Go-Giver Story

02:16 The Origins of The Go-Giver

05:04 Misunderstanding Giving

05:51 Shifting Focus from Getting to Giving

07:40 Giving Without Attachment to Results

08:47 Why People Really Buy

10:50 You Control Actions, Not Outcomes

11:58 When the Penny Dropped for Bob

14:21 The Five Go-Giver Laws Explained

15:37 Applying Go-Giver Principles to Marriage & Life

19:42 Giving Without Being Self-Sacrificial

20:18 Will You Be Taken Advantage Of?

22:32 Boundaries, Coaching & Self-Awareness

24:26 Why These Principles Always Work

25:21 Popularity, Caring & Human Nature

25:37 Real-Life Transformations

28:16 Where to Find Bob & His Books

29:12 Closing Thoughts

What does it really mean to find peace in a world full of chaos, conflict, and constant noise?

In this episode of the LOVE ONE LIFE Podcast, with Drea & Fred Warner, dive into one of the most transformative topics they’ve ever explored: how to build real peace - internally and externally - no matter what life throws at you.

From personal stories of drama addiction, road rage moments, family chaos, ego battles and resetting boundaries, they explore the powerful mindset shift that turns constant conflict into calm.

Together, they unpack:

• Why drama is so addictive (and how to break the cycle)
• The daily (and moment-by-moment) choice to choose peace
• How to detach from other people’s chaos
• Why ignoring someone can take more strength than responding
• The difference between helping and being pulled into drama
• How ego fuels conflict
• Why you can’t choose “a little drama”
• The surprising cultural factors that affect peace
• How to stop trying to control the uncontrollable
• Practical real-life examples you can use today

If you’re overwhelmed, drained, or tired of getting sucked into other people’s chaos, this episode is your reminder that peace is a choice - and a skill - you can build every day.

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⭐ Chapters / Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction to Finding Peace
00:00:19 The Addictive Nature of Drama
00:01:17 Top Tips for Peace
00:01:37 Personal Journey to Peace
00:03:18 Situation Analysis and Examples
00:05:22 Drama in Daily Life
00:09:29 Choosing Peace Over Drama
00:12:30 Cultural Perspectives on Peace
00:24:36 Conclusion 

What does it really take to live a life you love?

In this episode of LOVE ONE LIFE, Fred and Drea sit down with Amanda Maloney, author of Mom Mindset Mastery, to explore practical ways to find joy, balance, and confidence - even in the chaos of parenting and everyday life.

Amanda shares her journey from corporate stress to mindset coaching, and reveals simple, powerful habits that can transform your day in just 15 minutes. We cover:

• Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish
• How to create joy without overhauling your life
• The 5-minute rituals that change everything
• Overcoming resistance and fear of judgment
• Why presence matters more than perfection

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’ve lost yourself in the process of caring for everyone else - this episode is for you.

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Chapters / Time Stamps
00:00 Welcome to Love One Life
00:04 Meet Your Hosts: Fred & Drea
00:10 Special Guest: Amanda Maloney
00:14 Amanda’s Morning Ritual: Start Your Day Right
00:48 Why Putting Yourself First Isn’t Selfish
01:13 Amanda’s Book: Mom Mindset Mastery
02:20 Amanda’s Journey: From Corporate to Coaching
04:26 The Struggles of Motherhood & Financial Stress
06:41 Family Reactions to Amanda’s Transformation
08:33 How COVID Sparked Change
10:18 You Don’t Need a Total Life Overhaul
13:59 The “Over-Mummying” Trap
14:48 Amanda’s 15-Minute Formula for Joy
16:30 Night-Time Ritual & Gratitude Practice
18:13 Why Consistency Beats Intensity
20:22 Habit Stacking for Busy Parents
21:04 Super Conscious Swagger Explained
22:12 Adding Joy to Your Life
23:54 The Airplane Mask Analogy
25:37 Overcoming Resistance
28:12 Action is Everything
29:18 Fear of Judgment & Social Media Pressure
30:26 How Amanda Lives a Life She Loves
31:13 Why Joy is Personal
32:13 The Power of Community
33:05 Amanda’s Advice: Presence Over Perfection
33:51 Closing Thoughts

How do you make better decisions without overthinking, procrastinating, or burning out?

