🎙️ A Rock Life Coaching & Mentoring Podcast

So many couples try to fix their marriage without first fixing their foundation — their relationship with God. When you grow individually in His presence every day, your marriage naturally begins to change. You can't pour love, peace, or grace into your spouse if you're not first receiving it from God. 💛

In this episode, we'll walk through a simple daily devotional rhythm designed to help you connect deeply with God and build a Christ-centered marriage.

✨ You'll learn: 4 daily steps to grow closer to God: • Read the Word and feed your spirit • Reflect on 3 key highlights from Scripture • Listen for God's voice in prayer • Take one obedient step each day

💍 Plus, 3 weekly steps to strengthen your marriage: • Share what God is teaching you with your spouse • Apply one biblical truth together • Commit to living it out this week

Let's build our homes and marriages on Jesus — one day, one prayer, and one act of obedience at a time.

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How do I become filled with the Holy Spirit? To become filled with the Holy Spirit requires faith and surrender to God. In Acts 2:1-4, we see that the disciples were all together in one place when suddenly a sound like a violent wind came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in tongues as the Spirit enabled them. Another way is through the laying on of hands and prayer. In Acts 8:14-17, the apostles prayed for the believers in Samaria that they might receive the Holy Spirit, and then laid their hands on them, after which they received the Holy Spirit. Hearing the gospel can also lead to receiving the Holy Spirit, as we see in Acts 10:44-45 when the Holy Spirit fell upon all those who were listening to Peter's message. Finally, Luke 11:9-13 tells us that we can ask God for the Holy Spirit and he will give it to us. So, if you want to become filled with the Holy Spirit, have faith, surrender to God, hear the gospel, and ask and keep asking God for Him.

Asking why we need to be filled by Him is an important question for Christians to consider. One reason is that He empowers us to be a witness of Jesus, as stated in Acts 1:8, where Jesus tells the disciples that they will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon them. This power gives us strength, ability, and enables us to perform miracles, all for the purpose of going into all the world to be a witness of Jesus Christ.

Another reason is that He anoints us to do our purpose, as stated in 2 Corinthians 1:21-22. God makes us stand firm in Christ, anoints us, sets His seal of ownership on us, and puts His Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come. This anointing gives us the ability to fulfill the purpose that God has for us.

Being filled by Him empowers us to be a witness of Jesus and anoints us to do our purpose. It is essential for Christians to seek the Holy Spirit's filling to live a fulfilled life and fulfill their God-given purpose.

Who is He?

The Holy Spirit is the third person of the Holy Trinity, along with God the Father and Jesus Christ the Son. This 3 part series on Receiving the Holy Spirit will cover, Who is He, Why Do I Need to be Filled with Him, How to Become Filled with Him, and How to Cultivate a Relationship with Him.

The Holy Spirit is first introduced in the book of Genesis, where He is revealed as the Spirit of God who hovered over the waters during the creation of the world. He is also described as a person with a will, who can be grieved or resisted. Lastly, He is a promise given by Jesus Himself, who told His disciples that He would send the Spirit to be with them after His departure.

Water Baptism is a transformative act that combines this a physical event with significant spiritual implications. It involves repentance, forgiveness, the cleansing of sins, and symbolizes the burial of one's old self. Every believer is called to be water baptized in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Conflict resolution in a relationship involves yielding to your spouse to clearly define the problem. It also includes fostering mutual understanding and empathy about the problem and respecting each other's perspectives. Ultimately, conflict resolution is about reaching a positive solution. It may sound simple, but it requires a great deal of emotional strength and intentionality.

Unity and understanding are essential in marriage. My spouse is my partner for fulfilling God's purpose. To experience unity, I must align my perspective with God's. Not being understood in marriage can be frustrating, leading to disconnect. On the other hand, unity and understanding create a strong bond, fostering love, support, and growth in the relationship.

Our perspective can be shaped by our past relationships, upbringing, and traumatic experiences, which are referred to as triggers. Unfortunately, these triggers can impact how we respond to our spouse during challenging moments. Here, we will learn how to identify your triggers in conflict and process with the 5-step journaling skill.

The 4 Horsemen, coined by John Gottman, are communication styles that can lead to divorce if left unchecked. Recognizing their presence during conflicts is crucial. This session will teach you about the horsemen and how to apply the right antidotes to minimize conflict in your marriage.

Conflict in marriage can feel like a repetition of arguments and discussions that never get resolved. This is due to the Conflict Cycle and the three outcomes that keep you from being understood by your spouse. Here you will learn about the three outcomes and one simple skill that will deescalate conflict in your marriage.