Love That Lasts

In this episode of the Love That Last podcast, Peter and Theresa delve into the profound and often misunderstood concept of freedom, drawing insights from the teachings of St. John Paul II. Together, they unravel the layers of what it means to be truly free and how this understanding can transform our lives and our marriage!

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Today, we celebrate the eve of St. John Paul II's feast day! Reflecting on his life and the indelible mark he left on many of us, as Peter shares, "He was the Pope of our lives."

Pope St. John Paul II's life was marked by personal suffering, yet he embraced a life of love.

We reflect on the emergence of the JP2 Generation, a groupinspired by his teachings and writings. As Peter notes, "There’s a whole generation of priests who would say, ‘I’m here because of him.’" This movement is revitalizing interest in his teachings, particularly regarding marriage and family life.

In a world where sexual intimacy is often misrepresented, St. John Paul II's teachings remind us of its sacredness. He guided us toward understanding sexual desire within the divine plan, avoiding the pitfalls of objectification that are prevalent in today’s culture.

Finally, we reflect on how St. John Paul II's legacy continues as we announce an exciting endeavor to bring his Rule to Ireland and back to Krakow!

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A Hindu, a Catholic, and Jesus walk into a marriage ...

Embracing Jesus Christ in your marriage creates unbelievable transforations!

In this episode of the Love That Lasts podcast, Peter and Theresa Martin sit down with Satveer and Dee Chaudhary, who share their inspiring story of faith and friendship and learning about St. John Paul II's Rule - that has all significantly impacted their marriage, which is a journey of continual conversion.

Dee shares about authentic Catholic friendship: "It's not just about socializing; it opens up avenues for learning and growth."

A pivotal moment in their journey was when Satveer joined the Exodus 90 men's group, which he reflects, "It was the moment when God met me where I was. I knew I needed something to add back to my life." This turning point not only strengthened his faith and brought him into the Catholic Church, but also enriched his marriage, leading to deeper connections with Dee and a more profound spiritual journey together.

Hear this fascinating story and how they ended up at a Cana Dinner - not even at their own parish, on a snowy, winter night - to hear Peter & Theresa share St. John Paul II's unique vision for marriage with the Rule ... and what happened next ...

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Tune in this week to exploring the depth and challenges of marital love through Blessed Fulton Sheen's wisdom - in his own words!

Navigating the journey of marriage is seldom a straightforward path, and this week on the Love That Lasts podcast, Peter and Theresa Martin delve into the profound insights offered by Blessed Fulton Sheen. Drawing from his work, particularly Three to Get Married, they explore how marriage reflects the divine and the challenges couples face in their pursuit of love and happiness.

"In every marriage, man promises a woman something that only God can give," quotes Peter, summarizing a core idea from Sheen's teaching.

As Theresa said, "Everything about a marriage is meant to reflect the beautiful image of God."

Join Peter and Theresa as they continue to explore the wisdom of Fulton Sheen and how it can enrich your understanding of love and marriage.

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What is the pastor's perspective on living a holy marriage?

Do we need to love both vocations?

How do we activate that deep level of conjugal spirituality?

Fr. Juan weighs in! Listen now to a fascinating & inspiring conversation!

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Yes, the Church has the truth on sexuality, Christ knew about the human person, and we will unabashedly proclaim and live out the truth and because of that, we also know the deep joy that proceeds from it!

And so can you!

Listen to the full episode - Episode 20: A No Nonsense Sex Talk from a Faithful Catholic Couple!

Oh no they didn’t just go there??? Oh yes they did!

The most intimate and important part of a couple’s marriage can also be the most difficult to communicate about in an honest and vulnerable way.

In this episode, join Peter & Theresa as they keep it real while discussing intimacy in a balanced and beautiful way, not over-spiritualizing it nor denigrating it, the Martins share interesting and powerful insights.  

More than anything, through their honesty, you realize you are not alone! Laugh and learn the truth about our sexuality.

There is something wrong with the way the world is speaking about sex.

Where do we find the truth?

Where do we find true love?

How can our sexual intimacy improve?

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We do speak about Joy a great deal! Because joy is theChristian’s peace!

But what about suffering?

Are Joy and Suffering mutually exclusive?

Do we only speak about joy because we’ve never experiencedsuffering? Not hardly! (Theresa needed tissues through this episode!)

Where does real joy come from? (spoiler: it is not an absenceof pain, but something greater than that…)

Find out how Peter & Theresa respond to a listener's question in this powerful episode ...

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Peter & Theresa begin answering the questions coming in from you, our listeners!

Today's question is about dialogue communication. How do you simply listen and love when you feel such a need to argue and debate?

In order to answer it, the Martins explain all about dialoguing and keeping first things first!

What happens when your spouse feels that no matter what they feel, they are worthy of love?

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How to Dialogue:

The ‘Dialogue’ method of communication has been taught for decades, and it is incredibly helpful! We each have a deep longing to be fully known and fully loved.

This method allows you to share with your spouse and truly hear them, not to discuss or argue, but to accept them and love them in their “real” of that moment.

Every person communicates on several levels, and each level brings more vulnerability and more intimacy: 1) “small talk,” 2) “facts.” 3) “opinions” ... The fourth and fifth levels are “feelings” and “needs."

It is not a time to sort out schedules or even plans for the future. It is an opportunity to hear the feelings and emotions of your beloved and respect them with great love. When your innermost feelings are respected and understood, you feel loved; you feel worthy. Not only that, but it fortifies the unity between you and gives more foundation for your conjugal spiritualty to grow.

It takes about 20-30 minutes altogether, but can be broken up. There are a couple parts to the Dialogue and then, when complete, you can segue to a discussion, if you want.

A)Begin by asking a question. For example, let’s use: “What was one of my favorite dates with you? How do I feel about my answer?” And you write this at the top of the page.

B) Write a letter to your beloved.

Writing a letter gives you time to explain how you answer that question.

C) Define the feeling.

After writing the letter, take time to understand your own feelings. You can write this directly under your letter.

1. I feel _________ about __________.

On the next couple pages are lists of feeling words that can give us more of a vocabulary to articulate exactly how we feel.

2. Physical Sensation: If my feeling were a physical sensation it would be like _________. Briefly explain the sensation. For example, “nervous” might feel like butterflies in your stomach. Using our example:

3. Intensity 1 – 10. On a scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest, my feeling is a ____.

4. Color. My feeling is the color of___________. Although this can be trickier if you are not a visual person, just give it go—you may surprise yourself!

5. Using one of the five senses. My feeling is like ___________.

6. Shared Memory: My______ feeling is like when we_______ .

D) Exchanging/ reading the letters.

Exchange your letters and then read your spouse’s letter twice. Yes, that’s right: twice.

You read it once with your head and then, once with your heart.

E) Sharing the letters.

Then take turns going over what each person wrote, one at a time. You share with your spouse what you understood from what your spouse has written.

The point of this is to demonstrate that you have fully understood what your beloved wrote (not to argue or discuss!). To assure that you have understood, you will end your turn of the sharing by asking: “have I fully understood how you feel?” Once the first person feels they have been understood, you move to the other’s letter.

You may find yourself saying, “well, yes and no. When I said this, I really meant …” And your spouse listens and shares to clarify. And then will ask again, “do you think I have fully understood how you feel?” Keep going until you both have a “yes.”

F) Post-dialogue.

When you have both felt understood, the dialogue is over.