Send us Fan Mail

Letters to the Love Coach – Episode 7 

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, "When did I lose myself?" 

This week, we're talking about what happens when life starts to feel routine, when relationships lose their excitement, and when you're struggling to find joy in your own journey. I'll answer heartfelt listener letters about feeling bored in a long-term relationship, feeling stuck without access to therapy, and I'll also take a moment to thank this incredible community for the love and encouragement you've shown me. 

Plus, I'm excited to announce the launch of my two brand-new conversation card games, Sip or Spill and Slow Burn, available this Friday! 

If you've been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like life isn't moving as fast as everyone else's, this episode is your reminder that you are not behind, you are becoming. 

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. 

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Love Lessons with Martis – Episode [Insert Episode Number] 

Child support is important, but parenting is so much more than a monthly payment. 

In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about the difference between financial responsibility and emotional responsibility. We'll talk about why children need more than money, why showing up matters, the importance of healthy co-parenting, and why children should never become caught in the middle of adult conflicts. 

Whether you're paying child support, receiving it, co-parenting, or simply someone who cares about raising emotionally healthy children, this episode offers a balanced conversation centered on one thing: 

What's best for the child. 

Because at the end of the day... 

A court can order child support. It can't order love, presence, patience, or relationship. 

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. 

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Letters to the Love Coach Ep 6

Some conversations are uncomfortable... but avoiding them can cost you even more.

This week, I'm answering two heartfelt listener letters about changing dreams in marriage and developing feelings for a best friend. Together, we'll talk about communication, courage, honesty, and why clarity is one of the greatest acts of love.

If you've ever been afraid to ask the hard question because you feared the answer, this episode will remind you that healthy relationships are built on honest conversations, not assumptions.

 💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Love Lessons with Martis:  

Dating apps have changed the way we meet people, but some of these dating profiles? Whew... we need to have a conversation! 

In this fun episode of Love Lessons with Martis, we're reading some of the funniest, most overused, and most confusing dating app bios and talking about what they really communicate.

From "Just Ask" to "No Drama" and "If You Can't Handle Me at My Worst...", we're laughing, learning, and helping you create a profile that actually starts meaningful conversations.

And don't worry... if one of these sounds like YOUR profile, I'm laughing with you, not at you! 💜

Because confidence is attractive, authenticity is powerful, and your dating profile should introduce the real you, not scare people away.

So grab your favorite drink, laugh with me, and let's improve those dating profiles together!

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Letters to the Love Coach: Feeling like you're carrying more than your share in a relationship, friendship, or even within your own family? This week, we're talking about reciprocity, communication, financial partnerships, one-sided friendships, and learning when it's time to speak up. Plus, I'm sharing exciting news about going LIVE soon! If you've ever felt overlooked, underappreciated, or emotionally exhausted from always being the one who gives, this episode is for you.

Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

This week on Love Lessons with Martis, we're having one of the realest conversations yet.

After hearing a husband share his frustrations about intimacy changing after marriage, I started thinking about something many couples experience but few are willing to talk about.

Does marriage change people or does it simply reveal what was already there?

We're discussing romance, emotional connection, intimacy, monogamy, communication, unmet expectations, and why so many couples stop dating each other after saying "I do."

This isn't about taking sides.

It's about understanding that healthy marriages require intentional effort from both partners.

Because the wedding lasts one day...

The marriage requires a lifetime of choosing each other.

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

In this week's episode of Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about honesty, commitment, dating, and the importance of clarity in relationships.

What happens when one person wants marriage and the other doesn't? How do you know when you're truly ready to start dating again? And why do so many people avoid the difficult conversations that could save everyone time and heartache?

I'll also be answering questions about my coaching certifications, my journey as a Love & Relationship Coach, Life Coach, ordained minister, and wedding officiant.

Sometimes the biggest relationship problems aren't caused by a lack of love—they're caused by a lack of truth.

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Everybody asks what someone else brings to the table, but what about you?

In this episode of Love Lessons with Martis, we're talking about self-awareness, dating standards, emotional availability, communication, healing, and why becoming the partner you're looking for may be the key to finding healthier love.

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

Today we're taking a moment to honor Juneteenth, reflect on the meaning of freedom, and talk about how freedom isn't just historical, it's personal. Freedom from unhealthy relationships, unhealthy habits, self-doubt, and the things that keep us from becoming who we're meant to be.

Plus, don't forget! Love Lessons with Martis The Love Coach airs this afternoon, where we'll be building our Dating Resumes and talking about what we really bring to the table in relationships.

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

In this week's episode of Letters to the Love Coach, we're talking about complicated situations and the choices we make when emotions get involved. 

What happens when you develop feelings for someone who is already married? Why does the "other woman" often get blamed while the person who made the commitment escapes accountability? And how can you tell when someone is truly unhappy versus simply telling you what you want to hear? 

We're also diving into the world of parenting teenagers—navigating independence, dating, boundaries, communication, and how to guide your children without losing your connection with them. 

Plus, I'll be sharing my thoughts, personal experiences as a parent, and practical advice for both letters. 

💜 Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Love. 

Support the show