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What do you do when your husband is not leading spiritually and you feel alone in your marriage?
In this live, we talk to wives who feel frustrated, disconnected, and stuck. We break down what may be happening beneath the surface, how your response can affect the relationship, and what it looks like to move forward in a biblical and healthy way.
We also share real parts of our own marriage, mistakes we made early on, and what helped bring change. This conversation is not about blaming your husband or putting everything on you. It is about growing in wisdom, understanding your patterns, and learning how to respond with God at the center.
If you have felt spiritually alone, caught in the same cycles, or unsure what to do next, this live is for you.
Highlights
0:00 Intro: when your husband isn't leading spiritually
2:00 Feeling spiritually alone in your marriage
7:00 Marriage rating exercise: where are you really at?
18:20 Love God first, not your spouse
27:10 Our early marriage story
36:15 Root issues, healing, and renewing the mind
57:05 Leadership tracking exercise
1:04:35 Core patterns: criticism, contempt, resistance, and fear
1:10:40 What to do next: prayer, fasting, and biblical response
By Alexander and Petra Rojas, M.A.What do you do when your husband is not leading spiritually and you feel alone in your marriage?
In this live, we talk to wives who feel frustrated, disconnected, and stuck. We break down what may be happening beneath the surface, how your response can affect the relationship, and what it looks like to move forward in a biblical and healthy way.
We also share real parts of our own marriage, mistakes we made early on, and what helped bring change. This conversation is not about blaming your husband or putting everything on you. It is about growing in wisdom, understanding your patterns, and learning how to respond with God at the center.
If you have felt spiritually alone, caught in the same cycles, or unsure what to do next, this live is for you.
Highlights
0:00 Intro: when your husband isn't leading spiritually
2:00 Feeling spiritually alone in your marriage
7:00 Marriage rating exercise: where are you really at?
18:20 Love God first, not your spouse
27:10 Our early marriage story
36:15 Root issues, healing, and renewing the mind
57:05 Leadership tracking exercise
1:04:35 Core patterns: criticism, contempt, resistance, and fear
1:10:40 What to do next: prayer, fasting, and biblical response