This one’s for the girls in relationships, situationships, or even friendships that have left you questioning yourself. In this episode, we unpack why it’s not you, it’s them—and why giving your body, mind, time, and energy to someone before they’ve truly committed might be putting the cart before the horse. We’ll talk about how intentional dating means protecting your peace, and why it's time to stop replaying those old texts and wondering what you did wrong. Spoiler: you didn’t.

He stood her up twice — and now they’ve been married 33 years.

In this special Anniversary Episode, my parents join me for an unfiltered deep dive into how dating has changed, what rejection used to look like, and why maybe ghosting isn’t that different from just… not showing up.

We talk about old-school romance vs. modern chaos, second chances, and play Date or Ghost + Guess the Dating Term to see if my parents can survive the world of 2025 dating. Spoiler: they had no idea what “DTR” meant.

Three sisters, martini talk, and a game of Date or Ghost—what could go wrong? Chaos, comedy, and brutally honest takes.

In this episode, I sit down with two of my sisters, Angelica and Julia, to tackle two big dating questions:

Of course, I couldn’t resist sharing my own cringe confession—like that time I told my crush (two martinis deep) that I was offering them the “golden ticket” and it was “take it or leave it.” Spoiler: they left it.

Come for the laughs, stay for the sisterly banter, and leave with a fresh perspective on rejection, resilience, and knowing when to ghost vs. give grace.

I sit down with singer/songwriter Lily Kincade to talk all things Cinematic—her brand new album dropping October 24. We get into the stories behind the songs, how her first love became a muse, and what it really means to keep chasing your dreams when the path isn’t always perfect. We also dive into falling in love in LA, the inspiration that fuels her artistry, and so much more. And of course, it wouldn’t be Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered without a round of our favorite game, Date or Ghost.

LA dating, but make it honest (and hilarious). I sit down with my friend Ben Jacob to talk gay dating in LA, sober first dates, age gaps, the hardest parts of finding real love here, and Ben’s craziest dating stories. Plus, we play our favorite game: Date or Ghost.

Would he make the cut? On this episode of Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered, I’m joined by my casting-producer bestie, Cheech, to turn reality-TV casting criteria into a foolproof way to vet your love life IRL. We kick off with our game Cast or Cut (our spin on Date or Ghost) and rapid-fire the red flags: mid-divorce but still wearing the ring, only FaceTiming from the car, “it’s chill—I live with my ex,” endless texting with zero dates, and more. Then Cheech pulls back the curtain on how she casts men for dating shows—and how those same filters (accountability after past relationships, family dynamics, ideal first-date tells, subtle red flags, and whether he’s a pursuer, slow-burner, or collector) map perfectly to your next situationship. We also get personal—Cheech shares the wild story of discovering a partner’s infidelity mid-interview—and she leaves singles with grounded advice for getting back on set (aka back on the apps) after a heartbreak. Hit play for laughs, tea, and a casting-call level standards reset.

Is it a red flag…or your nervous system asking you to regulate? Sabrina Zohar joins Alexandria for a candid, zero-shame conversation about attachment, intuition, and the difference between chaos and chemistry. We kick off with a game of “Date or Ghost”, then get personal about the moments that shaped Sabrina’s work and worldview.

We move into Attachment Styles 101—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—what people misunderstand about “secure,” and how regulation (not perfection) shifts your patterns. In the main segment, we map out red flag vs. trigger, quick self-checks before you spiral, and how to tell intuition from a trauma response. Consider this your dating audit: practical tools, zero shame, receipts included.

Dating in LA is a stage — and Cameron Carr and I are here to judge the auditions. We break down the city’s performative dating culture (image, access, “brand-safe” chemistry) and answer the only question that matters: do you make him a Lover, or Exile him? From soft-launch purgatory and “audition energy” to consistency vs. potential, we spell out clear walk-away cues and green-flag keeps. Swiftie Court is in session, the gavel is tiny, and the verdicts are practical: how to stop chasing applause and start choosing partners who show up off-camera. Rate/review if this helped you exit stage left at the right time.

Little Miss Fix It reports for duty. This week I unpack why the black cat boyfriend is suddenly everyone’s type, why your love life is not a home renovation project, and what my DJ saga taught me about fixing men who don’t want to be fixed. We talk attachment patterns, red flags disguised as “potential,” and how to step out of the contractor role and back into main character energy.

He’s hot. The chemistry is crazy. But he’s consistent at being inconsistent. In Episode 8, we’re getting brutally honest about moving on—whether it’s from a long-term ex, a messy situationship, or That Guy you never quite dated.