This week “ Seven Life Lessons from Sookie Stackhouse” plus our weekly creative tracking
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The highlights of the podcast are as follows (well they are highlights in my mind ;-)!)
I have just finished reading ‘Dead Ever After’ by Charlaine Harris, the last of the Sookie Stackhouse novels, on which the amazing HBO True Blood series is based. (their amazing website is here)
I loved the novel ending where she knew that ..they (no plot spoilers!!) .. would be together maybe for always but even if he left she would be alright, she would survive.
Lesson One – Acknowledge you have survived
Sookie knows that she has gone through crazy, death, blood, loss and she has survived… and she will come what may
In our reality people go through terrible things and somehow survive; pain, loss of love & death hurts but you will survive.Recognise that you won through (or crawled through) and you are still here.
Acknowledge the battles you have survived.
Also she (and probably you) have loved and lost men, some you will love forever but you need to let go. You will survive on your own, you have to
Lesson Two – Live In the Moment
Sookie lives in the moment – there are so many moments where she lies in the sun, the heat, the flowers.. even despite the crazy around her. She has a place to go and relax, in this moment I am OK. I have started walking/jogging daily again as it makes me happy. Find what always cheers you and reminds you of the good things in life and go do that as often as you can
Lesson Three – Family and friends, some you love, others just let them go.
Sookie’s family and friends are important, she has learnt to accept their differences, know she cannot change them. Some people you will love always, some people you need to let go off if they are not positive in your life.
Lesson Four – Keep your Heart Open
Despite her crazy relationships Sookie Stackhouse keeps her heart open for new love. Maybe it is easier for a fictional character!
Lesson Five – Some lovers are very selfish
Some lovers are very selfish, not necessarily in bed.. when their ego or life is more important than you all the time it is time to leave.
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Lesson Six- Acknowledge where what you want and what HE wants in a relationship differs
You need to acknowledge what you want in life and relationships and check that that matches the men you date. If u want kids why date a vampire? If you like the sun why date a night owl?
Its fine when you are not ready to settle down but dating a man clearly not ready to settle down when you want a relationship s a disaster in the long term. Its fine to have casual flings but be clear if thats is what it is and whether you actually want more. Look at your relationships and see the patterns. Make peace with your choices and stop nagging or move on
Lesson Seven – Insist on having really great sex
Have really great sex. If you aren’t then go and get it, or get some help with your current lover.
Most Importantly
The most admired capacity in human is not beauty or intelligence or even the capacity to love… but the ability to get up after being beaten down and then fight forward in their own way, living the life they chose. Think of Helen Keller, The Shawshank Redemption, Rocky, Nelson Mandela.
Think also of Marlon Brando in The Waterfront ‘ i could have been a contender,” – Don’t get to the end of your life and say this.
13 minute task of the day
Replace the lyrics to’ I will Survive’ with a situation or name of someone you survived. Dance and sing around the kitchen
(I have done a Sookie Stackhouse version of this at 15 mins 44 seconds)
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