In this episode, Alvean and Doug explore the reasons why Men can seem unexpressive or detached from their inner feelings.  Is it societal programming, parental influence or something else entirely?  For a full transcript of the show click here: LL53-What men rarely say but often feel

You hear this question often, are there any good men or women left? Well there are, of course and Alvean and Doug unpack the question and offer some advice on how to avoid catch and release dating.  Want to find Mr. or Mrs. Right, then tune in to this episode.  For a complete transcript, click here:LL52-Are there any good men or women out there?

As the song says, Breaking Up is Hard to Do. It's also painful.  Are there ways to end a relationship without the pain, recrimination, guilt and anger that often accompanies endings?  Doug and Alvean talk about their own experiences and offer their counsel on how to avoid the worst.  For a full transcript of this episode, click here:LL51-Breaking Up

Alvean and Doug discuss parenthood.  It can be the most wonderful blessing or an unexpected burden and depending on how well you've planned for it, the stresses and strains of parenthood are not to be lightly dismissed.  Alvean and Doug offer some counsel on how you can avoid the pitfalls, keep your relationship alive and thriving as you enjoy becoming parents.  For a full transcript of the entire episode, click here:LL50-And Baby Makes Three

Doug and Alvean take on the subject of families that challenge relationships.  When families take sides and oppose or visit their dysfunctional behavior on a couple, how do you ensure they don't drive you apart?  For more, click on the link for a full transcript:LL49 -Toxic Families

Alvean and Doug talk about the subject of age differences in relationships. How do couples navigate when one is younger or older than the other.  Is there a limit to how far apart one can be and still have a strong and fulfilling relationship?  For a complete transcript of the entire episode, click here: LL48-Does Age Matter?

All relationships require some degree of give and take.  Getting what you want out of a relationship doesn't have to mean that your partner loses--there is a fine art to compromise.  Alvean and Doug talk about the ways you and your partner can meet each other's needs and desires without either of you sacrificing your identity or giving up what you want. For a complete transcript of the episode, click here:LL47-Getting What You Want

We all need support and it is tempting to reach out to close friends or family members for advice when we have troubles. Should you look to these people for help or do you run the risk of making your life very complicated and possibly alienating the very people you hope will be your source of support.  Doug & Alvean discuss the pros and cons in this episode of LoveLife.  For a full transcript of the episode, click here:LL-46 Friends and Family as Counselors

In this episode, Alvean and Doug talk about the obvious and subtle ways individuals in a relationship sometimes try to change each other to conform to an ideal or to alter habits that they consider undesirable. For a complete transcript of the episode, click here:LL45-I love you Just the Way You Are

Alvean and Doug talk about how we discover our true calling--the plan for our lives.  Is there really a plan for us, or are we just wandering about aimlessly?  For a complete transcript of the episode, click here LL44-Finding Purpose