Perhaps it comes down to this

If we ensure that our emotional needs are met, we will be most likely to meet them in others

If we don’t have a high need for a certain emotional need we will be less likely (but not unable) to meet it in others.

If we have a high need, and it’s not being met, it will be most challenging to even try to meet it in others.

Why isn’t loving others/ourselves happening more often?

Review why, in general, why we do or don’t meet others needs.

If we ensure that our emotional needs are met, we will be most likely to meet them in others

If we don’t have a high need for a certain emotional need we will be less likely (but not unable) to meet it in others.

If we have a high need, and it’s not being met, it will be most challenging to even try to meet it in others.

Why do we not see an emotional need in others when we do not share that same need (6aii)?

If people are not meeting the needs of others, how often is this the reason?

Review being open, honest, and vulnerable.

Review mutual giving

Review Christ at the center

Give examples

How often is the reason for people not meeting others needs (loving them) due to THEIR needs not being met (6aiii)?

Brian will probably expand on this a lot

Division, being alone, fear, anxiety, etc.