We all want what we want.  But getting it can be hard--sometimes even destroying the very thing we hope for.  Alvean and Doug talk about how to get what you want while meeting the needs of those you care for.  It isn't as hard as you think.  For  full transcript of this episode click here:LL47-Getting What You Want

Alvean and Doug talk about the green monster, jealousy.  Nothing can unravel a relationship faster than the fear, suspicion and negative behavior that accompanies this sad emotion, and yet some of us find ourselves powerless when overtaken by its dark shadow.  How can you avoid turning towards the dark side?  For answers to this and other questions  listen to this episode and find a transcript here: LL22-Jealousy

Sometimes when a relationship ends it's not really over.  Our former lovers can become our present haters and they may become vindictive to punish us for the rejection they feel.  Doug and Alvean take on the challenge with some explanation for what is really going on and how you can cope.  For a full transcript of the episode, click here: LL20-Vindictive Ex's

It's rare when both partners in a relationship earn the same amount.  Imbalances can lead to friction or difficulties in building equality in a relationship.  Doug & Alvean talk about strategies to avoid strife and find common ground.  Fir a complete transcript of this episode, click here: LL08

The passion does not need to wane in your relationship. Alvean and Doug talk about ways you can re-ignite romance and live a satisfying life with your partner.  For a full transcript of this episode click here: LL33-How to Bring Passion Back?

Some say that as we grow older love changes and matures into a different kind of relationship.  Others suggest it may be the best time of your life.  Doug & Alvean talk about these issues from their standpoint at age 72 and 41 respectively. For a full transcript of the episode click here: LL40-Growing Older

How can you keep your relationship vibrant after that first blush of love is over?  Some say Love is work, while others advise just let your heart guide you.  Alvean & Doug discuss the ways they have found that couples can navigate the sometimes thorny periods in their lives together and make every day a good day.  For a complete transcript of this episode, click here:LL39-After the Love

There is an art to finding agreement in a relationship of whatever kind.  How can you persuade someone without resorting to argument or manipulation?  In this week's episode Alvean and Doug take a hard look at the nearly lost art of persuasion.  For a full transcript, click here;

When couples disagree there is often a tendency to stand one's ground or flee the argument.  Neither is a successful approach.  How can couples avoid this dilemma and learn to disagree without the need to fight or fly?  A complete transcript can be found here: LL42-Fight or Flight

Does love have the power to heal a broken heart, or perhaps an illness much greater?  Find out in this episode as Doug & Alvean talk about their experience with the healing powers of love.  For a full transcript of this episode, click here: LL28-Can Love Heal?