In this episode of LOVE ONE LIFE, Fred and Drea dive deep into decision-making, decision fatigue, procrastination, and indecision, and how these quietly shape every part of our lives.

With an estimated 35,000 decisions made every single day, it’s no surprise that many of us feel overwhelmed, stuck, or paralysed. Fred and Drea break down why this happens, how it shows up in real life, and - most importantly - what you can do to make clearer, faster, and more confident decisions.

Through honest conversation, real-life examples, and practical tools, we explore:

Why decision fatigue is real (and how it sabotages good choices)

The difference between procrastination and indecision

Why too many options make decisions harder

How fear of wasted effort keeps us stuck

The impact of hunger, emotions, and exhaustion on decision making

Why pre-decision and preparation are game changers How simplifying choices reduces mental load

The power of trusting your gut

How visualisation helps you decide faster

Why making no decision is still a decision

How to stop letting other people decide for you

Simple, practical top tips you can use immediately

If you feel overwhelmed by choices, struggle to follow through, or constantly second-guess yourself, this episode will give you clarity, reassurance, and tools to move forward with confidence.

Chapters / Time Stamps

00:00 Welcome to Love One Life

00:26 How Many Decisions We Make Every Day

00:56 What This Episode Covers

01:39 Personal Decision-Making Styles

03:54 What Is Decision Fatigue?

05:01 The Judge Study & Decision Fatigue Explained

06:15 Real-Life Decision Fatigue at Work 07:23 Reducing the Number of Decisions You Make

08:46 Too Much Choice & Why It Backfires

09:21 Procrastination vs Indecision

10:27 The “Buckle Up Session” Explained

12:03 Gut Feelings & Changing Decisions

13:02 Stick to Plan A

14:36 Simplicity in Decision Making

15:07 Fear of Wasted Effort

16:01 Making Faster Decisions

17:00 Using the Five-Second Rule

18:19 Letting Other People Decide for You

19:11 Pre-Decision & Preparation

21:03 Decision Making & Self-Care

22:47 Visualisation as a Decision Tool

24:11 Leadership & Decision Making

25:32 Using Data to Make Clear Choices

26:35 Top Tips for Better Decisions

29:28 Visualisation Revisited

29:54 When Not to Make Decisions

31:13 Final Thoughts

LOVE ONE LIFE is brought to you by The Fred Warner. 'The Fred Warner' is the creative name for Fred Warner, a piano artist, podcaster, author, chartered engineer, F1 vlogger and entrepreneur, not to be confused with 'Fred Warner' the American footballer (whose real name isn't Fred). video by ⁨@Thefredwarner⁩ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefredwarner.fw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefredwarner/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thefredwarner.fw Website: https://thefredwarner.com Aka Fred RJ Warner, Frederick Warner, fredSTACKS, STACKS fS, Fred Warner Pian

'LOVE ONE LIFE: The Power Of Mindset', an incredible episode with Drea, Fred and Leigh Campbell-Wan. From thinking yourself ill to believing yourself well, in this episode Drea interviews Leigh Campbell-Wan, a science-backed wellness expert who uses scientific research to help people with the power of their mindset.

Oh, and we laugh about 50:50 vision (no it doesn't exist) and more in our post-amble discussion.

Enjoy another LOVE ONE LIFE episode, where we focus on how to enjoy the life you have, give yourself permission to be the best version of you, and giving guiding tips on how to have a fulfilling and happy life!

LOVE ONE LIFE podcast is by Fred & Drea Warner, find out more searching for 'The Fred Warner', 'LOVE ONE LIFE' or visit https://thefredwarner.com

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Famous or Great? To live a life of intention, one that you feel fulfilled and happy with, requires taking difficult steps into your own personal greatness. In this episode, Fred and Drea Warner talk through being 'Famous or Great', the name of the song and book released under 'The Fred Warner', giving you inspiration on living your best life today, not one day in the future.

Find out more at https://thefredwarner.com