Loving Beyond The I DO

Join Jason and Tina Marie with their guest, Dr. Judson Brandeis, as they talk about men’s health and marriage. Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist, surgeon, medical researcher, and physician educator. He shares how men can optimize their health beyond muscles, diet, and sex. Stay tuned!

Here’s a breakdown of what to expect in this episode:

1.     A medically-accurate men’s health book

2.     How to make the most out of a doctor’s appointment

3.     Warning signs of underlying medical conditions

4.     Advice based on experience encapsulated in a book

5.     Everything is about blood circulation

6.     And so much more!

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About Dr. Judson Brandeis:

Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist, surgeon, medical researcher, and physician educator.    Over his 25-year career, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. His colleagues voted him as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020, and he was Chief of Urology at John Muir Hospital and Hill Physicians for the past eight years.

Dr. Brandeis attended Brown University, received his MD at Vanderbilt, received a Howard Hughes Award for his research at Harvard Medical School, and completed his six-year surgery/urology residency at UCLA.

Dr. Brandeis has dedicated the second half of his career to ‘Optimizing Manhood.’  Helping men Feel Great, Look Good and Have Better Physical Intimacy so they can Leave a Legacy. Brandeis MD engages in clinical research to improve men’s quality of life and provide their patients and men with the tools to live their best lives.

Dr. Brandeis attends the sexual medicine and urology meetings to bring back the latest treatments for his patients. As the director of sexual medicine at The Aesthetic Show and author of sexual medicine chapters for textbooks, he educates other physicians.

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You can find Dr. Judson Brandeis on . . .

Website: https://brandeismd.com/

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Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!

Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.com

Legendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.com

Instagram: @legendaryrelationship

Jason’s Instagram: @mrjayscott

Tina’s Instagram: @tinamarie_8

Facebook Page: @legendaryrelationship

Facebook Group: @marriageboss

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCriE1bLih4npMYVPd4mTxiA

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Join Jason and Tina Marie with their guest, Alicia Davon, as they talk about gender roles, touching, communication, and conflict. Alicia is a relationship coach with a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology focusing on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She shares how she and her husband, Erwan, teach singles and couples about sexuality and relationships. Stay tuned!

Here’s a breakdown of what to expect in this episode:

1.     From business partners to husband-and-wife team

2.     On gender roles: prioritize the relationship

3.     The line drawn between sensual and sexual

4.     Effective communication in resolving conflict

5.     For the ladies – communicate directly and simply

6.     And so much more!

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About Alicia Davon:

Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment, from career to relationship. She met Erwan 20 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

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You can find Alicia Davon on . . .

Website: https://erwandavon.com/

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Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!

Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.com

Legendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.com

Instagram: @legendaryrelationship

Jason’s Instagram: @mrjayscott

Tina’s Instagram: @tinamarie_8

Facebook Page: @legendaryrelationship

Facebook Group: @marriageboss

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCriE1bLih4npMYVPd4mTxiA

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A strong healthy marriage starts with a strong healthy you. The first strong foundation in a marriage is your individual foundation. You must be mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally strong to have that in your marriage!  
Take time working on you and becoming the very best version of yourself.  Mirror that in which you want in your mate. Two, individually, healthy, strong, loving, caring, and happy people help to make a healthy, strong, loving, caring, and happy marriage! 

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At some point or another, you're likely to experience trust issues in your relationship. Whether it's brought about by infidelity, a decrease in your own self esteem, your partner's newly hired young assistant, or a simple change in your partner's behavior, your relationship can weather this storm and rise above feelings of uncertainty. 

Follow these tips to solve the trust issues you face so you can experience the thriving relationship you deserve:

 1.      Work on your self-esteem. Many trust issues in relationships that were once thriving stem from personal insecurities. If you've experienced significant changes in your appearance or noticed a drop in your self-esteem, it's important to build up your body image and self worth in order to rebuild the trust in your relationship.

 ·         It's common to become suspicious of the company that your significant other is keeping when your self-esteem plummets. The way you perceive yourself may be the only thing in your relationship that has changed. 

 2.      Reflect on your past. Did something happen in your childhood that has caused you to become wary of trusting your heart to anyone? Did your parents choose to divorce when you were young? Were you sexually abused in the past?

 ·         These things and more can be responsible for your inability to trust others. When you've endured emotional trauma, especially during your youth, its effects can last decades. Speak to a therapist to help you find the root of the issue and learn how to work past the event.

 3.      Talk about any indiscretions. If there has been infidelity within your relationship, it's vital to hash out all hurt feelings and future expectations. 

 ·         If you've cheated, it's normal for your partner to act clingy for a while. They'll want to know where you are, what you're doing, and what time you'll be home. They'll ask if you'll be alone with anyone. Answer their questions truthfully and understand that they are hurting.

 4.      Recommit yourself to one another. Sometimes a relationship needs a sign of recommitment and devotion. Do something special together that signifies that your love can and will overcome anything.

 ·         If you're married, renew your vows to make it known that your love is abundant and can rise over any obstacles that life may throw your way. 

 ·         If you're dating, go away on a relaxing day trip together and write a letter to each other exclaiming your love and devotion. 

 5.      Spend more time together. Both you and your partner are constantly changing internally and your needs and wants are also subject to change. Ensure that you're truly there alongside your partner to witness and be a part of those changes by devoting more time to one another. 

