Loving BDSM

We’re back from an extra long break and we’re easing in by answering your kinky questions! In this episode: We’re starting our summer live stream schedule the first week of June – 7pm ET...

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A submissive was introduced to BDSM by a former partner, but their relationship ended before any kinky exploration. Here’s the question: I met a Dom by accident on Tinder. He suggested I look into...

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To us, the best way to be consistent in your power exchange – as a Dom or sub individually and together – is with a routine. In this episode, we’ll talk about the factors...

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A switch who’s new to topping keeps apologizing when their partner expresses (consensual) pain. Here’s the question: I’ve recently discovered my Switch side and Impact Topped for the first time at a kink event...

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Whether you’re a parent (now or in the future) or you are a caregiver for an adult in your life (now or in the future), it’s going to impact your power exchange. This week,...

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This submissive knows they need to move slowly into D/s but nothing’s happening at all. Here’s the question: I’m 28 and am just figuring out that I want/need a Dominant partner. I’ve been kind...

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We’re continuing our real world series by talking about how to do power exchange things or experience your D/s vibe in ways that no one else is going to notice. In this episode: Join...

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A submissive had to ask their partner to stop doing something twice, and now they worry it’s a red flag. Here’s the question: I am in a 3-year Daddy Dom D/s relationship with my...

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We’re starting a new series inspired by our session from the 2025 Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit and diving deeper into how to make a power exchange relationship (and kink life) work in the real...

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They tried non-monogamy in the past and it didn’t work, but they’d like to try again. Here’s the question: My Daddy and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We are 24/7...

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