Trusting your partner. Pride, hardcore porn, and consensual non-consent. Being a virgin and premarital sex. Getting to the Truth. Joint bank account. Being charitable. Promises before god. Counter-cultural monogamy. Value statements. What you do with your money and what it means. Expiry dates for relationship. Trusting your partner when they can't be trusted. Is it ok if I've never dated? Why you shouldn't get married. Purity culture. Your past relationship taught you how to have bad relationships. Being close with exes. 

What to do when one of you wants sex when the other does not. Spontaneous Vs responsive desire. Strategies for signalling desire. Being sexy with hairy legs. Suggesting new ideas. A woman is not just a tube. Being horny is like yoga. Is sex bringing you closer? Erotic accelerators and brakes.

Show notes:

• Karen Pryor - Don't Shoot the Dog!
• Esther Perel - where should we begin

Loving God Loving Sex Episode 1. We talk about relationships, standards, discomfort tolerance, and how sometimes simpler is better.