 Trust is about more than believing that your partner will remain faithful. It's about trusting that your partner will always be there for you in times of need, while also being a prominent part of the most important events in your life. Work on your trust as romantic partners - and as best friends - to truly guarantee a fruitful union.

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On this week’s episode we shared with you three ways to reconnect that we have found helpful in our marriage and that has helped us to stay in the driver seat!!! We talked about how to be intentional and aware in your marriage. 

We discussed how life can sometimes get in the way and cause our relationships to go on cruise control without anyone even noticing until one day we look up and we are miles apart. Therefore, we have to be able to recognize and stay alert when things start to drift. We have to stay present and make sure that we are in the driver seat and stearing our relationship in the direction in which we want it to go at all times. Part of being aware and intentional is recognizing when the connection may be off and immediately reconnecting it.

 Sort of like when something is plugged into an outlet but may not be completely pushed in, therefore causing a disconnect of electricity. Well, that can happen in our relationship, so stand guard. And when you see or feel any disconnect that means it’s time to take action.  We also suggested that you share with us your secrets for staying connected. 

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On this episode we talked about the need to be there for family, and friends, when they need you most. We decided to share with our audience LIVE what we have been doing over the past few weeks that left us tired, crazy, yet fulfilled with God’s grace. We celebrated our Uncle’s 96 birthday and our 31st wedding anniversary in the midst of troubling times. We tell the story of how our Uncle’s and his daughter’s  health challenges put them in need and how we were so blessed to be a blessing to them. Being there for someone isn’t always easy, especially when our lives are chaotic and busy at times, but being able to realize that it’s not about you, helped us to put others first in their time of need.

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On this week’s episode Jason and I celebrate our 31st wedding anniversary!  Even though these years have flown by in the wink of an eye, we took a moment to talk about how it all started, how it’s going,  some knowledge and experience, dropping some gems and giving some nuggets.  
We talk from our own perspective and experience about the things that we’ve learned throughout our marriage, things that helped our marriage to stay strong, and the importance of experience and education that has supported us throughout the years.  We share our thoughts on family and how the importance of loving each other and accepting  each person for who they are have taken us from 1 year to 31 years. How we are still moving and growing and elevating to higher heights. And in the midst of growing how we were blessed to grow together and not apart.  
But the most important message in this week’s episode is how we joined into this marriage all-in and totally committed. How we agree that mindset, awareness, and intention are key favors in navigating your relationship.  We are looking to the future and what it holds for us, knowing it will be blessed by God and hold things for us as a couple beyond our wildest dreams.

Resources

• CASE STUDY
• When We Get Married For The Wrong Reasons
• The Scotts Story
• The importance of physical touch

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• Instagram @legendaryrelationship
• Jason's Instagram @mrjayscott
• Tina's Instagram @tinamarie_8
• Facebook Page @legendaryrelationship
• Facebook Group @marriageboss
• YouTube Channel

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Join Jason and Tina Marie with their guest, Bethany Nicole, as they talk about how to avoid making the same mistakes in dating and relationships. Bethany is an author, freelance writer, and relationship expert based in LA. She tells how she combines her background in social services with astrology and tarot card reading to give her clients relationship advice. Stay tuned!

Here’s a breakdown of what to expect in this episode:

1.     Bethany’s background in the social services field

2.     Astrology and tarot as modalities for relationship advice

3.     When it is not a match

4.     A goal of strong connections for all

5.     Relationships are not complicated

6.     And so much more!

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About Bethany Nicole:

Bethany is an LA-based author, freelance writer, and relationship expert. Her favorite shows are Married At First Sight and 90 Day Fiance. She loves making predictions of which couples are going to make it and which ones just won’t. She was also recently named one of LA’s Top 25 authors by Los Angeles Entrepreneur’s Magazine.

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You can find Bethany Nicole on . . .

Website: https://www.bethanynicole.com/

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Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!

Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.com

Legendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.com

Instagram: @legendaryrelationship

Jason’s Instagram: @mrjayscott

Tina’s Instagram: @tinamarie_8

Facebook Page: @legendaryrelationship

Facebook Group: @marriageboss

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCriE1bLih4npMYVPd4mTxiA

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This episode is very dear to us because we are celebrating our 100th recorded episode. In this episode we talk about how grateful we are and where God is leading us. We discuss plans for the future and all the special things that God has put in our hearts for this vehicle we call Loving Beyond The I Do podcast.

We share why we chose to embark upon this journey and how it has been so far. We touch on why we are making it our goal to create a safe place where couples can feel free to share and uplift each other through our Facebook Tribe, Marriage Boss. We thanked our listeners all around the world for tuning in and subscribing to find out what new and exciting things we are delivering to help take marriages off cruise control. All we can say is stay tuned for there is surely more to come.



Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!

Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.com

Legendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.com

Instagram: @legendaryrelationship

Jason’s Instagram: @mrjayscott

Tina’s Instagram: @tinamarie_8

Facebook Page: @legendaryrelationship

Facebook Group: @marriageboss

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCriE1bLih4npMYVPd4mTxiA

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What ideas did you have in your mind about how your marriage would be? Are you in the marriage you dreamed of?


Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!

Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.com

Legendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.com

Instagram: @legendaryrelationship

Jason’s Instagram: @mrjayscott

Tina’s Instagram: @tinamarie_8

Facebook Page: @legendaryrelationship

Facebook Group: @marriageboss

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCriE1bLih4npMYVPd4mTxiA

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